Scheana Marie

Scheana is shocked Stassi slapped Kristen when her words are so hurtful, and thinks back to when she and Kristen were friends.

on Jan 270

Being at SUR the night Jax admitted he slept with Kristen was beyond awkward and confusing. Jax has been known to be King of the Liars so I wasn't too sure he was telling the truth initially -- even though he is sooooo convincing. At first I was like "no way" and then I was like "I think it's true," And THEN we saw the texts and knew it was the truth.

It's super messed up on both ends. Words can't even describe. As much as I haven't been a fan of Kristen this past year, we actually used to be good friends -- prior to me working at SUR. Tom, Kristen, Shay and I had known each other for years just from Tom and I working at Villa Blanca together. However seeing how close her and Stassi were when I started at SUR caused a rift in between us. Kristen used to stick up to Stassi for me all the time and explain to her I was more than just a "homewrecker," which I really appreciated, but the day I started at SUR it began to change. Kristen and I grew apart and I didn't feel like I knew her anymore. At this point I had heard so many stories about Kristen, it didn't shock me that this could be true.

I must say Stassi's plan to confront Kristen was genius and I would've done the same thing. The only thing was, I felt absolutely terrible for blindsiding Tom with this. Schwartz, Shay, and I wanted to tell Tom soooooooo bad what was going to happen that night but we were afraid he might give Kristen a heads' up and she wouldn't show. We didn't want to take that risk so we kept quiet. To this day I still apologize to Tom for being a part of that confrontation. It wasn't fair to him and I will always be sorry for that!

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Florida1234
Florida1234

I agree, Tom was really the victim of them all.  Let's see more of Peter and Ariana.  The old faces are getting a little stale. 

fembot1
fembot1

Most people employed  at SUR, can discern, just as I can, that Stassi is Lisa's  favorite employee. So

they lay off Stassi,  continually feed her  giant  ego and pray to god  she will quit soon. Those conditions are NOT fair to the other employees Lisa, Not fair! 

Jax should leave SUR to the other children who work there. He is practically middle-aged and should go out and get a regular job, if he can. He is in my estimation, a dirty ole man of 34 who looks 40 and should leave his Garden of Eden @ SUR behind, and find a position elsewhere.

georgiaofindiana
georgiaofindiana

Stassi tonite asked herself a question "Why can't good people find other good people?" (Something to that)  Seat down little girl and I will tell some facts of life.  You get back what you put out there.  If YOU really were a good person you would attack good people.   You and Jax make a perfect pair.  You two deserve each other.  YOU are always stirring the pot and treating people like dirt.  A worm is high on the list then you are!!!!

Elizabethsheila
Elizabethsheila

You are so obscessed with Stassi, you deserve what u got for your party.  It will always be about Stassi.  She could care less about u

diana.wagner.16144
diana.wagner.16144

The texts are from kristen's phone to Jax,but it was Stassi making the text.To see if Kristen slept with Jax,to see what reply Jax would make.Remember,Jax said he didn't know what Kristen was talking about, It was Stassi he was texting with never knowing it was Stassi.So Jax is a liar.Why he would admit to Tom that he did,when he didn't probably did it for the ugly jealous Stassi.Ariana get off Tom,he is taken.you already knew.I hope Kristen and Tom stay together,they are the best looking couple.Like them both,to bad that Jax is a loser,done Tom dirty!


kelken
kelken

Scheana, I have to admit that we weren't your biggest fans when you came on the show, what with all of your various sicknesses, dental-gate, and finally wrapped foot on stool syndrome.  Yet, you started to grow on us.  You did what you wanted to do, and how you did your thing.  You wanted to hang with the guys down in Cabo and you truly had no use for the BS that was going on throughout Stassi's 25th birthday (I mean, this chick is whacked out about her damned birthday—it has to be the secret word one of these days on WWHL!


