Jax Taylor

Jax explains his "un-game," why he wasn't revenge dating, and if he really is a sex addict.

on Dec 16, 20130

When I think about how Stassi was acting at this point, she was being so hypocritical. She was telling me to move on and all this stuff, yet she was mad about the girl I hooked up with before Pride. I didn't throw it in her face. Katie found out that I had a "guy night" and she brought it up on the float. I want to get it straight, I didn't just go "Oh, hey look what I did I hooked up with this girl." I wouldn't do something like that. I'm just honest, and I'm not gonna lie about what happened.

It wasn't "revenge dating," as Lisa called it. I was just so over chasing after Stassi. I was depressed all the time. For you to tell me what kind fun I can have. . . I’m not going to let one girl run my life. So I just said to Ben and Dave, "Let's do a guy’s night out. Go have some fun and let everything loose." I didn’t even date this ballerina girl. I just went out to a bar, had some fun, met some girls there, something happened, whatever.

I did go on a date with Paige though. We actually met her at SUR. She came in and she was with another girlfriend of mine. They came in for drinks one night and we just got to talking at the bar. We actually went out a couple of times. The whole situation was fun, but it didn't really work out with her. I think at that time I was reaching for something that wasn't really there. Maybe the Paige situation could have been a little of the revenge dating. Maybe not revenge, more like "I think I should have a girlfriend, let me get one." I just wanted to be with somebody. I was just like "Oh, I’ll just pick her."

I don’t have any game. I'm terrible going to bars and picking up girls. I get so embarrassed when other people do it, and I'm around it all the time being at SUR. It's absolutely ridiculous. I just don't have that mentality to go up to a girl, so I just kind of let my friends do it. Then I'll walk in and kind of chime in on the conversation or let the girl come to me. That's usually how it works with me. Not to sound cocky or anything, that's just always the way it's worked with me.

35 comments
luho13
luho13

It is obvious that Stassi values power and dominance over love.  If Stassi truly loved Jax and wanted to have a healthy, thriving relationship, she would forgive him and actually be in a relationship and let him prove himself within the contract of a relationship, rather than torture him and hold a relationship at an arm's reach. Rather, she chooses power and manipulation by withholding a relationship and bullying and torturing him, while justifying it by saying he has such a bad past. She has no intention of ever being in a loving relationship with him or anyone. It is purely a power play for her. She has it coming- it may not be from Jax or from anyone at Sur, but she is simply riding the temporary spotlight of the show and creating a storm everywhere for viewer ratings. They both are, and there is no love here, just the thrill of the chase and the power play gloating

kcat
kcat

These comments are ridiculous!  Jax, you are a thirty-year-old man -- time to man up...GROW up fool!  OMG I would avoid you like the plague if I was in your age range.  When are you going to grow up?

L.L.R.
L.L.R.

Hi Jax! I love the show and watch it religiously lol :p  Anyways... just wanted to mention I could tell you were over Stassi (sort of speak) when she dumped all your vitamins and supplements down the drain. She was a bit heartless with you during that time that your doctors found that cyst. I could imagine that was a scare for you. Good thing it was benign. U do have a true sex addiction... I understand that and that it's hard to get help for something you thoroughly enjoy. Keep in mind that treatment for any kind of addiction is actually a life long thing. You will find alcoholics who have quit 5, 10, 15 years still attending at least a monthly meeting. Your therapist (I don't know if she's your real therapist or not) didn't seem to offer much help in my opinion and I'm in the health field myself. At least this is how it appeared on TV. If I may suggest you try a male/guy therapist. Guy therapists seem to use a more STRAIGHT FORWARD approach when it comes to treatment.  In the mean, plz be careful with STD's hun.. and do work on your sweater line. I will be looking out for it :)

Beckka
Beckka

LOL...These comments are cracking me up!  Everyone seems to think what is good for you...You already know!

loripoole
loripoole

Jax, Jax, Jax, I think you really are a super nice guy.  Your self-esteem is in the toilet.  You know you are attractive, so thats not the problem. The problem is you don't think you deserve anything good.  You lie to make things look better than they are, to stay out of trouble, or to get attention, whichever you need at the time.  You are intrigued by Stassi, because she is so in love with herself (and no one else by the way), that you cannot really get her, like all the other women that just want you for your good looks, (too easy for you).  She always demeans you, and in some way you like that.  Its challenging.  But thats also why you cheat on her.  She doesn't make you feel worthy so you look to other women to fill that void.  You need to realize you are enough for the right woman.  You are very nice, would give the shirt off your back to any of your friends , you know how to treat a woman like a queen and sweep them off there feet, and have many good qualities.  You need to learn to be happy with who you are, change the parts you don't like about yourself and find someone who appreciates you.  Stassi is not it!!!!!  She only loves herself She is always right, she treats you like crap, she treats her friends like crap... she's not a nice person.. only when she wants something is she nice.  So the sooner you move on from her, the sooner you'll be happy.  The best advise I can give you is, be real. Don't lie to make friends or to get out of trouble, just be you.  Your friends will love you no matter what. Don't do things to get attention either.   Just be happy with who you are, and the right person will appear.  Good luck.

