Mrs. Judge Talks Alexis
Tamara shares some secrets of her wedding and discusses Lauri's allegations and where she differes from Gretchen.
I NOW PRONOUNCE YOU MAN AND WIFE: MR. AND MRS. JUDGE. I am a Real Housewife again.
We are still on am emotional high from our wedding last Saturday. It was an amazing day that we will remember forever. The day was perfect, the sun was shinning, not a cloud in the sky and the ocean breeze felt good. We were surrounded by 100 of our closest friends and family members. Sophia was the flower girl and stole everyone's heart with her emotional embrace. Sidney and Spencer were bridesmaid/groomsmen and it melted my heart to see them walk down the aisle arm in arm. I honestly feel like the luckiest woman in the world. The wedding was elegant, emotional, humorous, and ended with a BIG sparkly surprise.
Mr. Judge I love you with all my heart and I thank you so much for loving me and my children. I am honored to be your wife and take your last name.
Mrs. Tamra Judge! That's right I am changing my name so Bravo you need to update your website. I cant wait to share my wedding with all the viewers on September 2 on Tamra's OC Wedding!
As my bridesmaid Vicki would say. . . .WOO-HOO!
It's been a while since I have watched this episode so I'll comment on what stands out in my mind -- Salsa Party!
You know how I love a good theme party. I actually wanted a Old Hollywood themed wedding if Eddie would have agreed. Since Eddie is Latin I thought it would be fun to go all out with our costumes. Eddie loves to dance, me not so much. I have been taking lessons lately and starting to enjoy it.
Now looking back, I see Lauri really has an agenda and wants to bring Vicki DOWN. I had heard that Brooks had been seen out on a few dates around town but I had NEVER heard that he was paying a young girl. I am mad at myself for entertaining the conversation. At that time I had not heard that she was saying other things about Vicki. I find it strange that she came back to try and ruin Vicki, yet she is so nice to Vicki's face.
Slade making fun of Lydia being too skinny was not nice. He seems to have a pattern of making fun of women -- not a nice characteristic in a man. Even if he was joking the part that annoyed me was his passive aggressive/reverse psychology. When he was caught he should have said, "I am sorry I was not trying to hurt your feelings." Instead he said things like, "We're all fat and shouldn't eat cheeseburgers, but you should." When she said you should make fun of women he again made a statement like, "You're a much better person than me." That kind of behavior drives me nuts. Take ownership for what you are saying and stop blowing smoke up her ass.
When I met Alexis for lunch I told her that we should keep things between us for a while because I didn't want any outside influences. I wanted to get to know Alexis and try and bond on things that we DO have in common and not dwell on the things that we DO NOT have in common. It was hard for me to tell Gretchen that I made peace with Alexis, and she really made me feel horrible when she heard I invited her.
I invited everyone to my dress shopping day because it was MY day and I COULD! I did not expect anyone to have a problem with it. Gretchen had no problem being at the Salsa Party with Alexis and even gave her a hug goodbye. I was so confused and even considered rescinding the invitation to make Gretchen happy. Gretchen was right, I was not extremely close to Alexis at the time -- but I was trying to move on and get her more involved in the group of girls. I did not have drama on my mind. I had dress shopping on my mind.
Here is the biggest difference between me and Gretchen: I forgive, forget, and move on. I do not hold a grudge like her. People make mistakes, no one is perfect. But, it is very hard to move on with someone when they wont let things go.
I wish Vicki and Gretchen could get along. I see both sides and it's hard for me to be neutral. It was very exciting to finally get our private label bottles from the winery. How do you like the labels? Please go to WinesbyWives.com and check out.
I am off for a mini pre-honeymoon getaway with my husband...I love calling him that! The real honeymoon will be in a few months when we have more time. CUT Fitness continues to grow and keeps us very busy. Please come by and see us if your in the area. Our new website should be up soon. . .keep checking back.
You can check out our private pictures of our Wedding in this weeks issue of US Weekly.
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