Anyway, congrats on your engagement and you and Ariana are, by far, the hottest and cooled girls on the show!

mac112709
mac112709

I was watching a clip from a previous show today and you had the absolute nerve to tell Scheana to keep her nose out of other's business. Are you serious???? You, Kristen and Stassi are in EVERYONE'S BUSINESS ALL THE TIME. Where do you get the nerve??? I am so sick of all of you children, you are not adults, you act like middle school girls. Pathetic, you have no allegiance to anyone but yourselves. Stassi is a psychopath, who has an ego way bigger than she should. She is no big deal, in fact I think she is very unattractive in her looks and her insides. You need some serious help with your alcohol issues, please see someone. And Kristen needs to move on, neither of you are good enough friends to anyone including yourselves. What a bunch of nasty mean girls. Go get real jobs and stop working in a bar.

keepinitrealtoo
keepinitrealtoo

Wait a minute.  Correct me if I am wrong but wasn't the text that Jax supposedly received from Kristen trying to "cover it up" written by Stassi the day she went to Kristen and Tom's apartment and she said the only way she could get over the rumor was to text Jax from Kristen's phone pretending to be Kristen?  When Tom read what the text said when he was at the beach after it all went down, the last part of it (the text Stassi wrote) said something to the effect of "so I can cover my bases..."  When you look at the phone laying on the table when Stassi pretended to be Kristen, you can clearly see that is what it said when she text Jax to catch him - and Kristen.  Just sayin.

CherylS27
CherylS27

This was such a hot mess, we all know that Katie, Kristin and Stassi are all egotistical sociopaths and Jax is a pathological liar, that doesn't change. However, what is just unforgivable, is that Kristen played the victim the entire season because Tom cheated on her, either making out 3 years ago with Ariana or with someone else in Vegas.  However, with Jax, that is a whole other level of disgusting.  That is revenge in it's purest form, Kristen either did it to get back at Tom or was drunk, either way it is still not ok.  As for Stassi, what does it matter, her and Jax were broken up, so he is able to do what he wants, how Stassi handled things with Kristen was wrong.  Stassi should have confronted her in front of Tom with Jax there, not everyone who works at SUR for such an audience to witness everything. However, in the end, Tom was played by Kristen and Jax, to which Karma is a bitch.  This season you were the one person who didn't show her ass, someone has to be the stable person on the show and that is you.

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

a commenter brought up a very interesting point .....when Stassi got wind of the Jax/Kristin rumour she used Kristins phone to text Jax pretending to be Kristin .........it was the text that Jax showed Tom ......if I remember Kristin deleted the text after Stassi seemed to be at ease  that it was a rumour 

Tinkerbelle1234
Tinkerbelle1234

Scheana......  I have to admit that I LOVE 'Vanderpump Rules' & always have....  I realize it's just a 'show' & the crazier, more chaos it creates, the better the ratings.... It appears that  you realize that any form of violence towards another person, Stassie slapping Kristen, is against the law.

Out of all the female characters on the show I do beleive from watching you the past two seasons that you're the only one with a head on her shoulders, can think for themselves, questions accusations & you didn't alienate people just to be part of the 'pack'....   Do you stir the pot?  Absolutly!  It's called 'assisting' the show  in fulfilling the drama, chaos, tons of craziness requirements while 'assisting' keeping the show on the air with high ratings while you sit back & watch the aftermath in lieu of participating.....  Kudos!!

Enjoy you on the show & congrats' on your engagement.......

mimilandia
mimilandia

Scheana, why did you all decided to be a part of this? Why follow Stassi like minions as she basically said she wanted to "crucify" Kristen? You all know what a psycho and unbalance person Stassi is. Why give her the control and back her up in all this?  This had nothing to do with you all.  I was ashamed to see you and Shay - who I think are the most balanced couple there - be a part of this.   it was pretty shameful and I hope you all realized this error in judgment.


yolsmoo87
yolsmoo87

Scheana, why would you want to be friends with someone who is toxic as Stassi?  She is extremely toxic and you don't need that around you.  STAY AWAY from that.

maxmcca
maxmcca

All of you girls on this show are a hot mess. Why on earth would  you be friends with someone as cruel an  calculating as Stassi? I think you should value  yourself a little more than to associate with her. Being a part of a group of people who gang up on someone for revenge  is ugly. Why would you let Tom be blindsided like that? Do none of you have any morals at all?

joeyr
joeyr

Please loose the stupid glasses.  You look like the mouse on an old cartoon that used to wear extra large glasses.  You look ridiculous.  What happened did you all decide to go to the same eye doctor and he told you needed these. 

