Stassi Schroeder

Stassi thinks Scheana going to Cabo was the right call -- but Jax gossiping about her wasn't.

on Jan 130

I can't even begin to articulate how excited I was for Cabo. I love traveling. I love the sun. I love the water. It was everything I wanted out of a vacation. Nothing ever goes smoothly with this group -- but a girl can dream.

Honestly, picking out the right bikini is all about holding my girls in! I don't focus to much on what the suit looks like, but more how it fits me. It's so, so, so hard for me to find a bikini that is supportive. I have natural boobs. They aren't the perkiest, and the tend to have a mind of their own, so when I find a bikini that has the support of a sports bra, I splurge.

I agree with what Peter told Lisa. Sometimes a change of scenery can help with tension. I really wanted everyone to make a huge effort to get along, it was really important to me.

Honestly, I'm not surprised Scheana came to Cabo. I would have done the same thing. Why miss a vacation to Cabo when it's already booked? Given that Shay was there with her, if s--- hits the fan, they could just enjoy Mexico together. Win-win situation! I would have preferred for her to make a bigger effort with me, especially since the last time I had seen her she had said some hurtful things. That made her getting into the boys car all the worse. It's a group vacation. I am trying to make it so that we all get along, just get in the girls' car and engage in some girl talk!

55 comments
empire7@skyscraper
empire7@skyscraper

Stassi. I'm very disappointed in you. I thought you were a classy girl. When I heard you were sleeping with Frank for a full month While you were still going out with Jax it disgusted me. That's worse Than Jax and Kristen. He was not going out with you at the time and one would expect a lot better from you. How could you be so upset with Kristen when you are both in the same league...

kboot68@yahoo.com
kboot68@yahoo.com

Stassi, You should be very cautious of Katie.  When you went to use Kristin's cell phone to text Jax, did Katie warn Jax or Kristin?   I think she did because how come he acted all innocent during the text with you?  I don't trust Katie, she seems to be bouncing around in the middle.  I wish you the best of luck in all you do and I hope you disconnect from the toxins in that group.

sugarbritches
sugarbritches

Was going to write a well-reasoned post, but decided that you are all too dim to listen to anyone or any other opinions over the din of your egomanical bleating.


You might be pretty on the outside, but the vicious way you behave makes you the ugliest of them all.  Keep on belieiving your hype, though; it's fun to watch as you make a fool of yourself.




areiel04
areiel04

There are times when I really like you and other times not so much. That was so mean and harsh for you to betray Kristen the way you did. How can you go with the girl that her bf cheated with to the boss to get her fired? Really? It may have been a kiss, but would you want your boyfriend to be close to someone that they made out with? Ariana is not that innocent in the situation she is just as guilty as Tom so how could you side with either?  When you treat people the way you do that will catch up with you when you least expect it. One day you may need that same friend whom you betrayed.

okidikiepokie
okidikiepokie

Stassi is the one that harped at Kristen and got her all fired up about this thing about Tom. She hammered at her every time Kristen calmed down. Stassi threw something else at her.  Then she turns on her "friend" and hangs with the girl who is suppose to have hurt her "friend" and turns on her. Kristen has passed my patience point but I would rather be her friend then Stassi's. All this over a kiss 2 yrs ago. Stassi is like a dog with a bone when she is out to hurt some body. Its a terrible thing to say about some one but I believe if she is the type of person who would sacrifice anyone or anything for herself and her comfort. I literally expect to see another nose and mouth when she turns her head. I liked Scheanna a little but watching her take every crumb Stassi throws her way makes me ill. She judged her when she started there without giving her a chance. Her past was none of Stassi business but every bodies business seems to be her business.

fairytell
fairytell

You suggesting Lisa to fire Kristen is the cherrry on the pie , you were already disgusting enough.. 

ccwats23
ccwats23

Stassi, you are a beautiful girl on the outside, but not so much on the inside. I consider you a mean girl. Even your friends are afraid of you. The whole "it's my birthday" thing was sooo old. Your friend was upset about her boyfriend. A real friend wouldnt cry that it was her birthday and yell and scream at her. You could have handled that so much better. And give it up with Jax. All you do is lead him on. You dont want him, but you want him to keep pining after you. You do make him look pathetic. BUt you look that way too.. the way you whine about him being around other girls..WHY do you care? And why are you constantly trying to prove to Kristen anything about her boyfriend?  Leave them alone. She can make her own choices. I sense some jealousy. With friends like you, who needs enemies!? I've tried to like you, but you are an awful human being.

nvt
nvt

Why do you give everyone relationship advice? You don't have any successful past relationships to draw wisdom from. Better yet, why does anyone listen to your advice or mandates?

nicole7
nicole7

You are a  terrible mean girl. It's overwhelmingly obvious that you are insecure.

cigarflower
cigarflower

Stassi, you said your parents raised  a princess. Out here in the world, act like a real person and stop acting like a child. Stop manipulating others. You are bullying in your way. Really?

shysharon
shysharon

wow you change sides like most people change their underwear....just what everyone wants in a friend, someone they can't count on!

