Jax Taylor

Jax reflects on finally feeling remorse for his betrayal, his fight with Tom, and his never-ending love for Stassi

on Feb 30

To be honest, I wasn't nervous going to Scheana's engagement party. Everything was OK. But with Tom, it escalated. I gave Tom ample opportunity to approach me. We went out in the parking lot, I talked to him at the beach -- I obviously told him what happened. When he hit me, I didn’t know that was coming. To be honest, I was shocked. He waited until I was around all these girls. He could have hit Scheana -- or anybody else. It wasn’t really appropriate. I get it, he was mad, I would have hit me, too. That’s not what I was mad about. I was mad about how he approached the situation. There's girls around, you know? We were out in the parking lot, we’re men, we cold have handled it like men, instead of in front of girls, in Lisa’s restaurant. We didn’t need to do that here.

I didn't think Kristen would finally admit everything. I know I'm called a liar, but Kristen lies. She's been crying wolf for so long saying, "I'm done with this relationship, I'm done, I'm done." Here's your way out -- be honest. All she had to do was say it. At first she said it only happened once. I mean, if it happened once or 60 times it doesn't matter, it happened. 

I think they got into one of those situations where you've invested in a relationship for so long -- you share bills, you share things -- it was probably easier to stay together. It's a lot of work to break up. I know that’s not an excuse, and that’s not one I would use. I could never live in their lifestyle. They were never happy in their whole five years together. I've known them their whole relationship. I've known them for 10 years, both of them. They were miserable the whole time. They can tell you till they are blue in the face they were happy; they weren't. I don't understand how you can be in a relationship when you're just constantly fighting and miserable.

99 comments
kecola
kecola

This guy is definitely a sociopath, a soulless, unemotional, manipulative, lying sociopath. I think his castmates are too stupid to even know what that is but it's obvious to anyone else that even knows a few of the signs. The most obvious ones being that he has no moral compass, no empathy or sympathy, no remorse, or no emotions at all. He's basically a shell of a person with no soul. I don't know whether I feel sorry for someone like this or despise them but I'm just glad I don't know anyone sociopaths personally. Oh and he is NOT dumb. He knows that's how the others see him and that's the role he plays to stay under the radar. Sociopaths are evil but they're sure as hell not stupid in the least. Very intelligent and very calculating and that makes it ten times scarier. This guy gives me the creeps.

tina.cummins.58
tina.cummins.58

Also, Lisa's "signal" for Jax to attack was hysterical!  "Ok, time to go, and I think you all should too."  YEAH RIGHT!

tina.cummins.58
tina.cummins.58

I disagree with these people.  I don't think you are a sociopath.  I think you may have an attachment disorder.  It seems whenever you get close to someone, you self-sabotage.  It's a defense mechanism.  Then you realize that you screwed up and will do anything to fix it.  As Dr.Phil would say, "How is that working for you?"  Good to hear that you're going to "think before you act."  Even though you believe it was "just sex,"  it is never "just sex" with a woman.  Women have "emotional" sex.  So you have to ask yourself why Kristen wanted to sleep with you.  Was she trying to make Tom and Stassi jealous, or did she want you for herself?  Was it just physical or did you both need someone to commisurate?  All of these women that you're having sex with, are all physically attracted to you, but may be hoping for something more.  It's NOT ok to use people and then push them away.  That's what you need to work on.  Then ask yourself WHY you do it.

jkey
jkey

Your hot, your Greek and love your sexy smile.  Stay detached and it will solve your problems, nothing wrong with that.  Life is to be enjoyed, so enjoy it. Familiar with the Greeks in Tarpon, and all I can say is, thank-you Jesus!

jaxdfax
jaxdfax

Well there is no help for a true sociopath. And that's what he is in my opinion. As he gets older I suspect he will become dangerous. As he starts showing his age and the young girls that accept his bs now are repulsed by his looks and hollow chest he will start acting out. I predict he will start assaulting and then eventually unless locked up he will kill someone. He is not use to no and has no remorse or feelings. He is a huge and awful liability. No jokey joke.

methinks
methinks

The name for whats the matter with you is, Sociopath or Psychopath.  There is no cure.  All you can do is make a conscious decision to improve your behavior.  You can't turn on an empathy button.  You're either capable, or you're not. You're not.

