Stassi Schroeder

Stassi explains how panicked the rumor of Kristen’s betrayal made her and the guilt she felt for accusing her BFF.

on Dec 19, 20130

I wasn't mad at Katie for not telling me about the rumor sooner, but I was a little let down. If a rumor like that turned out to be true, that's a game changer in terms of all of our friendships. I wouldn't want to have a friend for the next 50 plus years of my life who had done something terrible to me and lied about it. I don't ever want friends like that, so if this rumor was even a possibility, I would need to know so I could discover the truth and weed out anyone who actually isn't a good friend to me. And that's why I wish Katie would have told me sooner.

Kristen is a very strong assertive person. From what I have witnessed over the last four years of being friends with her, when her character is being compromised, she acts out. She gets loud, her emotions run high, and she stands up for herself in a very extravagant way. Those are things I have admired about her. So when I saw her eerily calm and dismissive about the accusation, I felt like it was her way of hiding something. I didn't want to completely accuse Kristen of something this terrible before I had every single piece of information. That wouldn't be fair to her or anyone else involved. So I had to get all the facts from Katie before really doing anything.

51 comments
empire7@skyscraper
empire7@skyscraper

Stassi I really don't understand why you were so ultra flipped out over the Jax and Kristen thing. According to Tom and Kristen on the show and Scheana on her Bravo blog you were seeing Frank while you were still going with Jax.

southernbelle25
southernbelle25

You wanted Jax to 'defend' you against someone not wanting to sit in a van with you and 3 friends who have SAID you don't like her and didn't want her there?  You want to be defended for planning to behave rudely to someone and for them taking steps to avoid it?  You want to be defended from her choice of words, poor as they may have been? What exactly do you need to be defended for or from? 

NaniD
NaniD

I don't understand why people don't like Stassi to be honest. I get that some of the things that come out of her mouth can be mean, but it's not like she means it. It's just her personality. She means no harm, unless you really did make her mad.

 

I like Stassi because she's real.

 

AND I am sorry but ladies, we have all had that ONE byfriend who has screwed us over okay so lets all relax and get off of her back just a little. You guys need to remember that she is human and shes still learning.

Retski
Retski

Look up Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Stassi could be the poster child. She is a manipulative, lying, conniving, totally disingenuous young woman who is not happy even when she has her minions paying homage to her. People with NPD are toxic. They have no real feelings of love, loyalty, empathy, no conscience at all. This girl is going down a slippery slope and when The Karma Police arrive to give her what she has coming to her, it will not be pretty. All of these girls have no morals. I'm sure their parents are so proud every tine they see them striping down to skinny dip on CAMERA! Not surprising that none of them have any deep commitments within their relationships. Sadly, these young adults provide entertainment for those of us who enjoy seeing train wrecks! Hopefully, they are not representative of the twenty-something's in California!

Karencooks1
Karencooks1

Disfunctional - everyone on this show!!

JRZEGIRL
JRZEGIRL

Stasi, Stassi, Stassi. Wake up. You don't think Kristen had time to contact Jax and let him know what was up? She also had time to delete any incriminating texts from her phone to him. They are playing you girlfriend. But, hey, maybe you deserve it. Just sayin

Beckyy
Beckyy

Stassi, who cares that it was your birthday.  You are one BIG bully.  If things don't go your way you want to ruin things for everyone.  And Jax, he's your ex and YOU can't seem to set go.  You wanted to know why he wouldn't back you and your other drunk (a_ _) girlfriends from the one girl you all hate?  I wouldn't back you up with a 10-foot pole.  You're not worth it !  All the other girls are just followers.  You ladies are cruel, backstabbing and so lowdown and dirty.

 

What I want to know is WHO DIED AND MADE YOU QUEEN !  You are really a rotten person....I mean REALLY rotten and nasty.  When you hang with scum you get scum.

 

I don't see how the guys even deal you any of you ladies.   I read one comment that said you were PRETTY, SMART AND HYSTERICAL?  PLEASE........LET ME KNOW WHEN YOU EVEN COME CLOSE !

