Cast Blog: #PUMPRULES

Tom Discounted My Feelings

Our Producer Shares Scheana's Wedding Invite

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Lisa: What Really Pissed Me Off

Scheana: I Don't Need Kristen

Ariana: Kristen is a Giant "Preying" Mantis

Katie: Stassi Overstepped Boundaries

Scheana: It's Sad How Few Friends Stassi Has

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Lisa Doesn't Want Scheana's Advice

Kristen: This Episode Was Tough to Watch

Tom: Kristen Manipulates Things

Tom Schwartz to Himself: Wake Up ---hole

Scheana: I Don't Spread Rumors

Our Producer Shares Tom's Hair Secrets

Kristen: Jax Is a Sociopath

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Ariana Is Proud of Schwartz for Fessing Up

Lisa Is Ready to Contribute to Jax's Therapy

Jax: Katie and Tom Are in Two Different Places

Katie: I Felt Gutted

Stassi: I Don't Know What I Did to Scheana

Katie: Jax's Rumor Is a Lie

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Tom: If Katie Cheated Drunk, I Could Deal

Scheana: Katie Didn't Cheat

Jax: Katie Came at Me

Lisa: Stassi's a Brat

Our Producer Almost Bought Jax's Bike

Kristen: How Awkward Was Stassi?

Ariana: I'm Sorry for How I Spoke to Tom

Scheana: Stassi's Not the Girl I Knew

Katie: Tom and I's Future Feels Far Away

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Lisa Worries Tom Won't Grow Up

Before and After: Jax Taylor's Nose Job

Tom Schwartz: I Was a Pussy

Our Producer Spills on Jax's Surgery

Tom: My DVR and I Have so Much History

Ariana: Welcome to Adulthood Kristen

Tom Discounted My Feelings

Katie explains why she was so upset with Tom and what she felt when she got a beer poured on her head.

I was well aware that Stassi had invited Scheana to Cabo months earlier when we were all getting along. In the weeks leading up to Stassi's birthday and Cabo, things between us and Scheana turned really ugly. I was personally very surprised Scheana still wanted to come. Why would anyone want to take a vacation with people they think are evil and don't want to be friends with? It's all very counterintuitive. Had it been me, I would have graciously declined the invitation for obvious reasons. We are were so excited, but the idea of Scheana tagging along was like a little grey cloud.

The trip started off exactly as I expected. Plenty of awkwardness with Scheana there. I thought maybe for her on good she would make some effort to try and smooth things over --but she did the opposite by strongly opposing hanging out with half of the group there. I possibly could have done without Jax filling us in on the details of their ride with Scheana.

It was already very clear what was happening and the semantics made it worse. Maybe Jax was looking out, but it certainly drummed up more drama. Our attitude was simply, if she can't stand to be around us why did she bothering coming.My dilemma with my Tom buying Scheana a drink was that he is my boyfriend. I don't need him to fight my battles or be rude to anyone just because I have an issue. However, being that I am his girlfriend, he should have my back in a way that maintains his own agenda but also respects me. He knew how uncomfortable it was for me being at Pink Kitty with Scheana there.

The reason I got so upset was because I felt that he was more concerned with Scheana's comfort rather than my own. Tom is everyone's friend. He is so eager to please everyone and make them happy or keep them laughing -- but he fails to ensure the comfort of his own girlfriend AT TIMES. This scenario had played out in the past, and I had tried to explain my feelings to Tom. The night at Pink Kitty I think it just all came to a head. I grew even more upset when it escalated into a fight on the street, resulting in getting a beer poured over me by my own boyfriend. I was humiliated in front of my friends and everyone else who witnessed it.

I was in complete shock when Tom poured a drink on my head. I couldn't believe our fight had gotten that out of control. Had I been drinking? Yes. Was I wasted? No. I was of much more of sound mind than Tom. He said that he thought I was going to pour his beer on him, which is not true. I did try to knock it out of his hand though. I hate having to relive this moment in my head. It's completely uncharacteristic of Tom and I and felt destroyed.

