Hello children. I hope the child locks on the doors are engaged because there is no escaping this recap. And unlike Vicki, I know where you live, so you might as well embrace it.
My Opinion Way or the High Opinion Way
We open back at the dinner party, with Tamra trying to move Alexis' chair out into the parking lot. Unsurprisingly, once someone tries to move her cheese chair, she takes this as a cue to leave. While she waits for her limo, she tries her darnedest to get the definition of bullying through to Lydia (her Webster-worthy example: Costa Rica). Meanwhile again, inside the gals are discussing San Francisco (What did I tell you last week? Just put the clip on your phone ladies, you always want to reference it) and how it relates to the general term bullying. Heather goes so far as to defend Vicki and mention that it speaks volumes that she didn't also scoot her chair out to the parking lot to wait for the limo with Alexis.
While Heather is working on that barrel of monkeys, Vicki and Gretchen are having their own issues. And then, Vicki's plan to stay neutral is not working because Alexis feels like the longer she's inside the gym, the more unloyal she becomes. And then Vicki trots out to the car, and then Tamra trots out to stand near the car just in time to hear Alexis announce her Xanax dosage. Between the crying and the yelling and Tamra standing with the wine glass lording over the limo, God bless anyone that drove by the parking lot that night. It was quite a sight.
You know who else has Way Opinions? The viewers and they are telling you what they think about the mean girls behavior.... are you listening to your viewer base?
I have to say out of all the house wives Kim is really great about keeping up on FB and twitter, she has many times responded personally to my posts, And always shares photos and keeps us all informed , Also not one week has gone by where she does not thank the viewers of tardy for watching..Kim takes the time to be gracious and even when she is poked at or chastised and some can be ruthless.
Brooks is a creep. That's all you need to know.
I think bravo should host a contest where a viewer or two gets to fly in to be part of the reunion special. It can be towards the end of the show where Andy entertains viewer comments and one or two can be live and give their opinion to the cast in person. I think it would make for great tv to have " real women" give their honest opinions about the show and the cast and how the viewers see the housewives. The contest would of course create buzz for the show and get more viewers involved. Just a thought. And of course, I would like credit for this fabulous idea. ;)
@Pa-x This idea is fabuluzzzzz....but heres how I would do it...allow 1 fan per castmate....at the 4th segment of the reunuin, these chosen fans will sit behind their favorite castmate...and will each get to voice how they feel about whatever hot topics went on that season...we don't need no shy viewers...you need to keep your wits about you, speak on topic....be respectful...no hair pulling or eyelash flying ... but me? I have a tendency to get off topic, way too easily...but every reunion, the questions don't really get addressed...and this may be necessary for continuance of drama...if they give me a Hermez bag, I will wear a fairy butterfly costume and dance across the floor with my amazing Havanese pup....she actually stands on 2ft and dances with me...I will toss my recipe of sand and glitter that doubles as fairy dust ... a good reunion blessing is always needed..
Really? I did not use any offensive language in my comment and you guys don't print it. Are you afraid it will offend these classy ladies' sensibilities? Yeah, right...
Vicki, in past episodes you were extreme, independent, strong-you conducted yourself as a single woman. Don was an awesome man. He accepted and helped you raise your children (both of who you love so much). You rarely invited Don to travel. You apparently enjoyed playing single. He was a great man because he loved your kids, and I’m sure you put them 1st and Don accepted it. Now, you met brooks: he has questionable intentions. Always remember that when people are on the out side looking in, and give you their opinion, they’re usually correct. You’re blindsided by this person. His true self surfaced-he's dating. Your to special to stay and put up with this, move on again there are plenty of men that would be true to you..for you.
You are so funny! I think Jo acted like a child too! I could not stand when she would talk baby talk to Slade or when she played the dumb girl act! It was embarrassing! She acted like a young high school girl.
