In Bali, Lizzie Rovsek and Tamra Barney face-off over Lizzie's birthday party and whether or not she wore pants to it.

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FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Are these all the friends Lizzie wanted at her party?  She just joined in this group, did she not anticipate vacant seats?  She had family to invite....this show is not worth wasting a year older celebration for....The people you love should attend your birthday party..or dinner or whatever....she will not get that year back....if that was her husband's idea, I don't blame her for being angry....The party bus was stupid....no one came because they figured the footage would be on the edit room floor...if they did not fill up the bus and give good footage...they do not like Lizzie and did not want her to be the focus in any on camera scenes....so they shut that down...but Brooks probably begged Vicki to go....so he could once again rub it in Brianna and Tamras face that he is a relevant game piece....poor Liz

reginae
reginae

I have never been a fan of Tamra and I do like Lizzie. But geesh Lizzie give it a rest already with the birthday party. I can understand her feeling hurt but birthdays are not a major holiday.

ritavala
ritavala

Get you stories straight if you keep on lying. I don't believe anyone...anymore. Shannon you are in the dark because not one, except Heather, IS telling the truth. Now I watch to catch the lies...

ritavala
ritavala

All the ladies had time to talk to each other before Lizzie's bday party. It shows how much they all like Lizzie....not much. It was televised who wanted to miss TV time. Vicki and Brooks didn't so they had the party to themselves. Not even Shannon wanted to go and used the same excuse "kid sick".

I think someone wanted it to be an embarrassment toward Lizzie. Games these women play are mean.

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

score for Tamra she called Lizzie out..no points for trying to call Heather out

my2cents2755
my2cents2755

all these women a certain times get busted by what they say or text. For the life of me what do they think those people walking around with cameras and mic's are doing? How funny they all keep text to show evidence for a later date because they all lie at some point.... On no ones team... teachable moments for my 17 yr. old daughter and niece. We have good conversation on how not to behave from these housewives.

BelliniMartini
BelliniMartini

Lizzie got busted for lying......Tamra returns her text and so does Lizzie, but Lizzie's now turing it around to make Tamra look bad, they've learned to keep their next for evidence lol, their all acting so childish. Everyone that has a sick child knows that their children are the priority not a birthday party, and that any parent should understand that taking care of a sick child makes you lose track of time and could care less about anyone else for that matter. Its just selfish of Lizzie because its one day out of the year and she believes her birthday is a reason to stop life and focus on her. 

whosereality
whosereality

So, Lizzie gets caught in a lie, too? Imagine that.  And, when she's called on it, so tries to deflect it back to Tampa. It seems she's quickly learning how to perform as a RH. 

bravolover10
bravolover10

I believe Lizzy... Lizzy wouldn't say that.. so interesting how Tamra can change just a few words FOR EVERYTHING she remembers...Tamra should have just apologize and said you're right... instead digging holes with big shovels.

bravolover10
bravolover10

So Shannon supports Lizzie being upset because Tamra didn't call to tell her she wasn't going to make it to the party / by the way neither did Shannon -- BUT WHEN HEATHER SAID TO SHANNON IT WOULD HAVE BEEN NICE TO CALL ME THAT YOU'D BE LATE TO MY PARTY SHANNON BELITTLED HEATHER and bad mouthed her to all the gals forever... hmmm.. double standard fo sho

CarlaB
CarlaB

I am no Tamara fan but LIzzie went on and on about her birthday and spoke to everyone she could about it. It's weird how she put up with Tamara saying all these things about Shannon until LIzzie got mad at Tamara...then she goes off and tells Shannon all of these things about Tamara has said. I find that a bit two faced. It was okay until she got mad at Tamara. I'm not sure how much I believe either Tamara or Lizzie. There are two sides to each store and then there is the truth. And Heather...why ask that kind of question at a table with friends...that's setting up someone to get upset with another friend or spouse!!! 

ritavala
ritavala

All Lizzie was doing was telling everything she thinks Tamra told her...and making The others to hate Tamra.

Brenda.Maria
Brenda.Maria

@susanzavagli Tamra switched it up.  Yes, Lizzie was drunk and probably forgot.  Happens to a lot of people.  However, Lizzie was more upset about Tamra not calling her and saying she couldn't come.  Not about the text messages.

