Katie Maloney

Katie explains why she was so upset with Tom and what she felt when she got a beer poured on her head.

on Jan 60

Tom is generally an extremely laid back guy. He is very non confrontational and always makes light of situations. This is a quality I love about him, but at times it also frustrates me. I think he forgets that I am a very emotional being, and I don't like when he makes light of a situation that has me very upset. I am entitled to feel however I feel about a matter, and for him to not show compassion towards me is very hurtful. It is as if my feelings are irrelevant or don't matter. It is a learning curve for us. I recognize that our relationship isn't perfect, but we work at it and grow together through times like this.

I was extremely upset and angry when we got back to the hotel. All the girls were in high spirits and having fun, and I was like this wet blanket. I was so happy that I made the decision to go skinny dipping. It pulled me out of my funk and being with my best friends was exactly what I needed.

I knew when I saw Schwartz the next day that he was going to try and sweep it under the rug. I was still upset and angry though. He started defending his actions as if it were my fault and that I had caused him to react the way he did. I can account for my contribution to the fight, but ultimately I wanted a sincere apology. I didn't feel he was willing to take any responsibility.

I know how Stassi is about her birthday and I didn't want to be the one who spoiled it. I was certainly still dealing with my feelings and thoughts and had yet to have a conversation with Schwartz. Even though it was Stassi's birthday, I did appreciate the sympathy from her.

85 comments
FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Katie just in case you have not been told by a female family member to get rid from your life a guy who would pour a drink over your head in anger...I am saying it for them.....that is a sign....of things hidden and things to come...he seems a little slow at times......so perhaps he has some challenges but his act was one of aggression....no matter what your condition was...throwing anything at you was clearly not just an immature thing to do...but a form of battery...without the assault part......Hoping you have family or friends that picked up on this....

baaboo32
baaboo32

Katie the way you act is just so very gross. Eww

wingsuitphan
wingsuitphan

Saying you and your "friends" act like 13 year olds gives actual 13 year olds a bad rap. I've never seen behavior like this among friends of any age, hell my 8 year old carries herself with more dignity than you and your cronies. I realize this is a reality show and perhaps all staged acting, I pray anyway, but man, you all need some serious mental readjusting. May I suggest some heavy psychedelics for a speedy dose of ego loss?

freedomlover
freedomlover

You did nothing wrong, while all of your friends did nothing but that.  It's sad when women make excuses for the men in their lives, such as, "He didn't mean it."  If he didn't mean it, then why did he say it?  People always say what they mean.  Women just don't want to admit they are with someone who has no respect for them.  He called you a moron, and said you embarrassed him.  He clearly sided with the others against you.  That should be a deal breaker in it self.  He is telling you the truth by his actions.  I can't imagine staying with any one who did all those things to me.  Why do women think they can't do better then the jerks they are with?  Stassi was right about one thing.  If her boyfriend poured a drink over her head she would leave him.  That is his way of telling you he thinks you are a piece of dirt.  Marriage will only intensify that kind of behavior.

Elizabethsheila
Elizabethsheila

Stassi left Louisiana because she was a nothing over here. Not as pretty as southern girls and not popular.  Dont follow a nobody. You are too pretty to listen to her. all the plastic surgery will not make her pretty.

Elizabethsheila
Elizabethsheila

If you were Kristin's friend you would not judge like stassi does. if she loves him let her fight for him and be there for her when she needs u no matter. that is what friends are for.

joeyr
joeyr

I think you are the biggest cry baby ever.  You can dish it out but you can't take it.  You follow Stassi around like you are her little dogs.  You do what she tells you and when she tells you.  Why don't you grow some balls. Your boyfriend will never marry you because he wants someone with class which you have none. I think when women overdrink they are the most disgusting creatures that ever was born.  Clean up your act and start acting like a lady and you might find someone who wants you, Maybe

msSizemore
msSizemore

He knew EXACTLY what he was saying when he said "you make me miserable!"  Look at yourself? Look at Kristen! Stassi!! You 3 girls honestly act like you're in 8th grade...10th as Tom said is giving you girls to much credit..Who could blame Scheana for not wanting to be with you 3 mean girls? No one!  YOU nee AA!  You cannot handle alcohol at all...everytime u get drunk you are evil Katie....and honey loose the blonde hair, it really looks ridiculous!