Vicki seriously tell your arrogant son-in-law to leave. Whether or not the kids like your boyfriend is not your problem. I'm sure the $1000/mo they pay doesn't cover the electric bill. Who tells the owner of the house AND their mother-in-law who they can date? I mean that's so wrong. You're too easy going.
cara.coslow Really?? Any business person knows that when you make a deal (or sign a contract), you are obligated to live by it. That was their agreement when the kids moved in, so if she didn't want to live that way, she shouldn't have agreed in the first place. I think it speaks volumes that her son won't even tell her where he lives, for fear of her embarrassing and harassing behavior. She is hardly the victim she claims to be!
I just don't want to see anymore of Brooks. That guy is a slimy manipulating user (I am being nice here for sake of profanity that really fits him). Everyone can see it except Vickie. I'm not really a fan of hers, but I hate to see her involved with this guy who is obviously just using her for his own personal agenda, whatever that is. I would suspect he wants to be a reality star and make some money off of that like the rest of them do. I don't blame her daughter or son-in-law for the way they feel. However, Vickie needs to STOP with using the "victim" card as to the reason she does not see Brooks anymore. Vickie is not STUPID, although she is acting it right now over him. She needs to open her eyes and see this guy for what he really is. I mean good grief.. when EVERYONE on the planet can see through him, why can't she. I think she is enjoying the victim role, especially now that Don is gone and she can't use him for it anymore. Vickie has a need to be the center of attention at all times. She forces it at her business, but away from there, her ego isn't fed, so she belittles and berates those in her life and around her so that SHE looks better than them. I personally think she needs some serious counseling.
As for Briana and the baby, maybe it would be better if she moved OUT of her mom's house.. I don't buy the part about Briana helping her mom out "financially" - she doesn't need it. Vickie could pay for a part time Nanny for Briana and rent in a nice place and then have her home to herself to do as she wants in it. But honestly.. Vickie does not want to do that because then she would have no one to "blame" for her lack of lovelife and her victim status would be eliminated. Vickie just needs to ADMIT that she loves her daughter and her family, and that is the ONLY reason they are living with her, and stop using Brooks or anyone else as a reason to continue her victim status. Life would be a lot happier for everyone involved. She also needs to keep her nose out of everyone's business. She has always been a "Pot Stirrer", talks behind EVERYONE'S back, and stirs the shit more than the rest of them. Take a serious TIME OUT Vickie and just enjoy what you have - which is MORE than most !!!!
Just my opinion.
@ladyspirit wow! Couldn't of said it better myself
How are often is the cast required to blog? Has Bravo given some of the cast a free pass for their bad behavior?
mks123456
Blogging is not mandatory, but highly recommended to help the cast stay in the publics eye and inspire more interest in the show. Very rarey do they blog immediately after a "bad" showing and if they do they will immediately blog again to keep the negative commentts to a minimum. Be patient Tamera and Gretchen will blog again and you can have your say then.
Hulali mks123456
Tamra made it clear (on WWH-Live)that Bravo pays her good money so she will do what she wants, say what she wants and who gives a crap if people like her or not. It is obvious that she could care less about what the viewers think and frankly, it's Bravo's job to care.
I used to really love(d) this show. It's a hot mess right now. I don't watch the show - too much negativity and it is painful to watch. Bravo - time for change!!
I find it interesting that Tamra doesn't post blogs like the other women. Why is that? I enjoy her take on things but lately she is getting so upset when something is not going her way. She needs to calm down and talk with a mild tone and go off the handle like a mad dog.
Did anyone notice that Heather isn't household name enough to be on the cover of Lydia's magazine. That was delicious.
Tamera is a beautiful woman. I don't care what she says as long as I can feast my eyes on her. I love her "done" scene -Loved it!
Vickie,Vickie,Vickie. Almost boring dear. Spinning her crazy talk. How did she spin Gretchen's catching her stupid, self centered statement about her grandchild into Gretchen disrespecting her family? This is why we watch friends!
I was pleased with Gretchen's viewpoint of the post surgery of her boyfriend's son. Gretchen is NOT stupid. She actually has a proper outlook.
@Mangokitten I guess this issue with Heather and the mag would only really be true if in fact Lydias magazine was a household name sitting on coffee tables everywhere....I don't imagine it has that big of a following.....only BH.....