Tom is generally an extremely laid back guy. He is very non confrontational and always makes light of situations. This is a quality I love about him, but at times it also frustrates me. I think he forgets that I am a very emotional being, and I don't like when he makes light of a situation that has me very upset. I am entitled to feel however I feel about a matter, and for him to not show compassion towards me is very hurtful. It is as if my feelings are irrelevant or don't matter. It is a learning curve for us. I recognize that our relationship isn't perfect, but we work at it and grow together through times like this.

I was extremely upset and angry when we got back to the hotel. All the girls were in high spirits and having fun, and I was like this wet blanket. I was so happy that I made the decision to go skinny dipping. It pulled me out of my funk and being with my best friends was exactly what I needed.

I knew when I saw Schwartz the next day that he was going to try and sweep it under the rug. I was still upset and angry though. He started defending his actions as if it were my fault and that I had caused him to react the way he did. I can account for my contribution to the fight, but ultimately I wanted a sincere apology. I didn't feel he was willing to take any responsibility.

I know how Stassi is about her birthday and I didn't want to be the one who spoiled it. I was certainly still dealing with my feelings and thoughts and had yet to have a conversation with Schwartz. Even though it was Stassi's birthday, I did appreciate the sympathy from her.

My intentions were to suck it up for the night and celebrate Stassi's birthday with everyone regardless of how I was feeling. Of course, Scheana had to bring it up at the table. I found it so inappropriate of her to do so. First of all, it is none of her business. It should not have been the topic of anyone conversation at that table. Of course, once everyone is talking about it. I got upset. Then Schwartz, tries to dissolve it, which in turn made me feel worse. Schwartz telling me to"get over it" broke me. Again, MY feelings were discounted.

When Schwartz and I began bickering at the table, everyone started to gang up on me. I couldn't control my emotions though. I realize I was spoiling the evening, but clearly I wasn't able to control myself. I could have used some sympathy from my friends.

I know Schwartz didn't mean it when he said i was making him miserable. He didn't want to talk or fight about it and he got frustrated. Everyone at the table was screaming at me and I knew I just had to go.

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Scheana: I Don't Need Kristen

Scheana can't believe Kristen is shocked about being unwelcome in Vegas, or that James is talking poorly about her songs.

To begin with -- I do not understand how Kristen's brain works. She says it "doesn't make sense" that her and James were disinvited? I literally laughed out loud when I heard her say that. It makes all of the sense in the world, in the universe, that they were disinvited. Why would I want the people at my bachelorette party who ruined my birthday party? Common sense. It took a hell of a lot of convincing for me to allow Kristen and James to come to Miami. I didn't want to have to disinvite them from the wedding as well so I figured if they come to Miami and can be on their best behavior then they can come to the wedding. It was a work in progress. It's not easy for me to just throw friends away like Stassi does. I also cannot wrap my head around WHY Kristen so badly wanted to come to Miami when over half of my bridal party hates her. Why would I hang out with her over my bridesmaids? I mean is she literally insane? I'm beginning to think the answer is yes.

Why would I want the people at my bachelorette party who ruined my birthday party? Common sense. 

Scheana Marie

Look, I have been friends with Kristen, I have been enemies with Kristen, and I have been frenemies with Kristen. Never once have I been her "best" friend or taken advantage of her. I don't "need" Kristen there for me for something like this and I'm really sick of her playing the victim.

I didn't reach out to James to do another song. My manager Russell did because he is also James' manager and wanted to get some of his music out with someone (me) who already had a small following. I don't want to be a singer. I'm the first person to say I don't have an amazing voice. That's no secret. Music is a fun hobby for me -- not something I am trying to pursue as a career because that would literally be a joke. I have many other things I am pursuing right now including a signature makeup line with Starlooks. Music isn't what I want to do to make money doing for the rest of my life. I'm not even good enough at it to consider it. But how dare James say my last producers did a horrible job. How insulting is that? First of all Russ produced my first single "What I Like" so that's a huge slap in the face to him. Luca and Ethan who did "Good as Gold" have several chart toppers with artists such as Selena Gomez and numerous awards. James has also tried to work on music with Luca. Why would he work with someone who is a "horrible" producer? That kid has a lot of growing up to do and several life lessons to come.