Bravotv.com: Why did you want to make up with Stassi? What do you think was holding Kristen back from doing the same thing?
KM: I am the type of person who is patient and had unyielding understanding. I really try to pick and choose my battles. I had swept a lot of things that had happened with Stassi under the rug, simply to not live with animosity or anger. I think there's nothing more toxic than carrying out a grudge. Life is short and should be enjoyed. I always look at the big picture. I wanted to make up with Stassi because I couldn't stand the tension and wanted to really squash it -- once and for all.
Kristen may be my best friend, but we are very different. She doesn't let things go as easily as quickly as I do. She, like me, is a very sensitive person and when she feels she has been betrayed, it hard for her to bounce back.
Bravotv.com: How did you feel going into that talk with Stassi? Were you happy with how it turned out?
KM:I was REALLY nervous! Stassi has been my best friend for years and this was our first falling out. I hadn't spoke to her in almost a month. I was hoping for the best but expecting the worst. I have ALWAYS been honest with Stassi and suddenly my honesty was not welcome, which led to our fallout. I went in with every intention of being honest with her but was nervous that she still wouldn't want to hear it. She really let me have the floor and speak my mind and heart without interruption. I was so happy when she reacted positively and understood where my mind had been all summer. Stassi is really like a younger sister. I think our friendship is much like a sisterhood, in that I give her that tough love simply because I'm protective and truly want to best for her.
I like the two Toms , kristen and Katie best. They should have had more air time. Why wasn't Schwartz shown more and why wasn't he at the reunion? More bromance.
We really need to see these children out of their element. Like going a day without hairspray or working a job where you have to think (more then usual). Walking around an Oakland block or driving a Ford Taurus. Lisa is awfully generous for letting them still work there... they're all pretty ridiculous.
Stassi definitely needs to grow up. I think Jax should have broken up with her instead of cheating but I have no idea how he stayed with her so long. She treated him like crap, constantly bitching , nagging and complaining-he could not do anything that would have pleased her. My husband does not like these reality shows but I was sick and asked him to lay in bed with me and watch. My husband could not believe the way everyone on this show bowed down to Stassi.He didn't even think she was attractive and thought she was a bit**. I could tell by the way Frank acted that he was a jerk as well as Stassi. Yet, for some reason I also gave her a chance to change my mind. I think she seems to be a little more humble after everyone deserted her but we will just have to see how long that lasts. I don't know where she gets her sense of entitlement from but she will have to change if she wants a real and fullfilling relationship. Relationships are not only built on trust (which she has an issue with from past experience) but also on respect. Stassi needs to realize that a relationship is not a dictatorship-ruled by Stassi , but mutual understanding and love.
I really like Katie's personality and outlook on things. She must be an amazing friend. I adore her innocence aswell. I like Stassi's real name, it sounds unique. I enjoy watching Stassi speak her mind(although it might get her in trouble at times). I think in order for them all as in the whole 6 SUR server crew to be rekindled they need to focus on their relationships with each other. Vanderpump Rules is a great show, and in todays soceity where reality tv is king. Viewers are able to feed off the show as if they are actually there. I hope all of the SUR servers one day accomplish their goals, like fashion writer for Stassi or Music Supervison for Katie. I cant wait for season 2. Im sure there will be alot if drama, twists, and romance, the usual. -C.
Jax has clearly never been in a healthy relationship with mutual respect if he thinks Stassi is worth a dang. Sad.
....and....what is WRONG with Jax? Love must be blind if he is actually still going to even consider a relationship with Stassi. I know he's no innocent, but he can do better....
Stassi, while quite beautiful on the outside, seems less attractive to me with each show. Her behavior is so ugly....I would be embarrassed if I was her mother. She is clearly insecure, however, the more I watch, the more I think she just may be a really mean person. Sad. I mute the TV when she comes on. I cannot stand her!
Haven't been on this blog for a while. I"M so GLAD to see everyone feels the same as I go about the STASSI SHOW. Please get that nasty always crying spoiled girl off the screen.@elaineolivia
Come on Bravo is Stassi the best you have? OMG she is sooo annoying! Change the channel when ever her face appears and she is ALWAYS on the screen. What is this a promo for the STASSI SHOW? Can not stand to watch her!