tonya.liscombe
tonya.liscombe

You expected Scheana to try and smooth things over at the beginning of the trip, but did u, or Kristin, or the evil spawn stassi make an effort to do the same with Scheana? Did y'all make the effort to make shay and scheana feel welcome and included at the airport? No y'all didn't. Why is it ok for y'all to act that way but not scheana?  Yes I think scheana can b immature, but at least scheana isn't a "mean girl" like you and Kristin and the head bitch skanky! You are so lucky that you have an awesome boyfriend in Tom. The way you have been acting lately, you don't deserve him. Wake the f up!!!!!!

shysharon
shysharon

if I gave a hoot, I'd comment but because I don't, I won't!

Hulali
Hulali

You make a fool of yourself every episode!  You must be ashamed of what you see on the show.  Poor Tom is just trying to help you get through the filming without looking like a mean hateful drunk. 

tjoy310
tjoy310

To the average girl watching, you girls have everything. So you can't get mad at the negative & very harsh comments folks post. The whole mean girl, fake friend & other immature antics you girls exhibit has done nothing for any of you; it's only made you girls targets for the public to vent their real life rage your behavior provokes within them. How smart is it for you all to use your "15 minutes of fame" in such a non-productive manner? You've been given a platform (many would die for) that could elevate, escalate, START that career you really want. They way you girls behave - drunk and/or sober has been enough to scare any future employer, investor, prospective man - AWAY!! Two years from now, would you review your show and say "I'd like to have that girl on my team", "I'd consider investing real money on that girl" and/or "I can see that women being the mother of my children". You girls need to really look at how poorly you all have come off and make some serious and very necessary changes. Remember your future could depend on this and there are a lot of folks watching....                          

 

 

gloriib
gloriib

Are you really 30 yrs old ? Why would you take Stassi,'s advice on anything?  She Is an immature 25 year old with the mentality of a middle school student of 12. You try to speak with a grand vocabulary. But don't quite behave like an adult. Be your own woman, be polite and generous and friendly. Not catty, spiteful and mean. Scheana never hurt you. Are you just jealous of her because she is pretty and is engaged to Shay? If not,  then what is your  nastiness all about? Grow up, be the woman that your age says you are. And dye your hair back to dark brown. It brings out your eyes. Leave orange hair to Ronald McDonald. It makes your skin look yellow and washed out. Go by yourself and get a makeover done. Wear some rosey colored lip gloss. You have the face to outshine Kristin and Stassi if you would only have some pride in your pretty face. And for God's sake stop drinking. It makes you be a train wreck. Show some maturity and be sweet, not cruel. She came along, because no one likes to be left out of the fun. Do You?

 

 

 

ughhh
ughhh

since its apparent you need it spelled out for you, i will explain: because you girls are so awful to be around, scheana would rather be gangbanged than even be in the same van with all of you. she doesn't want to be gangbanged, but she would readily be to avoid just sitting in a 15 minute cab ride with you terrible people. reflect not on what that says about scheana, but what that says about you. 

Jahneil
Jahneil

Katie and Kristen are drunks. They drink too much, then start shit where there doesn't need to be. Whats even more irritating is the fact that they absolutely can't stand to see anyone make peace with anyone else.  Stassi would be okay with being friends with Scheana, but the drunks (mean girls) don't want to see that happen. Frankly, Scheana can be annoying at times too. The fact that Stassi looks beyond that says a lot. Stassi may be blunt and say things unnecessarily, but she doesn't slur, slobber . and cry during the show.  I wouldn't want to be friends with any of them, in real life, but Stassi is my favorite right now. 

Blink
Blink

"Why would anyone want to take a vacation with people they think are evil and don't want to be friends with?"

 

Maybe because you guys are shooting a reality tv show and she wanted equal airtime to promote herself....duh.  You are quite the mean one; do you even know why you hate Scheana? What did she ever do to you?  Get a grip and a life and stop being a drama queen over petty "ish."  Do you want to be known as the drunk mean mini Brandi? Suck it up girl and start treating people better.  You'd be surprise how people reciprocate.

skanner
skanner

what is wrong with you? seriously,between you and Kristen,I think the Toms are saints

bobbihall1
bobbihall1

You got what you deserved.  You can treat your boyfriend the way you do and not expect a reaction.  You push and push - then comes the beer. Good for Tom. You're a mess and should be single.

