I am so disappointed with the show this season. I have watched this show from the beginning, and it is sad to see what it has become. Tamara seems to be insecure, mean and out of control as the shows progress and it has caused an infectious and toxic environment that is becoming difficult to watch. Vicki seems timid, withdrawn and lonely. Gretchen can't have a positive thought or say a positive word, and there just doesn't seem to be anything fun about the show. Why on earth has it become entertainment to watch women treat each other with such disrespect and hate? Why not just walk away if you don't care for each other? Are these women so financially driven that they need this money so desperately? I think this is it for me and this series. This is not entertainment.

Tamra, Gretchen, and Heather are definitely BULLIES.......If someone were treating your kids the way you treat Alexis, I bet you'd change your tune. I would be careful if I were you ladies, karma is a B-t-h. Don't be surprised if your kids are next In line to be bullied. All I see is Vicky and Alexis trying to keep the peace and get along, while the 3 musketeers, continue with their mean girl ACT. Grow up. I'm sure the ratings won't drop due to you bullies, not being bullies. Tamra, Gretchen, and Heather. Lydia ughhh, no words, you seemed to be choosing a side without full knowledge of the history from last season.

Just tuning in this season and cannot diagnose except for many strikingly similar instances whose effects are near-exactly similar. Has it not occurred to any of you or the producers that Vicki exhibits 7 of the 8 signs of having been severely abusec as a very young , which went on for many years?

I think Tamra is a Bully and not a very nice Lady,if that's what you want to call her.And Heather thinks she above everyone,I don't think I would want to be friends with anyone of these Lady's they are not nice to one another.And Vickie is all messed up she needs to take a brake and not worry about finding a man for right now,And the man she calls boyfriends he useing her,she just doesn't see it,I fill sorry for her Daughter.

I would not say there was anything lady-like in the way Tamra showed Alexis the door. That statement just tries to diminish how aggressive that move of Tamra's was. As far as the "glazing over" comment is concerned, it was One of the Heathers showing how much better she is is.

I used to really like Gretchen but since shes become buddies with Tamra she seems to becoming pretty evil.

Is Tamra paid to be so mean and hateful?  She mentioned on WWHL quite a few times that Andy pays her a lot of money to be on this show. 

Oh yes, it could have been preventable if Vicky hadnt thanked Tamra for allowing Alexis to attend. That only gave Tamra the chance to say," oh yeah, why did you want to come here in the first place?" That's when the fights, yes fights began. I have to admit, it's been hard to go from watching RHOBH to RHOOC. When the BH girls have a party, it's a real party with a lot of people. Had me thinking, Tamra must not have that many friends. Gee, I wonder why? Even in the most dire of situations, Lisa Vanderpump would never kick anyone out of her party. Tamra needs to take somemore etiquette class's. The special wine glass's for her only two friends at her "party" was beyond classless. Yes, Tamra needs more etiquette class's.

Wow...had to take a shower after this episode.  You know what I would love to see for any future dinners?  How about Yolanda and Lisa strolling in and taking seats at the table?  Wouldn't you LOVE to see what direction and tone the "conversation" would take? 

Just picture it.

At the gym there were six people: White trash and an idiot all in one, Tamra White trash , an idiot in her own right and Tamra's idiot, Gretchen A smart and savvy yet wounded, Vicky A squeaky, sweet, doesn't know what's going on, Lydia A know it all, delusional, frozen face, Heather A beautiful, well intended woman, Alexis

So, when I started watching the Real Housewives (any and all franchises) - I thought the premise was that it was a group of ladies that were friends or friendly and their lives.  Having a group of women that don't care for each other and the ensuing high drama and fighting isn't entertaining.  I really began to not enjoy the RHOC last year, gave this year a shot, but am officially done.  It also "seems" by way of the blogs or the reunion shows that there is a lot off camera affecting what's on camera and it leaves the viewers at a disadvantage.  I wish you ladies the best, but I'm out.

f you are going to get rid of anyone - oust Vicki and Alexis - they are the hypocrits - they claim to be great Christians but don't live the life.  Have we ever seen them do anything for anybody - they are both - just self serving.

Bravo...... How about finding a extraordinarily rich, African American, Orange County, fabulous Housewife, and let us see if this wouldn't be a storyline to shift the show?  Lets see Tamera, Gretchen, Heather cut up against her.........uuh not!  If that had been me that Tamera attempted to shift in a chair, I gua-ran-tee, things would have gone altogether different.  Sometimes you just have to stand up to stop the madness...pun intended!

Editor, isn't anyone besides me tired of watching women tear into each other like wild dogs? That's why Honey Boo Boo is such a success--they genuinely love each other and are kind to each other. My beloved real housewives are becoming increasingly vile and unwatchable.

I think if they got rid of Tamara, Heather and Gretchen would behave differently.  For some reason  when people hang out with Tamra they become extremely petty and mean. I am very disappointed by the way Gretchen has changed since she has become friends with Tamra. 

Housewives who are overly mean, or dishonest, or mentally ill or addicts, they are not entertaining. They are just uncomfortable to watch.

Dump Tamra and Gretchen. That should scare Heather straight. She is amusingly awful – so she should stay.  Keep Vicki, and add Briana as an official housewife. Lydia seems good, and Alexis is still growing as a cast member. Tamra and Gretchen must go!

Please let Tamra, Gretchen and Heather go.  It is not entertainment, it is not controversial, Over it!  From an actual RHOC these three bring shame to this county!  Go back to your roots Bravo.