 

JoViewer
JoViewer

You say you took Kristen aside and told her to let the rumor go, that she's no angel???  Is it because you have first-hand knowledge about her not being an angel - maybe being a devil with you?

kat1129
kat1129

This whole cast is pathetic! 

 

Vicky88
Vicky88

You should give up on Stassi. She's not even nice to you or anyone else. She will continuously point out your mistakes if you did ever get back together, like what Kristen does to Tom. She does that already. 

AddictedToBravo25
AddictedToBravo25

How old are you? Time to get over yourself and do something with your life.

zaidasuroundsme
zaidasuroundsme

JAX, JAX, JAX she must have a magic whooha I can't believe you tattooed her name on you. Sad get it covered ASAP. you can goon tattoo nightmares

BravoKeepsMeSane
BravoKeepsMeSane

ugh. You want to move past Stassi, but you continue to text her, and then are terribly hurt when she says what she has to in order for you to leave her alone. Then you add fuel to the fire about the story of Ariana and Tom and then say you told Kristen to drop it. Then you go into see your therapist with your "I'm-really-a-good-guy glasses" probably continue to lie, don't take her advise, then claim it's helped you to be a better person. Dude, just stop.

lehneka
lehneka

don't be such a wimp; It is so uncomfortable to watch you squirm and beg.  Stassi is a horrible person and you deserve better.  She must be really good in bed because I can't imagine any other reason you would want to be with her; she doesn't even look like someone who could get her freak on…..move on, PLEASE!  She is just nasty to you; don't put up with it!

marina_
marina_

I really think you should take some time off from the show, or at least usefully use the time between filming seasons, and do some self-discovery. Because you're in a dark place right now (hopefully not right now, though) and you need to do some things while not being recorded.

Monababy
Monababy

Getting Stassi to respect you will not define whether you are justifiable or not. You are embarrassing yourself.. I feel embarrassed for you.  What ever happened to gentleman or good strong honest men who love women and want to impress them with success, kindness and chivalry?  Do the sweater line... Continue the modeling while you can... save your money, build your portfolio and invest and you will be untouchable....Don't be a fool as you are not getting any younger...Plan for the success of your future and that is NOT screwing every girl in sight.  I have only watched a few of the shows and do not know about your past but, I think you have potential.....

TippPatt
TippPatt

Really Jax - walk away from that overbearing female you foolishly displayed on your arm. In the future, you're now bound to add other signature tats just to cover up the first one. Hey - make them different colors - LOL If you don't, you're going down as the dip sheet of what was once cool - reality TV. When it's over, it's going to be way, way over and there you will be on tape - scraping the bottom begging the Stacci to know you're breathing. Absolutely pathetic. Change your ways, man.

RozM
RozM

This time it is about Kristen and Tom's relationship.  Kristen is a troublemaker, no matter whether it is in her romantic relationship, at work, or with friends.  I, too, like Arianna, think she is bi-polar, unhappy and very insecure.  She emasculates Tom and he can't do anything acceptable to her.  She needs to get over his infidelity...if things had been working between the two of them, he wouldn't have strayed.  Tom is a "hunk"..very handsome, and I am sure he could have anyone he wanted.  Maybe he and Ariana would be a good team, after all.   Tom, don't stay around someone who demeans you all the time.  I thought it was really laugable when Jax called Tom aside, about how Kristen treated Tom, and he needed to "break it off"..when Stassi was doing the same thing to Jax..and he didn't have the courage to make a break either!  Tom is a prince of a guy, he doesn't deserve this..Forget the past, Kristen, if you want to be with this guy..or move on.  You are a "harpie'..I don't know why he even gives you the time of day.

whitneyxx
whitneyxx

you are the furthest thing from "honest," Jason.

bravofanfromBoston
bravofanfromBoston

Seriously Jax you need to be honest with yourself before you can move forward.  Stassi was invested in you and the relationship caused her a lot of unhappiness.  You did lie.  You did cheat and you did date the other girl at the Sur that you dumped all over too.  Though she may be mean sometimes and somewhat immature, Stassi deserves an honest apology.  Leave her alone.  You know you will only hurt her again.  In fact, why don't you date woman your own age and leave these younger woman alone.