You are so arrogant and act like you are so much better than the rest of the group when you are the one who went out with a married man.  Please don't even try to say you didn't know.  You knew and didn't care.  Just remember karma is a bitch.

Fil007
Fil007

It's interesting how this group of people are on "constant rotation" of who's in and who's out.  


-First, Scheana's in and then, she's out with this group.


-Katie's in and then she "ruined" Stassi's birthday party, which as we all know, is a national holiday.  Of course, she has to accept her punishment and be put in time out.


-Kristin is mouthing off to Scheana all season and insulting the hell out of Adrianna for infidelity and then, we find out, that Kristin and Jax had some hook-ups which seemed to be proven by "guilty" texts proving infidelity.


The moral of the story:  don't be friends with Stassi and run, don't walk, away from the emotionally deficit, serial liar, Jax.

ak_gal
ak_gal

Is it as messed up as you sleeping with a married man with a pregnant wife? I'm afraid you are not qualified to be a moral judge.

sholly
sholly

Jax & Stassi have similar "power" over their friends......they can do or say anything and everyone just pooh poohs it off and accepts them over and over.  Why I will never understand.  When you hang out with degenerates you become one.


I believe Jax is SOMEWHAT sorry but in his warped mind he figures Tom cheated on Kristen a few times so whats the difference?  He doesn't get the fact that this is one of his good friends of 10+ years and you never cross that line.  I wonder if deep down inside of him he is glad that Tom & Kristen are on the outs because he never got the "girl" he wanted.  If he has to suffer why shouldn't Tom too as he views Tom's cheating the same way he cheated on Stassi.  


So sorry for TOM.  You were dealt the ULTIMATE DOUBLE BLOW by 2 of your BFFs.  


Listen to Lisa.  She is always right on with her words of wisdom!



dianacc
dianacc

I love when you and Stassi are friends!

junedog20
junedog20

Was that Mikes girlfriend [from shahs of sunset] sitting at the restaurant where the smackdown took place ?

Blink
Blink

This girl is full of "ish".  Glad to know Scheana would've handle the situation the same as Stassi in such a cowardly way of instead of having a one on one, let's call a gang of people and attack the girl.  Maybe Brandi should used that technique on Scheana.  She didn't look uncomfortable laughing at Kristen getting assaulted not only that night but the next day she was still laughing it up almost congratulating Stassi for assaulting Kristen.  And sorry the film does show Stassi's minions to include Scheana, bowing down to what Stassi says.  I hate the gang up mentality and Scheana and Shay was part of the herd when this all went down, so making her blog seems like she was so off put by events doesn't match up with her laughing and chiming in agreeing with Stassi sick plan.  I'm simply amazed how these grown adults allow a vindictive self absorbed person like Stassi tell them what to do.  She's not even likeable but yet they all want to be her friend.  Scheana and the rest of Stassi's minions need to evaluate in themselves what makes them listening to this Stassi and that includes Kristen and Lisa.

jhk99910e
jhk99910e

I dont have the slightest idea why Stassi thinks she is  good catch.  Jax and her both have such lousy personalities that they deserve each other and they are both ugly as a result of their lack of class.  They are decadent and both lack moral strength.  I can't watch this show anymore because of them.  I hope they read this stuff.

sofie7
sofie7

If I remember correctly, you girl's all got together after the slap session and your comment was "cheers to Stassi for backhanding Kristen finally". No you don't bow down to Stassi do you! In the future I would recommend that you review the episode before you blog.