You are nothing but a silly waitress, clearly fresh out of high school and VERY insecure and immature.
falina_c Oh but she went to an all girls private school and she is somehow related to a princess.....hahahahahahhahaha A lot of good all that did her.
Stassi, the bulldog that is never wrong, the queen of throwing insult and criticism toward everyone but unable to see the humongous pillar in her own eyes. Katie and Kristen, the 2 little puppies following and taking orders from Stassi -a version of Rachel McAdam in the movie of mean girls. I hope my daughters will know how to deal with this no-good-biatch, that is ignoring her nonsense all together. By the way, Katie and Kristen, your purpose in life is second-class citizens who take orders from the queen of mean Stassi?
dianne.kovacs.5 Katie and Kristen it's time to move on. Both of you are intelligent enough to know that you are giving your friendship to Stassi and that she is just a taker. It makes you both look weak and I don't think either of you are. Read the blogs-who do you think is going to hire a follower??
Please, for the love of all things holy.....get that RIDICULOUS blonde twit off of this show. The other characters are interesting and I love watching the rest but every time Stassi comes on I have to mute the television.
While Frank wasn't one of my favorite people on the show, I think it was hilarious that he chose not to put up with Stassi's BS. And, the look on Stassi's face when Frank walked away from her was priceless. Thank goodness it didn't take him very long to see through her. Obviously, Jax isn't capable of pulling himself away from Stassi. They truly deserve each other. I'll never feel bad for Jax when Stassi treats him like dirt. He needs to learn to be a man. Unfortunately for Stassi, it appears she is incapable of seeing her faults. Until that time, I don't think Stassi will ever be happy in a relationship. Too bad for her because she really could be a good catch. If only she could learn to be nice. If I were her mother, I would be so ashamed of how she talks to others. I hope one day she'll gow up and feel remorse about how she treated others.
Don't forget, she is only in her early 20's....still a child. 20's today are much more immature than they were 20 or 30 years ago.
falina_c SPW816 She is Not a child, she just acts like one and has the "poor me", complex!
What is wrong with Stassi? She is just a spoiled brat that obviously has many issues that require immediate help from a well-qualified psychiatrist. And Jax---Oh Jax---thinks he's God's gift to women (kinda like Stassi thinks she is to men) and the way he dumped Laura Leigh was just disgusting. Stassi and Jax deserve each other and may they ride off into the sunset together far, far away from any TV.
She's a grown woman, not a child. My 15 year old knows to treat people better.
Does anyone else feel like this show is an od fashioned soap?? With a new veneer..of course...who knows where they found this Laura Leigh..who seems to be having a hard time operating the flipper in her mouth...she is likely going through some dental work and should have never gotten into a heated argument with Stassi and used the word "spoiled" , which came out "spooooled" .....she sounds like she is abusing helium..... this chick is a psycho and if Stassi ever let Jax share a home with her after being involved with the lunatic, she will be forever sad....i hope her mom reads these blogs on the off chance there is some reality in the show
Just last year in Massachusetts, there was a young pretty girl , barely 17 i think, who comitted suicide after being bullied by a girl just like Stassi, a person that has NO empathy for anyone other than herself. She thinks the world is all about her and Lisa is doing her no favor by condoning her actions.Even Lisa called her a BULLY in her textings. If you haven't noticed the world is coming around everywhere, in schools, workplaces and organizations, recognizing BULLY's for who they really are.Shame on BRAVO for promoting this kind of behavior.What would Stassi say if one of her victims killed themselves? Shame on her!!!!
@alancoldman Are you kidding? Stassi is the one who needs protection from the fatal attraction Laura Leigh displayed in those scenes...what show were you watching..i was frightened for Stassi.....and then her little puppy....Stassi do not under any circumstances leave that puppy alone....remember the rabbit??. It was clear LL was being way too dramatic, i get it, she is trying to get acting jobs, but sleeping with someone in a bathroom of a restaurant?? Someone who can't even give you a walk on part in a movie?? Another piece of advice ...get that voice fixed LL, you sound about 10.....it is sooo annoying......