 

msmith76
msmith76

The entire case sucks especially Lisa.  She is not a role model she seems to encourage piss poor behavior for ratings.  I guess the public is paying for the renovations to her clubs.  A Nice con if you can get it.

fivekidsunderfive
fivekidsunderfive

You're the type of guy my Mom warned me about when I was starting high school. She'd say, "Watch out for the guys who will smile you right out of your panties" In all seriousness, it seems like you and Stassi are on a carousel. I'm not sure if you did sleep with Kristen but if you did, maybe that horrific act will be the match that finally ignites this pile of messy relationships/friendships. Maybe your womanizing ways will actually become an indirect positive because it could put an end to this entire social circle. Then you'll all be forced to move onto bigger and better things. Somehow, I can still picture Kristen working at SUR until she's 50. Or maybe she'll end up as a regular who sits and the bar smoking cigarettes by herself and telling stories to tourists.

JessicaLayne94
JessicaLayne94

Jax- not that my comment will mean anything to you, but you should step back and really reassess your life. Where are you? Not that there is ANYTHING wrong with being a bartender at any age, but I think there comes a point in one's life when they are tired of drama. You're in your 30's. Whatever you choose to do with your life is your own business, but you're making yourself seem and look so idiotic and immature. 

 

Any girl who would want you after you admitted on national television that you slept with over 300 people must be seriously desperate or brain-dead. After hearing that, I don't blame Stassi for not wanting to be with you- and now I get why everyone calls you a pig. Again, you flirted with Ballerina at the bar, probably had sex with her too, and what? a night later you're out with a different girl? It's so pathetic. 

 

And don't say you're an honest person- because you constantly contradict yourself. On the last episode, you said you lied to your therapists face, you lied to Stassi, and I'm sure there's a plethora of other things you lied about, yet, you say you're such a honest person. No...you're not. Get a life- it's so pathetic. 

MizzouTraveler
MizzouTraveler

Move on…..you're embarrassing yourself.  Stassi is abusive and you're incapable of being faithful.   By trying to stay in  Stassi's grace, it  just makes you look weak and when this reality show is over, that's all you'll be remembered for.  Remember what Lisa said, use the show to go onto bigger and better things.  Is being emasculated by someone like Stassi, publicly, what you want your legacy to be?  Don't you think enough of yourself to believe that you deserve better than that?  If you had a son, would you want him to be treated the way Stassi treats you?  I'm far from being a fan of yours, but I still see a great deal of potential.   Dump the dead weight.  

donoharm
donoharm

"You're just honest."  Is that what you said?  You have no control over your impulses both lying and sexually.  Looks fade and all that's left is who you are and how you have treated people in your life.

Lck
Lck

Good lord Jax, your thought process sounds like an 18 year old. Get it together man.

oceanbreeze72
oceanbreeze72

Sex addict my arse! You want to screw everything then put that lame label on it. For what? To make yourself feel better about what you do. Grow up.

shanlea
shanlea

And one other thing: Just be a ho. That's what you are good at.

shanlea
shanlea

Ummm. Not Team Anyone. The girls are hellaciously cruel and disgusting... you're just immature and idiotic.  Stassi is such a mean vile human being no one gives a fig what you did to her.  Everyone blows. The only people I root for are Shwartz and Peter. 

okidikiepokie
okidikiepokie

@L.L.R.  

He has a " I love me addiction ".  I love Stassi  addiction". I will turn on my friends addictions" and a Peter Pan addiction". 

Carla39
Carla39

 @picosoriano Give Stassi up? Stassi needs to give Jax up. She can't seem to give the man breathing room. She gets mad when he now dates other girls or either look look at one. He can move on but she can't.

cars121
cars121

 @JessicaLayne94

 SO spot on with one exception...."but you're making yourself seem and look so idiotic and mmature" SHOULD HAVE READ:  but YOU ARE idiotic and immature.  Whew...I fell better now....lmfao.

TippPatt
TippPatt

 @MizzouTraveler Amen. Poor man looks like such a fool. And, for that mean thing that calls itself Stacci? No way. No freaking way.

MizzouTraveler
MizzouTraveler

 @shanlea No doubt.  Schwartz and Peter rock!  The rest are becoming a bore.  The men have no balls and the girls are the most insecure, unsophisticated chihuahuas ever.  I actually like Scheana and her friends now though, even though I find her past behavior with a married man morally repugnant.