I enjoyed your blog, and that is about it! From the looks of it, Tamra doesn't have two dimes to rub together. She rides around in limos rented by Bravo, she throws parties paid for by bravo, her engagement ring and trip to the islands was paid for by bravo. And yet, she is the most obnoxious Housewife on Bravo, and I can't stand stand to watch her anymore. I used to to tape the show, now I can barely get through the episode once. I am soooo over her!
rudy90210 And her wedding will be a Bravo affair.
Please Andy, bring Jeana back. She can handle Tamra. :-)
@lovemydogs I wish Jeana was back on the show too! She was the voice of reason! I am looking forward to seeing Lauri come back this season too!
@Sonya777 Jeana totally bored me...she was such a slow talker....I was so glad she left...I tried to watch this show when she was on, but find I have viewer ADD and have to channel surf...the other annoying woman was Jo....she acted 14.... and Lauri...the woman who spent all that money on a cheesy wedding...she was constantly flaunting cars, homes and other material goods that I desperately wanted to have...I found myself wanting to come to OC and steal her man....and then I saw him...and thought...nahhhh....you get a break this time Lauri
Alexis: Class act, never goes to visit with empty hands.
Tamra: Still in a lot of pain from her divorce, evidently.
Vicki: Afraid they'll keep her from seeing the baby if she sees Brooks.
Heather: No excuse, should be nicer.
Gretchen: In a lot of pain and stress evidently, used to be nicer.
Lydia: Liked her until she said, "Now I understand why they don't like her."
San Whatever vs. Costa Rica: One person piping up in San Whatever vs. a bunch of people piping up in Costa. Big difference. Issues are not handled gang-up style, and yes, that's bullying. Get over yourselves.
@Jenizona Alexis always bringing her own food and gifts looks like she feels insecure about her "new" friendships....if everytime you see someone, you have gift in hand, it eventually makes that person uncomfortable, because they have not done the same....it looks like she isn't able to win that person over unless she keeps them gifted...I don't think she had many friends as a child.....Tamra: Realized that she might be in the same relationship as the one she got out of...nothing she has done has been independently...she now lives under someone elses roof...fitness studios are so overdone...most people invest in their own equipment now....Vicki: Has made a choice...Brooks is just not worth the risk of alienating her family...all she needs to do is sit tight...my predict is that Briana is getting a dose of Ryans control tactics...Vicki will have her daughter and her grandson to herself....sit tight....Heather: Was not ready to give up her NY life....she wants to have it all....likely Terry did the show mainly after the free advertising, to satisfy his wife....thought she would be happy with "some" exposure...but everytime it shows him being browbeat, he loses a patient...Gretchen: A woman who has put many things on hold....but seems to have found some success in her business...her friendship with Tamra was essential to her future on the show as Alexis was not the popular girl...she went with the dingy that was still afloat...who can blame her...its about survival....Lydia: The new girl....she seems to be super resilient and tolerant because of having to be the sober one in a house of adults...maybe the show needed this type of personality to break the alliances.....her mom is a card carrying fairy who will toss dust in your face upon meeting her....maybe it will be the thing that keeps them all centered...and at least quiet, opening your mouth while a handful of fairy dust is airborne can be hazardous....
Tamara and Heather are the worst.
I feel like a minority.. but here goes - I cannot stand Alexis - and am so disappointed that she came back, while Tamra is a talk before she things kind of girl, at least she has a brain and isn't a broken record. Alexis ugh.. I sometimes fast forward thru her and Jim at home - I just could care less about her.
NMFAN Vicki and Alexis deserve each other
The behavior at the dinner party was despicable! Tamra should be ashamed of herself, with Gretchen close behind. Gretchen used to be my favorite - she was a younger, fun-loving, bubbly, and somewhat ditzy woman! Now, with hanging in Tamra's posse, she is starting to become the epitomy of Mean Girl. I don't really know who Vicki is anymore, but it's seems as if she's trying to stay above the fray. Alexis can't seem to get a word in edge-wise, but also seems to feel the need to defend every little jab thrown at her. I like Heather at some moments, but can't stand her at others. I think watching her interactions with her husband and family - good, bad, or indifferent, because at least they seem more 'real' than all of these Real Housewives catastrophe dinner parties. Lydia is a fun new addition, she's genuine, articulate and isn't afraid of giving her opinion even if it's not what someone wants to hear.