FlutterBy alancoldman Seriously, wow are you related to Stassi,don't leave the puppy alone? All at SUR are dramatic-haven't you been watching? As gross as it is I have caught a lot of people having sex in the bathroom, and I am a RN.
I don't believe Jax and Stassi are even a real couple. Outside of appearances they never mention each other in their tweets nor have I seen them post pictures of each other together except or old photos,nothing current. I think Stassi's personality is horrid. I can't imagine any woman wanting to be friends with such an annoyingly insecure girl,I say girl because that's what she is. She is mentally stunted at the age of 12 and she still thinks someone is going to buy her a pony, lol foolish child. In the words of Sweet Brown "ain't nobody got time for that". I can't believe an adult woman would seriously be going on about how she sacrificed so much of herself to be nice to a new girl at work. Wow can we submit her for a Nobel prize,she's so awesome? Awesomely full of herself and full of something that rhymes with grit.
I could never have a friend like Stassi, who down on people like she is the queen of the universe. And regardless if a friend dates our ex...you got with Frank after you dumped Jax over a statement that you didn't even know if it was true....get over yourself...my husband and I have served our country and I hate that we protected someone as rude and narcissistic as Stassi.
I can't believe how Stassi acts and how she refers to herself as a princess. How's this princess - get me a cup of coffee! She needs to know her place in life and that she is no better than anyone else! Very soon her looks are going to fad and she better find a personality because how she acts now will not get her very far!
Stasis, I understand that you feel like Lara-Leigh stabbed you in the back by being your friend yet getting with Jax as soon as your back was turned, BUT...Jax is to blame as well especially if he had been telling you that he would do just that!!! And the way you talk to Lara-Leigh is disgusting on your part and yes, makes you look like a monster! She is in recovery and yes she jumped too soon with Jax but I think he used her and her illness to his advantage as you did by degrading her constantly!! Do you not remember your days of insecurities? You undoubtedly had some or you would never had a chin implant. You need to think before you speak before you become the most hated bitch on TV. I think you can be likeable but you just need to take other peoples feelings into consideration....Good Luck~
I think she remembers her insecurities- that is why she is so mean. She still has them. This girl has such low self esteem and self confidence. I think she puts on a show of being self confident. She is so insecure her defense is to be mean and intimidate others. It is evident in her footage when she argued with Laura Leigh. She was soooo cruel to her and acted as if she didn't care what LL was saying, but then she turned around and had to leave work because she was so upset over what just happened. It is all just a show on her part. And the girl LOVES to play the victim. She has issues.
It is so funny how people comment saying Stassi doesn't trash her friends, lmfao. That's all she does, open your eyes. She talked shit about the people that came later to her party in Vegas, then when she got in a fight with her friends she talked shit about them to her second class friends. People are such idiots open your eyes and your ears. Your just as ignorant and dumb as Stassi. She's in denial and needs to start owning up to her stuff. They all talk about each other. She and Jax belong together they both are awful with people.
Stasis is a mean girl and is a bully. I hope she is only doing this for tv otherwise she is going to have. Hard life.. Be nicer. It only looks like you hate yourself if you are trying to make other people look that bad.
wow, I'm disgusted at how Stassi is blaming Laura-Leigh for all her problems?! Lisa and Pandora were about to fire or give her a final warning for the fact that she is a big time SLACKER and she blames Laura-Leigh?! And what friendship?! lmao they're such great friends that she wasn't even invited to Stassi's birthday party LMAO... and it's amazing how Lisa and Pandora fell for it... -.-
Stassi is a little bit selfabsorbed.. but at least she's honest and not playing an angel. She is not trashing her friends, unlike Kristen! That's the person I can't stand. She is so mean, and jealous of Stassi, it's insane! She is a nightmare of a friend, someone who wants her friends to fail! ICK!
Stassi makes a lot of good points.