CherylS27
CherylS27

Seriously, you expected Scheena to get into a car where the majority of the people do not like, have expressed this to no end and who treated her like crap, sure.  As for Jax, I find it funny, you call him a liar, which he is but depending on the information being presented, then you believe in what he says, this doesn't make sense.  As for Scheena and the club, can't blame her, again, you guys against her, others would have done the same, not think twice, but you and the rest of the crew blame everyone else but your own actions.  You state that Jax needs to grow up, which is true but until you have done the same, don't enforce anyone else to do the same.  As for Katie, she doesn't need to drink at all, she is a sad/angry drunk who will pick pointless fights because their boyfriend is a gentleman who makes sure that all are having fun and recognized that you, Katie, Kristen and the other chick were ignoring so Katie goes off, maybe the drink was to cool her off, can't blame him, rude as the action was.  FYI, a birthday is one day, not three or four, if someone takes the activity to mean that there would be other strangers on the boat and brings others along, then it is a communication problem plus it is obvious that you still either like Jax's or being the egotistical person that you are want him to pine for you and only you but never go out and have fun with others, so selfish and immature.  Get over yourself, you maybe pretty but smart and good person you are not.

rachel.n.lee.7
rachel.n.lee.7

Just when I think you are the shallowest person on Earth, you somehow manage to drain a little more water out of the pool. I thought you were incredibly insensitive to Katie, Scheana and Kristen. I don't know how you have anyone to celebrate your birthdays with, do your parents pay them to go?

Riley100
Riley100

Stacci is the very MOST egotistical, self absorbed person on ALL of television!!!

shanlab
shanlab

I have not been you fan, AT ALL.  But I do see your point, no it may not be a national holiday, but it doesn't give Katie carte blanche to behave the way she does AT ANY TIME, grow up, take it outside. Two wrongs do not make a right, and Katie would have had a stronger argument, looking like the grown up and pulling Tom aside for a few minutes and letting him know she wants to talk about it, after dinner.

shelpn1
shelpn1

Scheana is smarter than she seems. She actually stirred up the trouble while seeming innocent. She is the one who kept asking what happened at the dinner to get Katie to ruin the party. If you have friends like these people , who would need enemies? The way these girls act , it is no wonder a lot of guys want to date older women. They're very immature. All that drama would drive anyone to cheat on them.  Hopefully it is just for the show and not how they conduct their normal lives.

wiscfan
wiscfan

You just could not wait to deliver the bad news to Kristen. You looked like you enjoyed it. What a friend you are.

freedomlover
freedomlover

You keep saying Jax is a pathological liar, but then you believe whatever he says about all of your friends.  Does that make sense to you?  You can't be friends with someone like Jax.  Chronic liars never change.  A family member was one until they died at the age of 90!  She never had any insight into what she was, and always excused her actions against others.  They never learn.

Trvel
Trvel

What fantasy, self-entitled world do you live in? You wrote that you wanted the trip to be drama free, but guess where the drama came from- YOU! You tried to "trick" Jax so you could make Kristen miserable...you're not happy unless everyone is more miserable than you. You sleep with Jax when you've broken up due to his cheating, rationalizing it with "a girl's gotta get laid." Then you walk in to Tom's room unannounced and rudely berate them for sleeping together. Your behavior is much worse than Kristen's, and Tom has a better record than Jax but you "de-friend" her for not making the decision YOU wanted her to make. No one is dating you, so you want to make sure your BFF's aren't dating either - you always have to look better then anyone else, but you don't; you act like a child, and are queen of the drama. As far as friendships, you don't have them. You have robots around you who do what you say out of fear. They need to stand up to you & then maybe you'd eventually learn what a friend is. You are disgusting to watch.

sharonkaye
sharonkaye

if you want Jax out of your life quit luring him into the sandbox....quit back stabbing and apply some of your advice to your own life. I feel sorry for Scheana because every time you let her think she is 'good enough' to be your 'friend' you turn around and prove your not worthy yourself..you need some BRAT boot camp..I could never be your friend for a day, even I couldn't keep that charade up. this is planet Earth not planet Stassi.

MyNeurosurgeonSucks
MyNeurosurgeonSucks

Don;t know what  happened to me comment or who approves these but it's all so stupid anymore it doesn't matter.  For all her sniveling kristen summed it up about Stassi's birthday being treated like a national holiday.  We know she was spoiled as a kid, I can picture with her tiara and wand with mummy and daddy telling her her birthday(and the whole week around it) everything should be about her and perfect. It was funny how the rest of the crew at Sur enjoyed not having all the drama.  I don't know why Lisa doesn't fire all of you, especially with Kristen firing off ultimatiums. I think Ariana is a little too together to sleep with Tom.   Because they are friends and work well together  should make it clear there's nothing going on or they wouldn't get along so well.  Can't believe I felt bad for Jax first season, he's more or a snake with every episode.

rosebudpetal
rosebudpetal

Are you kidding me? Your birthday is not that important that you are yelling at your best friend because she left your dinner.  Please stop the Woh is me.