brodi
brodi

Scheana, it's best that you and Shay kept completely out of it. Stassi is hands-down certifiably sociopathic. She's entitled, believes her opinions are absolute, is easy to anger and lashes out often, feels no guilt or remorse and cannot apologize, is incapable of empathy or compassion, regards her "friends" as tools she can manipulate at will -- and if she can't manipulate you? She has no use for you. She's the most toxic person on the show; if I were you all I'd steer clear of and/or confront her and take her down a few pegs. As things stand now she rules the staff at Sur; she's turned you all into mealy-mouthed supplicants, spineless lemmings. I do think you're the strongest of the bunch, Scheana, but you seem to want a connection with Stassi a little too much. Frankly, what you all need to do is rise up and take Stassi DOWN. Put her in her place and keep her there. I don't think you realize fully how viewers regard you all. Read the comments; most viewers are shocked at how much power Stassi wields on the show -- and how embarrassingly passive the rest of Lisa's staff are around her. If you and Shay have kids one day, do you want them watching an old episode of the show and seeing how ineffectual and tongue-tied you were in the face of Stassi's bullying? I think not.

sarahintexas
sarahintexas

You know that you had an affair with a married man, right?  How is having an affair with someone's ex boyfriend worse?  

timmons22
timmons22

I'm shocked you were shocked.  Stassi's insane.

bravoliscious
bravoliscious

The title "mean girl" comes from YOUR actions.  You are horrid.  You create an atmosphere where you are the ruler and you punish the minions that dare to cross you.  You are an awful person.  What Kristen did was wrong, but your actions are far worse.

Itokagi23
Itokagi23

What was so difficult for me was the realization that I was actually watching such a ridiculous show, and the fact that

all those people just sat there while Stassi ranted on, and then struck Kristen! What a bunch of mindless losers!

EDSimpson27
EDSimpson27

The micro-expressions captured when Stassi backhanded/slapped Kristen are disconcerting.  She appears to be smiling when she hauled off and hit her friend.  How disturbing, is that?  She, obviously, relished the moment.  CREEPY.

amerikiss
amerikiss

Scheana, why don't you stay out of it? Why don't you stay neutral?  It's not your fight and you of all people know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of Stassi's hate.  Just because you don't like what is happening with Kristen and Tom it is really not your place or the others place to take sides like Stassi wants. Whether Kristen and Jax banged each other or not please stay neutral and try to be supportive to Kristen.  How horrible she must feel to have all that hate from everyone because Stassi wants them to behave that way towards her. We all make mistakes and you yourself were in a simular situation not to long ago with Brandi's ex.

colorado1
colorado1

Stassi was on Watch What Happens Live, did you see her face right before the show ended and the poll results were posted??? 52 in favor of Kristen - 48 in favor of Stassi. It was way too funny!!!!

LovelyJS
LovelyJS

Stassi had no storyline this year and she was desperately holding on to last year's storyline.  The entire season was about her digging for dirt on her "BFF".

Spritz1225
Spritz1225

Omg, Stassi is crazy.  I can totally understand being hurt and feeling betrayed but to hit someone? You're 25 not 2.  She's lucky Kristen didn't file a police report. 

By the way, congratulations on your engagement and stay out of the muck and turmoil.

Chloe1223Cook
Chloe1223Cook

Did anyone notice that the text Tom got so upset about was the one that Stassi sent from Kristen's phone!?

janet.coney
janet.coney

Stassi seems to be seriously mentally ill. Her power over others is confusing and disgusting!!!!

long4_u
long4_u

Congratulations on your engagement!!!!!!!

Phei77
Phei77

These people are all age 25-35. They follow whatever Stassi says about who is "in" or "out" because they just seem relieved her ire is not focused on them and they seem to hope their loyalty will be rewarded in the future like a pack of dogs looking for a 'good boy' treat. It is crazy!! I have never seen adults act like this and respond to this mean girl public cruelty, humiliation, shunning, with a plan to be driven out of town!!! This shit could be in a social psychology book about groupthink and bystander nonintervention. The greater the number of people involved, the less likely someone will speak up. It is like the Milgram studies or Stanford University study.

missylv
missylv

@keepinitrealtoo Yes, I saw this also!!  When will this be revealed? Stassi is a snake in the grass for sure.

melsweet
melsweet

@ak_gal she was just a kid at the time.  she's learned her lesson and cleaned up her act.  get off the soap box, its Zzzzzzzz.....

