Well, you flat lied about what Heather said to you, when you barged into her home. It is not the first time you have twisted someone's words. Vicki is being a very good friend to you and it is disrespectful to lie to her about her friend Heather.Watching you last night was painful. You are dangerously self absorbed. I don't think there is anything you will not do to get attention. Nitpicking and needling your husband in front of a group of people is not bad enough for you. Then you leave the table, interrupting the meal and publicizing your discontent, which is over a problem of your own making. You come back to the table and jump right back into hammering your husband. Did the discomfort you were causing him and everyone else at the table ever cross your mind? If you are not an obsessive compulsive personality, then you are just grossly selfish. I think you have some serious handicaps.