 

 

GonewiththeWind
GonewiththeWind

Girl your friends are a trip. If you have to play those games you don't need them and all of you need to grow up. Is this what Reality TV is about. You guys bore me with the trivial girl stuff. Can you guys start acting like GROWN WOMEN PLEASE.

i.indie
i.indie

Stassi you actually LOVE to HATE. You never have so big a smile on your face as when you're planning to hurt someone.

nessaedith
nessaedith

Jax said the tattoo was just a henna tattoo, so let that go. Jax & Kristin did something. Did you find out what, is that why you and Kristen aren't friends anymore, and Kristen has joined the Scheana club?

magdalaenia
magdalaenia

I agree with you louise123 and your comment is intelligent and makes a whole lot of sense. Intelligent seems to be lacking in these mean spirited comments though...

 

Stassi, DON'T pay no mind to the haters because honestly, Lisa and the Bravo editors love you.

louise123
louise123

Stassi, don't let the haters get to you. You are hysterical, smart, and gorgeous. You're YOUNG--you'll get there. If I had cameras following ME in my 20's I'd be living under a rock now. Drama is what your 20's are for. The haters on here are just that- full of hate. Why write mean things to a twenty something girl who is putting her life out there when asked to? Head up- you've got BIG things ahead of you. Now Scheana? Her past held choices that hurt people and a family. I understand criticizing her current attack on Brandi--she sees how the audience has turned on Brandi, so she's going in for the kill.  She follows the popular opportunities for manipulations and fame. You haven't done that---And don't modify your responses to appease the haters-- you're why we watch!  These people who sit behind their computers and judge you don't like themselves. And now watch how they go after me!

tjoy310
tjoy310

You girls on this show are wasting the best opportunity you will EVER have! Instead of showing the world what intelligent, confident & independent women you all are, you use your "15 min" acting like 5th graders. You broke up with you man because he was a liar & a cheater. Yet you are shocked to hear the rumors of him long ago cheating & lying. So much so, you stoop to "Fake Friends" & that Mean Girl crap. The exposure the guys have gotten will make it impossible for any of them to be faithful to any one for a very long time. You think you are exposing Jax, letting the world see what a cad he really is - unfortunately, there are so many dumb girls out her - he will pull them all day long - with no problem. I don't know, if I were you girls, I would use this tv exposure to my advantage. You do Sheana - but she comes off as the smart one; in tack relationship, side gig, owns transgressions & shows much improvement. If you don't watch out - she will get the gig with E that you should have gotten.

nikke3
nikke3

I love Stassi. I think she is hilarious and makes the show so much more entertaining. She is smart, quick wit and I love her comments. I think people don't like her because she is very honest but she is normally right on when the truth comes out. I wish they would give her more screen time than Schaena she is seriously annoying and is so desperate and insecure and her wearing those ridiculous glasses make her look even more pathetic. I hope they get rid of Schaena and Ariana is boring too.

lorelye
lorelye

Stassi and Jax are not together anymore.  Stassi claims to be done with Jax so she needs to truely be done with him. That means not obsessing about what he is doing and getting all upset over it.  It means that what he does now and in the past does not matter anymore. If they are not together then there is no reason to get all upset over these things.  Move on Stassi.

beth3315
beth3315

why do you feel the need to dismiss people you always say you can leave and they like fools leaves i would tell you where to get off you are so rude and spoiled i don`t get the attraction i wouldn`t give you a second look youneed to grow up

mojox008
mojox008

HOW COULD YOU TALK ABOUT YOUR CUSTOMERS LIKE THAT? are you too dumb to realize that they watch this?!?!? Seriously, what is wrong with you?

Lubby
Lubby

You're young and life is about learning and that includes learning about ourselves. You crack me the hell up don't know what the fuss is all about and why people are so judgemental towards you. This is a show you play a part and you play it well that is a compliment to you! Happy New Years! 

24hrhousewife
24hrhousewife

U are a joke. Can't stand watching you. You keep on about Jax when it's not your business. Its obvious you still want him because you won't get out of his business. Get over it. It's easy to see why you get cheated on, you are a spoiled brat!

tgirl1224
tgirl1224

It is so obvious you do not want a relationship with Jax, but love the attention he gives you.  It definitely boosts your ego (like you need boosting).  This relationship/ non-relationship is soooo boring and painful to watch.  You need to move on.  As far as Jax goes, he is immature and needs to work on himself before he will ever be ready for a relationship with anyone.  He really doesn't even love you.  He only wants what he can't have.  You guys had a terrible relationship before the "cheating" incident.  On camera both of you talked about how miserable you were.  He is on a quest to win you back, but once he gets you he will be miserable. You are on a quest to make him pay and pull his strings, you do not want him.  He is just nasty and too immature for any woman that has any self-respect.  Put all of us out  of our misery, run and do not let back.