Allthingsgood
Allthingsgood

@Blink  You are 100% right!! Scheana is trying to back peddle now.. Watching them all at the beach when Stassi said (paraphrasing) "Jax you are so lucky that I havent turned  everyone against you like i have with Kristen" like she has the power to direct them who they can and can't talk to. No one said anything to that. After watching that i thought damn Stassi has all the characteristics of a successful cult leader... she would have no problem getting them all to drink the kool-aid lol

fell
fell

@lug  I really pity the man that ends up with Stassi. Of course I should probably back up and say that any man seeing how she is would run away really fast. The most perfect outcome of all of this, should be Jax and Stassi get back together, those two really deserve each other. Oh, and Scheana  you may deny that you do not go along with everything Stassi does, but your actions show otherwise. What happened that night was wrong, no one deserved to be set up that way, and then slapped. But what really bothers me is, all of a sudden y'all believe Jax. 

ElaineM
ElaineM

@bravoliscious  who are you talking to???  This is Scheana's blog, not Stassi's!!  Stassi is too scared to blog here!

Itokagi23
Itokagi23

@colorado1 

Thanks for sharing, I missed the end of the show! :) So glad Kristen won!

J.Mobile
J.Mobile

The viewers noticed it.  Scheana did not so she is giving a wrong perspective.

LovelyJS
LovelyJS

As they were sitting at the beach and she was telling Jax the reason SHE allows everyone else to stay friends with him, made me reconsider why I'm watchng this stupid show.  These people are my age, acting like they are in high school (or younger).

Bev55
Bev55

@Phei77 I read and watched the Milgram studies.  I think Stassi could end up being a convicted felon..  She is now laying the ground work.  She has no boundaries or remorse.  If she would have slapped me, her blond hair would have been blood red.  Stassi is one scary person.  Beware!!!

EDSimpson27
EDSimpson27

@Phei77 

Isn't it odd?  For me, the bizarre aspect is Stassi Schroeder being able to control the other adults.  I have never known anyone of ANY age who is this controllable.  In fact, the people I know and have known would have shunned a person who behaved the way she behaves.

Why does she have this effect upon these people?  She is not a nice or a kind person.  She is not a terribly attractive person.  She is not a very interesting person.  What is her hold?

You are correct about all of this being material for sociological and psychological study!      

EDSimpson27
EDSimpson27

@ElaineM

It was sickening to witness Stassi slap Kristen.  Only a crazy person would do that and believe it is acceptable.  Her behavior is disturbing!

PyraInizio
PyraInizio

@EDSimpson27 @Phei77 It appears they are all dependent and weak minded. They follow the one who screams the loudest, even though Stassi lacks actual substance or authority to enforce anything she does. She is an employee at SUR, the same as the rest of them, with less seniority than some from what I understand. She is beholden to the rules and regulations Lisa lays down. 

However, the staff at SUR appear to be comprised of mostly passive followers (at least those who made the reality show.) They, as a group, are drama prone because they lack resolve. I've not seen one person make take any affirmative action to distance themselves from prevailing issues. It could just be as simple as not listening to gossip, or even just not repeating it. There appears to be some need for them to "belong", none of them can survive without the other and that creates a cesspool of co-dependency. 


Coupled with over inflated egos and misplaced sense of entitlement (giving your boss ultimatums..no) it's no wonder Stassi is able to dictate to them. Again, not because she has anything of value to say, she's just the loudest. And when you have people needed to follow something and be in a group, it's easy to succumb. 


Quite frankly, it's embarrassing--grown men and women with the sensibilities of kindergartners .