It's time to find a replacement for Tamra before she completely drags down the entire show. She was no story to tell ... Her kids aren't allowed on the show, she had move into someone else house, that boyfriend, what's his name? Fred?, has the personality of a dishrag, that fitness center opening from a person who doesn't work out, should I continue? If this phony wedding is going to take another season, I'm out. This extremely poorly constructed drama is like watching a middle school play. If you watched Watch What Happens Live, Tammy said its all fake. And Dr. V called her a bully. Tammy Sue needs to go.
KatyT That's how I feel about Vicki
All I have to say is Kenya Moore!! She has a different personality for all these women including Lydia! I can see her sparking flames from heather! Please Andy Cohen get Kenya on this show!!!
KyChocol8
please Andy take Kenya OFF BRAVO and keep her off!!!!!!!! Between Tamera, Vicki, the crazy blonde gal (That was once Dancing with the Stars) and Crazy Alexis we do not need any more CRAZY!!!!!!!!!
trish714 KyChocol8 Which blonde was on dancing with the stars? I only know of a British brunette.
@KyChocol8 why would they put a wackadoodle from Atlanta on the RHOC? She is not from the OC and not remotely a real housewife..I think Kenya is barley hanging on by a thread as it is ,,,,She is Gone with the wind crazy , lazy,and such a looser and a vindictive has been, that's just silly..She is not even close to being a so Cali South County OC housewife...sheesh,,,
The OC franchise USED to be my favorite. I cant take the negativity anymore and the "bullying" debate.Yes some fighting makes good reality TV but this is just too much. Its not fun to watch. So far I'm really disappointed in this season.
Tamara always has to have someone on the "hot seat".. Gretchen, Vicky, now Alexis.. always someone. Gretchen is fickle.. she thinks being on "team Tamara" somehow makes her cool (and to remain on Tamara's team she must dislike Alexis, too). Vicki is loyal to no one. She wants to tell everyone how to live their lives, but refuses to stand up to her children. Heather is a whiny drag . Welcome to 5th grade all over again.
Here, here!
@ScottJames Brillant!
Ok I was team Gretchen from her first season. I found her to be so sweet and sincere. I am starting to find it really really hard to stay on team Gretchen and boy am I trying.
Very funny!
I'm liking the new girl for sharing her common sense opinions! Oh what trouble that is going to cause her.
No blogs from Tamra or her coven?
lovemydogs Tamera has been trash from the first season and just gets trashier and trashier - no need to read her trash too
trish714 lovemydogs so true, but I am surprised since she always has SO much to say. :-)
I felt like I needed to take a shower after watching this episode! Yuck! Since when has Heather become a doctor? She has said she's an actress, singer, and radio host, now a doctor? Hate to break the news, honey, some people take antidepressants for chemical imbalances and life changes that are out of their control. I don't think making fun of it was very smart. It just showed ignorance.
wiscfan Very well said Wiscfan! Xanax is used for anxiety disorders, and
antidepressants have been used to treat other conditions, such as smoking
cessation, you're right on target. Besides, Heather seems to be hitting the "champs" (I hate that expression!) pretty hard!! I thought Heather's behavior may have been worse than the others, perhaps it's because I think she can be intelligent, and I know Tamara and Gretchen are completely unarmed in that
category...as Lisa Vanderpump would say, LOL!
Where are Tamra's blogs? A bully is really a coward and her not posting anything after the last two shows confirms this.
BTW FORGOT TO ADD ITS BULLYING !!!! AND I DONT CARE IF U POST THIS OR NOT...LOL !!!!





Did anyone else notice that Trailer Park Tamera has not blogged this season?
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