WandaP
WandaP

Katie, Really over a drink, ur going to have a temper tantrum? you mean girls EXPECT! EXPECT! But u turn into a crumbling wreck EVERYTIME u drink, ur emotions bounce all over the place, u all feed off each others negative emotions. clearly u need to stop drinking.. Your nastiness last episode to everyone, yet u get a free pass, why can't Tom get a free pass, especially because he's doing something kind, it's who he is.. You Girls were petty towards Schena, how many times can she break or bend to compromise to be the mean girls friends. She showed more compassion to Stassi last season, then any of you ever have. you are so vile when drunk, ur close friends, cringe to the point Kristen wants to drag u away, before u implode. Get some real therapy, or you will lose Tom, and ur friends. be accountable for what u say, by changing... Sorry is an empty word.. Glad to see u changed ur hair color ..

SFViewer
SFViewer

I was going to pounce, but having read your blog, I have some understanding where you're coming from. 

BKing19
BKing19

Scheana is annoying, yes, but what's FAR worse is how MEAN the rest of you girls are.  You girls were mean to Scheana from the moment she showed up.  Had she ridden in your van you would have all ignored her and rolled your eyes constantly because she was there.  Knowing this, she rode with the guys.  She chose a humorous (yet very gross) way to convey that riding in the girls car would have been miserable.  But however she chose to say it, it's true - you would have gone out of your way to make her miserable.  And suddenly you're mad that she didn't want to ride with you?!  You didn't really want her there because you're such great friends, so why aren't you just glad she rode elsewhere?  Because...you all wanted the opportunity to be mean to her in the van and not only did you not get to, but instead of letting you drive her away, she proactively chose to be elsewhere.  And that ticked you all off.  Mean girls like to be in charge and push others around...it's just that usually those mean girls are 13, not 25-30 years old.  Grow up.

nicole7
nicole7

Please please please - change your hair back. Please.

bestofboston
bestofboston

Tom should have thrown that beer in your face... maybe next time his aim will be better.

long4_u
long4_u

Katie, your feelings don't matter if you are just straight wrong, which lets just say you were.. All of you girls are impossible to deal with, Mean Girls!!!!! I mean you know how many people our age would do anything to go to Cabo.. I mean suck it up, and let it go.. u came with a group of friends so why try to exclude them and ruin your time and theirs...

sassygoat
sassygoat

well done Tom she was out of control!

DawnTu
DawnTu

I'm not a fan of yours but I do feel compelled to point out that you seem to be an abused woman.  Verbal abuse is a very real problem and I think you would be well served by talking to someone about it.  Tom was verbally abusive on this episode when calling you names, dismissing you, and your feelings.  That will be FAR worse than the drink tossing in the long run.  Stassi too is a verbally abusive person.  Her closest friends are only the ones willing to put up with her mistreatment.    I realize you probably want to be on TV but it is not worth if you have no self-esteem left when it's over.  Please look closely at your relationships and get help.

HollyChar
HollyChar

Am I the only one that noticed that your blog is in desperate need of editing?? Maybe your BFF, Stassi, could check it for you. There are lots of grammatical errors. I guess watching your bad behavior last season on TV wasn't  shocking enough to give you three mean girls a check up from the neck up...  Wow!  So embarrassing... I bet your parents are so proud. Do your self a favor and quit drinking. 

observer12
observer12

I have never in my life seen girls so out of control and delusional.  I say girls because none of you act like young women.  You all act like 13 year old mean girls.  You are all just pathetic.  When Stassi said "What girl can't get along with  group of women" I fell out of my chair laughing so hard.  You 3 along with your new tag along couldn't get along with yourselves for 30 seconds.  All of you girls behavior is unbelievable. Jax is a big sissy  speading gossip. 

Fil007
Fil007

Katie,

 

Don't listen to the haters!    It's perfect all right to get drunk-wasted and insult people, act like a needy woman-child and then cry, cry, cry  the next day !!!!  This is you and you wear it so well.