Brenda.Maria
Brenda.Maria

@BelliniMartini Lizzie was not complaining that Tamra could not attend because her child was sick.  She was upset that Tamra waited until Lizzie had to call her to let her know her child was sick.  I think it is common courtesy.  One can simply let them know early on, even if their child is sick.  I would have simply called and said my child is sick and it is possible that I may not attend.  Common Courtesy. NOT selfishness.

QuesieSue
QuesieSue

@BelliniMartini   Even with a sick child, there is always one minute to be found to cancel plans when someone is expecting you.  That said, Lizzie's birthday obsession is annoyingly immature.

bravolover10
bravolover10

After the 8/11 show I no longer believe Lizzy. I think she did say "f..."  Heather told her right at the table she said it and Terry heard her as well... Sorry LIzzy.  I don't think you're a nice girl.  Pageant girl undermine everyone to be queen... see right through you now.

CarlaB
CarlaB

@bravolover10 I am not 100% sure I believe Lizzy...the way she spoke to her husband in front of people and the camera?? Wow, sounds like a spoiled brat to me. 

ElsieKowbell
ElsieKowbell

@bravolover10 Rewatch the episode. Lizzie mentions that Shannon had already called her that morning because Shannon herself had woken up with a fever and probably wouldn't be going to the party.Shannon called her while in the party bus, already knowing Shannon was ill. Tamra on the other hand had not given a heads up at all.

ocviewer
ocviewer

@bravolover10 I agree to an extent.  Heathers 'hoe down' was more of an open house concept (or so it looked), but Lizzie's had a bus and driver hired to drive them someplace for specific dinner plans. I place more emphasis on not showing up for a dinner event, then being late to a Bar-B-Que.

queenann100
queenann100

@bravolover10 You totally nailed it.  I was thinking the same thing.  I thought it was interesting how, while riding the elephant, Shannon told Lizzie the "right" thing to do would have been for Tamra to call her well in advance of the party and tell her she couldn't make it.  As opposed to calling someone well in advance to tell them you'll be late...which apparently isn't a necessity in Shannon's world.  Only when it applies to someone else does it become necessary.  Lizzie asking for courtesy is normal...Heather doing the same is outrageous and rude.  Interesting how that played out.  

vanessa8690
vanessa8690

@bravolover10 Wrong, your wrong re watch that episode, Tamra was the one stirring the pot, remember Tamra's  blog after that episode, she claims, Why am I always in the middle of things.

Brenda.Maria
Brenda.Maria

@ALasVegasHousewife Tamra has been known to be a compulsiver liar.  Whose to say all those "horrific" things she claims in her past are true?  I cannot believe anything she says at all.

randrew
randrew

@ALasVegasHousewife I completely agree. Everything, and I mean everything that comes out of her mouth is untruths.

queenann100
queenann100

@bravolover10 I'm not sure I believe she said "marry" either.  I think Lizzie, as much as I have enjoyed her honesty this season, may have said something off-color that she didn't realize she said.  She has already shown herself to have a few drinks and get a little loose-lipped with her comments (like the nasty ones to her husband), so I think it could be fully possible she said something a little less innocent than, "You're just mad that your husband wants to marry me."  It's also possible she doesn't even realize it.  At this point, she IS stirring the pot a little, however.  Unfortunate, because she hadn't done that all season. 

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

@ElsieKowbell @bravolover10 .... Tamra claims she was directed by production to not call Lizzie........she blames her behavior on production for making her out to be a shady character

QuesieSue
QuesieSue

@ocviewer @bravolover10       There are no "open houses" when a camera crew and a reality TV show are involved.  Heather (rightfully) expected those castmates who accepted her invitation to be present for filming, and was either required (by producers) or chose (to avoid feelings hurt by missing camera time) to delay her ceremony because she wasn't told the Beadors would run late.

QuesieSue
QuesieSue

@vanessa8690 @bravolover10     Tamra may have been in the middle, but bravolover10 is correct...Shannon has a very different standard for what constitutes polite behavior when applied to Tamra vs. herself.

7seven7
7seven7

@suprafreshkid @Brenda.Maria @ALasVegasHousewife well though - perhaps Tam's mother & brother did have a good relationship between themselves that Tam wasn't a part of.  Mental health studies over and over give creedence to personality issues in adulthood have foundation in childhood.