There WAS a group of us that got together to watch this show, but after the last episode we are DONE.  If you think this is entertainment Bravo, you are as delusional as Tamra.  Time for a new cast or you just lost viewers.  I'm done with this franchise!

Maybe all of us should start a campaign.....  '' Get Rid Of The Three Muskateers '' before next season starts to film..... replace them Bravo or you may lose viewership.  We could call it the GROTTM movement.......campaign starts NOW.

Does Bravo thinks this is what all women want..... hateful towards each other.   that is not fun.  A little argument once in a while is fine and funny but this is out of hand.  The three muskateers have proven who they are - again - mean girls.  I'm talking Gretchen, Tamra and Heather.  This behavior makes you ugly in other women's eyes....

Oh my god! You are hilarious! Best recap EVER!! Tamra has a black belt in bullying and needs to go. With her in the mix there will never be any hope for a show I actually enjoy watching. I don't watch OC anymore because frankly it stresses me out too much! But I still have your recaps which are much more tolerable!

You should have not casted Tamra. She adds nothing but nastiness. Will not be watching the show this season. Actually will not be watching until she is long gone. Viewers watch to be entertained not to feel angry and outraged over their behavior. In Tamra's words "DONE"

I love Tamra, Gretchen, and Heather.  Thy are strong women who are assertive and say what they mean and mean what they say.  I do not think that either of them is hateful or a bully.  They are not victims.  They are adult women who have a voice and address situations.  Alexis is pretentious, fake, and cannot stand anyone who disagrees with her.  Tamra was right to throw her out.  If she felt so bullied, she should never have come, after all, she was not invited by the host.

Of course Alexis will be back next year, if she is invited......she loves the chance at fame.

Please get rid of Tamra.  You are losing viewership as of this last episode.

Tamra,s party was ruined by tamra alone...she started the drama and I'm sure he was planning to the whole time.

With all the bullying and negativity going on in the world bravo needs to lighten up the real housewives franchises.  Tamra, Gretchen, and Heather are bullies whether they want to acknowledge it or not.  Bravo please empower women by showing women working together not tearing each other apart.  I think I am finished with RHOOC

These ladies are paid to be on a show together. Of course they eventually have to be together. I thought Alexis went there with good intentions. Walking in there must have been really scary. Alexis did try to stop the ugliness from the get-go, then all the hens jumped in.

I said it before....Tamra is a mean, vile woman.

Well reading the comments, I have a truly different take than everyone..  I am a victim of workplace bullying and I can describe exactly how each person's has placed themselves into this scenario..  Vicki and Tamra were very close..  Both did not like Slade and made fun of Gretchen being with Slade - Tamra to the point of getting Gretchen so drunk and then having her son try to get it on with her in the bathroom..  Vicki sat back and watched.  Some claim that Alexis bullied Vicki in SF, but she didn't.  She and Vicki had a somewhat heated discussion, but the other women didn't jump in on Vicki and start shouting at her, talking her down, putting her down..  They just kept it for the cameras..  Now Gretchen claims that Alexis has it coming because she did it to Vicki.  Gretchen wants to make sure the target stays off of her back, therefore she will do whatever Tamra wants..  Plain and simple.  Gretchen made a very stupid statement about "if we are bullying her, why does she hang around us?"  Well just like in the workplace, she doesn't have a choice - she has too.  Vicki on the other hand has reflected on the past and is taking the heat, kind of like Yom Kuppir, atoning for her bad behavior in the past - now seeing it through the eyes of others..  Alexis is trying to work with the girls, but the minute she says one thing wrong, they jump and then she naturally feels attacked and as she tries to talk with one person, someone else starts yelling at her, so now she is trying to converse with a second person as well as finish a conversation with the first person, now third person - we will call her Heather, must feel relevant in the conversation, so third person blows over a look, Heather really doesn't have any ammunition..  So now Alexis is trying to communicate with all three on three different topics - and anyone would have difficulty doing that... The three in turn justify their behavior by blaming Alexis because she is the target - which I still have not quite gotten why she is the target, other than Tamra wants to be queen bee of the show, and control everyone, which will eventually cause a rift between her and Heather, because Heather is queen bee of OCD..   Now that being said - I take Xanax - that doesn't mean you can't drink..  You just don't take the Xanax if you are going to have a drink..  If Alexis wants to wear fake rings, so what - she lives in a nice house and because these ladies have never heard renting in a bad economy, wearing false jewelry to a foreign country - it is all "pretentious" to them..  Does she choose to keep things from the women??  Yes and so they think she is phony..  Who cares??  That is no reason to be attacking her, because not one of them are "real" as Tamra claims she needs to be..  Some people seem phoney but really aren't - but you have to take the time to get to know them, to find out that they aren't - they just come across that way...  But that still is not a reason to bully them - Thank God for Dr. V last night confirming they are bullying, where Tamra then goes and argues with the Psychiatrist about whether she is bullying..  and Tamra is full of it with this suing thing..  She just used something else to turn the girls against Alexis..  From someone who has spent the last 6 years recovering from workplace bullying and looking forward to going back into the workplace, albeit slowly...  Now Bravo, how are you going to handle this - are you going exploit for monetary gain, or use it as training tool to help others recognize the concept of how bullying truly works with adults, and find ways to help others deal with it??

There are many post about how Alexis isn't that smart. Well, I rather be her than someone like  disgusting Tamara or Gretchen