XtinaRose
XtinaRose

I think it is so retarded that you are entitled to feel what you feel but your boyfriend isn't...you are 30 acting 16. It is really pathetic.

Andrea36
Andrea36

Katie, What a performance. You annoyingly state you can't treat me like this to Tom and yet you won't really do anything about it. Except bitch about it. Grow up. You are an alcoholic. 

J.Mobile
J.Mobile

You are disgusting. Tried to alienate Sheana but karma took care to teach you how it feels.

lovehousewives1989
lovehousewives1989

I see a constant theme in the comments.  Grow up, stop drinking, and quit being a mean girl.  Unless Bravo edits you to be this way, you should really take a long hard look at yourself, and see what others are seeing.

 

CherylS27
CherylS27

If that was you sober, you might want to re-think your tolerance level.  Your Tom was being nice to Scheena since Jax talked crap out of context, to which that made the trip worse, which is funny since all of you agree that he is a liar but when something like this is said, you all believe him.  As for Scheena and the car ride, who can blame her, riding with you guys would have been torture, her on one side being excluded while the rest of you ignore her, so much fun.  As for why she came, what about the money, no one in their right mind would throw that money away and if a full refund is available then you go on the trip and make the best of it.  As for Tom pouring the drink over your head, he was trying to cool you off, after all you have been in the wrong a lot this season to which it is impressive that you still have friends at all.  You were in the wrong at Peter's birthday which it seems you nor Kristen haven't apologized to Scheena for, nor have you nor Kristen apologized for anything else said against Scheena when she has done nothing wrong.  Either learn how to have a couple of drinks before you become a depressing and lying drunk or take responsibility for your actions. Tom was letting you know on several occasions that what you have said and done was not kosher, that is what a true boyfriend means to be, someone who you can talk to you and can in turn voice that he either agrees or disagrees with you and why  and you take that into consideration not that he has to agree with you on all aspects regardless because of your relationship status, grow up.  The world will never agree with you 100%, therefore, don't expect the immediate group to do the same.  Scheena isn't a total innocent but the things you have done since the beginning of the season have been 100 times worse than anything that Scheena has done towards this group. 

suzcurt
suzcurt

I am still not so sure you girls aren't in middle school, your actions speak volumes.  It is like watching a group of pack dogs, you girls are mean.

ammratan89
ammratan89

@FlutterBy She deserve that wake up call, her behaviour was totally disgusting and that happens everytime she drinks

freedomlover
freedomlover

 @shysharon You just gave enough of a "hoot" to indeed make a "comment" and write about it.

24hrhousewife
24hrhousewife

@Hulali I agree, these are the most immature group of girls I have ever seen.

HollyChar
HollyChar

 @tjoy310 Wow.... Best post EVER!! Would I hire any of them? NO. I'd have fired Kristen and Stassi for sure. I hope they ride this 15 minutes of fame, because the wave is crashing into the beach...HARD.

msSizemore
msSizemore

 @Jahneil

 Stassi needs a backbone when it comes to her friendship with Scheana...Stassi could have made the whole trip better by taking Scheana under her wing to telling the mean girls to squash it, that she invited her so get over the bullcrap!!!  Its Stassi's fault for not smoothing it over....

TheWayISeeIt
TheWayISeeIt

 @bobbihall1 And attending AA meetings...if you can't enjoy a couple drinks without getting messy, sloppy, drunk then you have a problem. From hearing your friends talk, this is an "always" thing with you when you drink. Hateful & mean...who would want to put up with that? Why would you want to embarrass yourself that way? Stop already!

freedomlover
freedomlover

 @DawnTu So true.  No woman should put up with the kind of disrespectful treatment Tom exhibited towards her.  It is abusive.  It will only get worse if they get married, because Tom will then feel he "owns," her.  If he treats her so badly while dating, what will he do in a marriage?  Now it's a drink.  What will it be after marriage?  The kitchen chair?  No man should ever side with others against the woman he supposedly is in love with.  Tom didn't show any kind of love that I know of.  Run Katie, while you still can.  Find someone who truly respects you and treats you with kindness.

Genny0317
Genny0317

@ammratan89 @FlutterBy  Wow harsh! No woman (or man) deserves to have their partner pour a drink over their head EVER. Would you put up with that from your partner? If so, I feel sorry for you.