Cast Blog: #RHOC

Heather: "I Don't Want Tamra to Do Anything Rash"

Heather doesn't think her advice to Tamra about not having a baby was harsh, she was just being a good friend.

Meanwhile ... Back in Hawaii....Vicki and Brooks are still together, and after talking to Vicki in Hawaii, I'm completely supportive of that decision. I just want Vicki to be happy and she is a strong, smart woman who is capable of making her own decisions.

To the bar: Why are Vicki and Tamra so interested in getting me wasted and on a bar? It's not me. I don't enjoy shots. I know I'm "Fancy Pants" and I embrace that, but that doesn't mean I don't like to have fun. The question is, do I have to behave the same way as Tamra and Vicki do in order to be their friends? If we were all exactly the same wouldn't it be so boring??

Vicki's said she has three qualities she looks for in a friend. She couldn't remember the third one (typical Vicki) but the other two were "laugh with you," and "learn from you." Well, we have laughed a lot together but it doesn't seem as if she wants to learn anything from me! If I talk about anything Vicki doesn't know about she gets annoyed with me.

Spooky party: This was a very fun party! Tamra did a great job and yes, she scared the crap out of me! I love a theme party and thankfully a perfect opportunity to draw on a third eye to hide my blemish!

I was really glad that Shannon made some connections that night. She shared a lot of information about her marriage with the group. I can't tell if she is just someone that is an open book, or if she doesn't have a good support system of friends with whom to talk.Dinner with Shannon and Tamra: When I said to Shannon "people like you," it was not meant to be negative. It's actually not a bad sentiment -- it's what follows that matters... If I said to Tamra, "People like you who live a fit and healthy lifestyle, etc., etc.," would Tamra have taken offense to that? Why is it that anything and everything I say has to be picked apart and commented on?

Tamra and Eddie having a baby: I took what Tamra said at dinner to mean she wanted a baby to fill the void because her kids are gone 50 percent of the time. Had she said I love Eddie and we want to have a baby together I would have said, "Great, exciting!" My having an opinion about what's going in with Tamra is normal. We have talked about the idea of having another baby for over a year. I care about her and I just don't want her to do anything rash. This is being a friend. She wouldn't want me to yes her. If the roles were reversed I would want and expect her to tell me how she felt.

Shannon saying that I have too many opinions shouldn't be a red flag. Getting free dentistry because you saved a nation however? Raise it up, girl.

Getting ready for Shannon's dinner party: I was a little stressed because we were leaving for NY the next day with the kids for Thanksgiving. The reason I had a rolling rack set up in my bedroom was because I was packing and I've found that's the easiest way to do it. I love my Cocobean but she can certainly be a handful! She's the cutest little thing though and is constantly making me laugh. Her pink Superman pajamas are just so Coco!

On to dinner... I LOVE a dinner party. Shannon has a lovely home and I was really looking forward to it. I was touched by her attention to detail remembering I drink champagne and that I don't eat dairy. These are signs of a very good hostess!

Shannon and David's behavior at the party was just awkward. They seem to feel very comfortable arguing in front of us even though we barely know them. I have to say at this point I'm worried for them. Vicki is right, if this is what they show the world, what goes on behind closed doors?

Well, the drama continues next week. Stay tuned...

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Shannon Settles the Score

If Andy's asking "What's the score, Shannon Beador?" Shannon thinks she's definitely won.

This is Blog #20, my last Blog for the season! The past year was been a wild ride for both me and for my family. I have come to many realizations about myself, made lifelong friends, experienced some tough moments, and embarked on a path to a more peaceful self. So to use Andy’s phrase, “What's the score, Shannon Beador?” I would say without a doubt that I have definitely won.

I am happy that the viewers got a little glimpse into my sometimes unconventional ways! For me, it's all about good energy. I love that Vicki’s business has clearly benefited from trying feng shui with Elaine Wright. If you can't get hurt, there is no reason to try anything holistic. If you actually benefit, why wouldn't anyone want to go the natural way? If my children tend to feel better after seeing Dr. Moon and not have to take antibiotics, then I am a happy mom. It's all about creating a healthy balance!

I am an open book and am often criticized for it, but I am who I am. I don't know many couples married for 13 years that have a perfect relationship. Everyone has ups and downs, and although it may be difficult and require effort, it is possible to move through it and make things better. I have said it many times in the season that divorce is not an option. I will always fight for my marriage and my family. It truly touches my heart that so many fans have been and continue to root for David and I. I am so appreciative and grateful for all of your positive comments! Thank you!

Do Tamra and Heather truly want to move forward and potentially develop a friendship with me? Only time will tell. But for now, I have amazing friends surrounding me, including Vicki Gunvalson and Lizzie Rovsek. And most importantly, I have been blessed with the most incredible family anyone could ask for. That is where all of my energy is focused.

I will never forget this entire year, both the good and the bad, because each moment took me on the journey to where I am today. And today, I am in a phenomenal and happy place. Thank you for taking this journey with me!

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