As a former server, actor, artist and film maker, I get it.
One of the things about this show is the exposure of the culture of some of these people pursuing their goals, living life and taking the shot for the brass ring of success. My initial observations of some of the people are someone objective and its quite clear that the drama of the show revolves around the nature of Stassi. I actually really feel sorry for her and I'll tell you why. She's never had a real relationship that had the long burn characteristics for a successful rocket launch. Yes, a flash in the pan is nice, but if you want the really amazing relationship, its the one where the flash ignites a torrential passionate force of fire that can lift both into orbit. It only starts getting good after 5 or 6 years together and the core essence which persistently plagues and undermines every relationship is a fundamental lack of trust and her simply hanging on way too tight. It does not help when someone gets cheated on as it would simply and in some cases forever alter ones ability to unlock the clamps protecting ones heart, soul and sanity.
Best of luck to you all. All that sun you guys got up there makes us Canadians a bit jealous right about now as its still snowing up here. Shots, cheers and beers!