bugsea54
bugsea54

I do feel sorry for Stassi , only because her parents have taught her to behave in such a manipulative, self absorbed way.  When you see her parents on the show you can see why she is the way she is.  Both parents seem to only care about money, looks and booze. Loose the money and the looks and there is nothing there but booze. They have no real values except maybe caring about themselves.  Stassi has trust issues because she can't be trusted and probably true of parents.  I wonder where Stassi's father obtained his money?   Greed , thievery, manipulation who knows, but I could bet it wasn't from treating people nice. Apples don't fall far from the tree. The sad thing is manipulating  people are very predictable so their fame and fortune will not last long. I would also guess they have lots of enemies.   

prettyfades
prettyfades

Please never forget that you are infinitely smarter than these people. 

NYGalinTX
NYGalinTX

OK there are alot of really harsh comments below so I'll just say something nice.  You really are an excellent server, your work ethic is surprisingly solid.  I totally get where you're coming from with the whole Jax/Kristen thing, but then again, I have to question if its really about "Kristen being your best friend" or more about yet another thing Jax has done wrong to you which you seem to enjoy "punishing" him for.  You're a pretty girl and obviously smart, move on past this and try to be a better and kinder person.  You'll be amazed at how positive and great people (who don't cheat, lie to you, make you want to question their friendship, etc) will start gravitating towards you.  But on a good note, you really are comical with some of your comments you make about people in your confessionals.... they do make me LOL.

OhTheDramz
OhTheDramz

Yeah, because it is all about you, right?  Ever think to yourself what the rumor was doing to Kristen's relationship?  To Jax?  Of course not.

catpower
catpower

you need to get over yourself Stassi. If you really felt abuot Jax the way you keep saying you do then nothing he does or has ever done should make a difference to you. It's painfully obvious you would be devastated if he really ever stopped bothering with you. you're a selfish, inconsiderate infant that doen't care about anything but your own well being. Grow the f up.

lynnwhitlock
lynnwhitlock

Just by watching this show it is ridiculously apparent that Kristen would never go for Jax or Jax for Kristen.  Kristen and Katie are your true friends but I would never trust Scema who would do and say anything for her own advantage. 

Socialebritey_SF
Socialebritey_SF

 

 

I've never watched this show. I love LV, she is so classy, but the fact that Stassi is on this show and employed by her, I'm detracting some of her classy points. On to my point, I never watched this show, only because of Stassi and Jax. In the brief clips I have seen, I find your narcicisstic attitudes to be repulsive… as for Stassi it is further unnerving to hear your own father inflate your ego…instead of filling your bubble head with nonsense, he should be teaching you to value yourself beyond how you look.

 

As quiet as it is kept, I gonna be real with you, your looks aren't all that., they surely won't get you very far, and add to it your unattractive attitude, you might well be doomed to role of Bravo reject.

 

You could potentially be a very smart young lady, but your ugly personality will prevent anyone from ever taking you and your actions seriously.

 

You can't change what you've shown to be in the past, but you can change how you will be/act in the future...15 minutes of fame won't compare to the next 40 years of your life…so its best to get a life now, and not waste it in a very sheltered world that isn't based in reality. 

WandaP
WandaP

You got played again, Jax doesn't deny anything.. Kristen look nervous, ur instinct is right, I bet they had a plan in place, cause ur so predictable.. Get over Jax, need to leave sur, and seriously seek theraphy and learn why u get betrayed?

Nisi61
Nisi61

STASSI you need to stop bothering JAX, he's moving on, why don't you.

 

You are irritating!