Remote
Remote

It was sad to see you so tortured as to why you feel nothing.  It is simple, really.  With all due respect, it is because you are a sociopath.  Hopefully, you and your therapist are addressing this issue - even though there is no "cure."

kathie.doorley
kathie.doorley

After watching both reunion shows I truly believe that you are sorry for what happened.  Maybe not the actions that you took but the fact that what your actions caused.  You and Kristin broke up the group and I think that is where your regret comes from.  I really saw the anguish on your face during the 2nd part of the reunion especially towards the end.  Friendships are SO important!  Women come and go but your friends will be there forever, hopefully.  Good luck!

empire7@skyscraper
empire7@skyscraper

Jax you got involved with a bad women. Stassi uses people the way she used you. She is also using this new guy. He's got money and she quickly jumped on him to climb the social ladder. She flew to this guy in no time at all. A fine lady who loved someone would have needed some time before she runs off with another guy.

Anav
Anav

Jax he is your typical sociopath and narcissi he needs help. Stassi self center attention hugger poor girl I pity her. Tom yes she cheated to but at least was not with his girlfriend friend and he looks like he is honest person.

seattlenative
seattlenative

Jax is a sociopath, sociopaths do not have feelings like normal people, they don’t feel feelings at all, they grow up and watch people to figure out what reactions they should have to different situations, that is why they can manipulate people so well they learn what to do and say to get what they want, he made it clear when he said that he didn’t understand until he watched himself on tv that he was a jerk, he doesn’t know what that feels like but he knows what it looks like and he knows the reaction that people had to what he did, all it did for him is teach him what not to do next time, if he doesn’t want to get that reaction to his actions, he has no remorse because he has no feelings, he is dead inside and only does what he wants to do with no regard to anyone else that is the narcissistic part of being a sociopath. Not all sociopaths are serial killers but all serial killers are sociopaths.His brain is not wired the same and for people to try and figure out why he does what he does is futile because unless you are a sociopath it will never make sense to you, you have to think about what it would be like to have no feelings about anything or for anything, or anyone, that is why he can say he doesn’t care because he doesn’t.he doesn’t love Stacci and never has, he only wanted to get her back because she said “no” to him, not because he cares about her, don’t get it twisted he has NO FEELINGS Period.

louis1111
louis1111

It was hard to believe but I think I actually saw you becoming more stupid as the hour progressed at the Part 1 Renunion Show. I hoping it continues this week. 

pammerkt
pammerkt

I see nothing good for you in the future-if you don't make some serious changes in your character-you will end up very sad and lonely...

Realfanhouse
Realfanhouse

Oh boy, seems like the SUR employees should perhaps start dating people outside the restaurant. All that boffing does not seem to be helping anyone. I'm surprised that so many viewers believe that one is worse than the other.

helloladies
helloladies

Jax/Jason--At 30 something, you can't even make a complete sentence. You write like you speak-not attractive.  You've boasted about sleeping with over 300 women-not attractive.  You've admitted to not wearing condoms-definitely not attractive! You probably have more weeping pustules on your penis than an oily teenager has on their face!  At your age, you really should know better.  Your family must be proud (insert sarcasm)

spark237
spark237

Jax, I feel sorry for you.  You strut around thinking you're the coolest because you've bedded a lot of women.  Tell me, does a glutton who can't stop eating sound admirable to you?  That's all you're doing - indulging in an urge to an extreme, and it doesn't make you look good, dude.  You look pathetic. 

ejeanTx
ejeanTx

You and Stassi deserve each other...She's a horrible person and so are you.. Neither of you know the meaning of friendship ! It's not too late to become a better person if you want to.

flute
flute

Jax you knew Tom was fooling around an Kristen was miserable. ta this point I feel what you did is no big deal. You put an end to something that was never was, Dont be so hard on yourself. 

wules
wules

Jax, Kristen?? really???? I would have pushed Stassi under the bus, not Tom...she made your life miserable for years..If I'm not mistaken your 34 years old, go find a 30+ year old who's more mature that the ones on the show... your dealing with 2 year olds on the show.  Geez!!

Terricrista
Terricrista

You're a fine one to try and lecture about whats 'appropriate behavior' on any given situation, but particularly where women are concerned or how a man should conduct one self.  Aside from behaving like a narcissist, you're a hoot.  No self respecting woman would give you the time of day knowing that your heart, mind and soul are in dire need of a major overhaul. Stop looking in the mirror at just your reflection and look deeper.  We all have work to do.  Some, a little more than others.  Do your work Jax.  Go back to being real.  Jack was good enough.  Grow a heart and a pair, because at this point, you don't appear to know the first thing about being a man, much less a friend or a lover.  Best of luck on finding out what really matters in life. 