Myresa
Myresa

Stassi you need to quit with jax. He has a problem with sex and woman. He thinks he's gods gift to woman and everyone wants him. Once you quit thinking of who he's with or been with, you will be able to get on with your life. Find someone who will love you for who you are. You are cute and funny and smart and just need to get over jax and what he's doing. He has to pat his own back in order to get woman. One day his looks will be gone and he will find himself all alone and not able to get anyone or god forbid get someone in trouble and will have to live up to taking care of it. He would be the type not to take care of it and would not be surprised if there isn't a little jaxs running around out there all already. Why would you want someone who can't keep it in his pants for 5min. Who has to keep telling himself he's cute all the time. I know you can do better then him. I would be afraid of getting something from him after all the woman he clams he's had. I know you can do better without him even as a friend, friends don't do what he's done to you over and over. He's not cute at all! Best of luck.

cars121
cars121

Kristen is exactly the kind of friend a person like you deserves.  Water seeks its own level.  You're both insecure, manipulative, narcissistic little girls pretending/telling youselves you're 'grown ups'.  As little girls do, she had the opportunity to take a ride on your on again/ off again man/boy and she took it.  Jax did the same thing to his man/boyfriend Tom, taking a turn on his halfwit/your bestie while they were at odds for the umpteenth time.  They (Jax & Kirsten) played you like a violin.  Keep telling yourself what you need to...clearly you live in a world of your own making.   ROFLMFAO!     

Holyterror
Holyterror

You need a hobby.

Could you be any more miserable and distrustful? If Jax is such a pathetic liar, leave him alone and realize that his behavior is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS -- especially when you were, and are, BROKEN UP.

These ridiculous little "Lucy and Ethel" schemes you dream up to "get the truth" when everyone has told you what the truth is are just SAD.

You seem to want to find out something scandalous just so you can be a victim. GROW UP. Leave the restaurant and your circle of so-called "friends" if you don't trust them.

Try having a modicum of dignity.

abby5051
abby5051

where was your shirt from that you wore in the episode last night? It was so cute!

Robyen
Robyen

If Jax always lies then why even ask him?  You aren't going to believe what he says.  If everyone doesn't trust Kristen then you may want to seriously think about that.  Check out Jax blog, he is insinuating something did happen.  He either is lying again to stir the pot or he doesn't give a Sh^*)_t and wants to break up your pathetic going nowhere clique.

bjunebug28
bjunebug28

Read Jax' blog.  He said it didn't matter if he hooked up with Kristin because you and him were not dating at the time and neither were Kristin and Tom.  He also said that he saw your text message trap coming.  He doesn't deny this "rumor" in the manner in which would be expected.  I think they did it and your original instincts were correct.  The fact that everyone thinks Kristin could have done it speaks volumes as to her character.  

shanlea
shanlea

That was a red herring. Either Kristen and Jax were smart enough to cover their asses in every circumstance - such as texts, OR it is a misdirect to another secret. I'm thinking they did. The fact that Tom and Kristen can stomach each other is perhaps due to his cheating on her and calling it even. However, Jax crossed a line as did Kristen in betraying their friends IF it happened.

shenay
shenay

Yes Kristen doesn't have the best reputation, but neither do you. I thought when she was vindicated, you actually did owe her a more heartfelt apology rather than the reluctant one you gave her.

JaneGold
JaneGold

Katie warned Jax. Read his blog!

ammratan89
ammratan89

 @NaniD Because she is freaking annoying, making drama out of everything. She told Jax to find some1 then when he really does it, she thinks it unacceptable that he does that in front of her. When Katie and her bf had a fight on her birthday, she told katie to stop shouting at her bf and try to feel good as its her birthday, she want everything to be great.. Really? what about when she was on that parade for sur when she found out about jax making out with girls in club, she was real pissed and shout to him on that truck, having knw that its lisa's big day. She is a selfish bitch, who think she can control everyone. The worst part is, she tries to make her friends like her, when they actually have more brain to think than the way she suggested them to.

NaniD
NaniD

 @mojox008 She doesn't care that they watch! Have you not ever said something bad about a customer of yours when they leave? The only difference is that it shows it on camera.

 

You all take things WAY too seriously.

Hulali
Hulali

 @bugsea54

 Stassi's father is a very successful architect in New Orleans. He earned his money

Hulali
Hulali

 @lynnwhitlock

 Scheanna didn't bring up the Kristen/Jax rumor their BFF Katie did!

Retski
Retski

@Socialebritey_SF well said!

suprafreshkid
suprafreshkid

 @bjunebug28 I'm pretty sure Kristen gave Jax a heads up and I think that's why Kristen and Stassi aren't friends right now

bugsea54
bugsea54

 @shenay Stassi don't care who she hurts , so to say she is sorry is not going to happen unless she gets a reward for saying it.