Sensa
Sensa

Jax, any girl that will sleep with you now is a real idiot. You're gross. It was lame that you wanted to be with Stassi after you abused each other for so long, and now only because you can't face the repercussions from the public you are now trying to be remorseful. Keep drinking your shakes and go back to the 7th grade and stay on the short bus. I can't believe you are 36 years old.  

MEA1963
MEA1963

Honestly Jax I think you didn't need to speak to Kristen on when you decided to tell about what happened between the two of you and for whatever reason you chose to do this to your bff Tom and no matter what you were going through or how some may say "so typical of Jax" the point being is that you never thought about the aftermath of how and if and when this should all come out and how lives will be changed over this. Look it was a poor decision on your part, on Kristens part as well. I am certain that when Tom hit you he wasn't thinking about is this a good time to hit Jax? He reacted when he felt it was time to react. Sometimes we don't have control over when enough is enough. It was as though he thought about how this is going to play out, no different than you not thinking how it was going to play out when sleeping with his gf Kristen. I still say that Tom was wanting you to feel with the hit that he gave you because you were trying so hard to act as though what you did to him didn't matter, what you did to him as your friend of many many years didn't matter, that the constant showing no emotion over hurting another human being when he is showing his emotions over the fact that he hurts because you were his friend and this was his gf and it was meaningless to you that you couldn't even show anything.The fact that now you see some of this will hopefully one day help in the healing process of forgiveness from Tom and forgiveness to yourself for hurting someone who truly looked at you as a friend. Being the tough guy is an outer shell but in some ways it's understandable because nobody like to show vulnerability and then be rejected or beat down even more which you know only negative would have come out of this any way you look at it. Also it's not your call to say what another persons relationship is or isn't and how you now see Tom happy. You yourself stayed in a relationship with Stassi and you stayed and took it no different than these two Tom and Kristen. For whatever your reason was the point being is that "you " stayed. It is not up to you to determine whether or not you believe it to be success or not. I give you this much, the fact that you are totally be-graded by so many that you can still admitt that it was a horrible thing to do and not blame someone else except you do blame the period of time somewhat and what all had been going on in your life. You can't do that, no excuse is a good excuse other than you decided to have sex with Kristen and that was it. Bottomline. You have it in you to be a good man that people look at you and can say Jax is a good man but only when you look in the mirror and own up to you not liking what stairs back at you and willing enough to change that person. Your the only one who is going to be able to do this. I wish you luck and success cause your in the public eye and we can make it hard for a person to see the good in you based on your past decisions. 

Lilylubes
Lilylubes

Hey Creeper, You look like you STINK!

Anmartin003
Anmartin003

I want to start out by saying that I created an account just to write this post and have never written one before.


Jax, you are the most HORRIBLE human being I have ever seen. What exactly were you trying to gain from sleeping with Kristen? YOU ARE A SOCIOPATH and need professional help. Period! The ONLY reason that you are feeling bad now is because you look bad to your "fans". I sincerely hope that we cross paths one day so that way I can do exactly what Stassi did Kristen...to you.


Oh and for the record, it is JACK not JAX!!! Idiot.

tigger7010
tigger7010

Its hard to be in Hollywood as a beautiful person and keep your morals intact. You confessed the bad things you did at SUR. Now it's time to try to stay out of trouble and enjoy a beautiful life. 

You need to set new rules for yourself and stop acting like a child.   Maybe you should get a life coach. I hear they really work better than shrinks. Get involved in something to stay grounded. You could have a great career  if your stayed the course.


meristel.shaw
meristel.shaw

The next time you CHANGE YOUR NAME and YOU WILL,,,,change it to "JERX"....

sugarbritches
sugarbritches

I found you utterly captivating during the first season. Pinterest board and everything!  Google searches, chatting on boards about you, defending you, feeling sorry for you, thinking that Stassi drove you away to other women, blah blah, blah, ad nauseum (pun intended).


I now feel ashamed for those sentences up there.


Some beautiful people really take advantage of others using their attractiveness.  Others recognize that, in our culture, looks get you everywhere and they choose to work, instead, on matching their deeds to their beauty. You fit in the former category, not the latter. 

Pretty man.  Ugly secrets.  Tsk. Tsk. 

Mooshkie62
Mooshkie62

And I said Jax was a Ho'? Stassi had Peter, Jax, Frank and from the commercial showing a tidbit of the reunion, She now may be with Kristen's "Tom" Is there any guy at Sur she has not screwed? She is clearly the Ho' and is starting to make Jax look like an angel "without his wings of course." lol

taniasveta
taniasveta

Jax...you typed allot of words...But...not a word about how you just blasted your affair with Kristen without consulting with her privetly and warning her and Tom. And that is were your cowardliness is. It is not about mistakes that you made, it is how you dealt with them. And the way you dealt was just as stupid and thoughtless as Stassi need to hurt people. I have no sympathy for you and really fearful of Stassi. She hurt you worse than you hurt her by sleeping with Frank. Yet she is preaching loyalty and disdain for everybody. Tom is no saint and have done the same things you have done...so why is it everybody feeling bad for him and nothing for Kristen? because men can screw around with no judgment and women are crucified. You are not mature enough for your age

rosebud-mishy
rosebud-mishy

oh Jax... Jax...Jax --- You are such a cutie pie!  I watch the show each week just to see what trouble you can get into that week.. You are adorable!  I hope you find someone out there that is perfect for you!!  None of the Ladies on the show are good enough for you!  Keep Smiling and... banging 

missyree
missyree

Jax you are a nice looking young man.  I know you work hard at It.  You are however working harder at being a liar and a and an amoral failure.  I am not sure you have any redeeming qualities as a man or a human being.

DeeLove92
DeeLove92

Nice looking on the outside, truly ugly on the inside. How can you look Tom in the face, your so called "best friend", and tell him you didn't feel bad for what you did? Disgusting. Only psychopaths feel no remorse for what that do. You're a lot older than I realized and you act like such a fool. :-/

marie.rivas.35
marie.rivas.35

I want to know what Tom has to say about your past and other dirty skeletons in your closet. Seems like he was going to spill it on Watch What Happens Live but was cut off.

joegraen
joegraen

Hadle it like "Men"? a man does not touch his best buddies gal. I have had a few close friends over the years who have had beautiful wives and girlfriends. I dont care what the situation is no way in hell would I ever even entertain having sex with any of them.

Dude get out of Hollywood. I have no doubt that you are probably a nice guy but you have allowed yourself to be corrupted to act in the way you do. That lifestyle is not for everone. It is for sure not for you. Take a few years and stay away from women and work on you.

All men have urges... Rub one out in the shower if you have to but dont treat people like you do.

miss_molli_mermaid
miss_molli_mermaid

What a sad, lonely person you are.  I hope the tattoo removal process is extremely painful.

methinks
methinks

@kathie.doorley  The anguish you saw was him feeling sorry for himself, not empathizing with the people he's hurt.

ErinSC
ErinSC

@seattlenative  I have been thinking this THE ENTIRE TIME!  I was getting SO frustrated with the entire cast and Andy on the reunions because they kept saying that they didn't understand why he didn't care about anything.  It's because HE CAN'T CARE.  It's also why he doesn't get mad when people call him dumb and a loser for going to jail all the time.  He doesn't understand that what they are telling him would hurt most people.  It is shocking that no one has ever said this before.  You also hit the nail on the head about how now on WWHL and all the other after shows saying he was a jerk.  It's because he saw how he looked and realized that what he was doing is not the norm.  I mean, he kept saying over and over again at the reunion, " I don't understand what is wrong with me and why I don't care?"

Remote
Remote

@seattlenative  Every word you wrote is true - excellent analysis!  Additionally, you could see the wheels grinding in Jax's brain,  especially on this second part of the reunion, trying like crazy to squeeze out or eke out some kind of "appropriate look of remorse" but he just couldn't do it. Sociopath, through and through.

Judysea
Judysea

Jax has got nowhere to go but up....he could write a book about all his adventures.

Candi003
Candi003

@sugarbritches  I felt the exact same way! I was constantly defending him & now I'm just so disgusted. What he did to Tom was beyond disgusting. The fact that he feels no remorse for anything he does proves that Jax is a sociopath. 

kecola
kecola

@rosebud-mishy The guy is an obvious sociopath and you go on about how "cute" he is? It's so saddening to see that these are the low standards that women have nowadays. I'm guessing most losers are too damn sexy in your eyes.

BEVERLYLYLES
BEVERLYLYLES

@rosebud-mishy  You're kidding , right? This dude is a narcissitic, self-indulgent, sexual vagrant who uses his looks to exploit people, lie, manipulate and betray. He doesn't feel bad about anything he has done. He is immature , and frankly, dumb.

TinaS
TinaS

@BEVERLYLYLES @rosebud-mishy  There are always going to be those sad girls who are drawn to gross guys... Even men locked up in prison have groupies who idolize them.  It's really weird (and sad!!).

rosebud-mishy
rosebud-mishy

@BEVERLYLYLES @rosebud-mishy    --  Its a tv show --  you can only believe about 50% of what you see.  I dont see him acting much different than millions of men and women in todays society.   At least he owns it...