Uzo
Uzo

After reading Tom's blog and hearing him say that his supposed cheating is nothing compared to what happens in the next three weeks, there is no doubt in my mind that Kristin cheated on Tom.  The reason why she keeps pounding the table about Tom's issues is that she's trying to keep the bright light of truth off of her.  A woman that insecure, yet attractive needs constant approval and admiration.... and many times, it's from other men to feed her ego.  

 

Also, the season preview shows Tom hitting someone at a dinner.  I hope it's Jax.  That dude is such a sniveling hairy V-JJ.  

 

I predict that Peter hooks up with Arianna...

 

The only thing that could bring this to another level is a pregnancy...

 

 

cathystarz
cathystarz

stassi you are such a trouble maker as much as you say you hate all the drama I think you thrive on it.

disgustedwithyou
disgustedwithyou

So not impressed with this 30-year-old who has yet to learn that the world does not revolve around her. Her behavior has demonstrated that she is a selfish, self-centered, sadistic, back-stabbing, whiny-ass, hypocritical bully who takes great pleasure in making those around her as miserable as she is. If any of those coworkers who call themselves her friends had backbones, they'd walk away from her and not look back.

p-note
p-note

Stassi you are so mean to Kristen!! To sit there and call her weak time after time is just plain mean!!

ciqua47
ciqua47

Your birthday is not a national holiday! Get a real problem! And it is very nasty and ugly how you operate under the guise of being a good friend- you are just gossiping and starting problems. Then getting annoyed when people get upset. If you moved away, everyone would get along. Mean girl! Cause so much drama and ugliness. Get some therapy.

lped1
lped1

You and this show is one of the most ridiculous things I have ever watched.  Looks like a cheap remake of some MTV show, only with an older, more immature casts.    Not even a good story line to follow, just spoiled, extremely vain, overgrown teenagers.  The employment at Sur can't be real either - no one in their right mind would hire any of you people to work in their establishments!  BRAVO, please take this show off!!

magdalaenia
magdalaenia

All of these mean comments! Ugh. Being mean to a "mean girl" makes you a mean person. Stassi, at least you keep it real! I appreciate you on the show, that's why you're are the star and your opinion matters most. Recognize that. Out of all the people on the show you are the only legit Bravolebrity, the only one with real star quality.

tannertime
tannertime

Such a pitiful little girl, pretending to be an adult!  Stirring the pot and intentionally seeking to hurt your friends when they don't fall in line with your every demand.  Time to graduate from the 5th grade, Stassi! 

spats25
spats25

You calling someone selfish is like the pot calling the kettle black and with Jax do you ever think that he just says what ever he think that you want to hear. you guys are the most immature people I've ever seen.

Radley24
Radley24

You are a horrible, selfish, mean, awful, awful person.  You think you are above everyone.  Every look on your face is smug and full of ......why am I wasting my time?  

jody.lovelacesimon
jody.lovelacesimon

It is none of any ones business if Tom slept with Arianna Stassi

jody.lovelacesimon
jody.lovelacesimon

Stasi you are rude and conceited get over your self. You are not all that and you do not have double d's. You are an ugly horrible bitch

LucsMom
LucsMom

I have watched every episode. With that said, I know the producers do not show everything and that some scenes are "re-created"...Scheana is by far the most down to earth and genuine of the bunch. Others should have treated her better during this Cabo trip.

jlaubenheimer
jlaubenheimer

The girls set the tone when they closed scheana out at the bar at the airport.  I don't blame her for wanting to go with the guys if it meant she could stay with her boyfriend...the one person she knew she could count on in the group.  why should she have to make the effort when it was clear she wasn't wanted.  her jokes were over the top...but who cares.  it was a joke...like you said.  I like that you can admit when you are wrong...

biancashines
biancashines

Stassi, what can I say, me and the homies L U V you !!!!  chica, you some some balls.  You stand by what you believe and i don't think you lie like the rest !  keep it up mama   cause the show would end w/out you in it ! 

LolaL
LolaL

You girls are such babies.  And you Stassi so over rate yourself.

okidikiepokie
okidikiepokie

@shelpn1 

I don't blame her.look how they treat her. Pay back is a beach.................

ccwats23
ccwats23

@wiscfan I agree. She was actually smiling! If I had to tell a friend of mine news like that, I would be sick to my stomach!

nicole7
nicole7

@Trvel  "No one is dating you, so you want to make sure your BFF's aren't dating either - you always have to look better then anyone else, but you don't; you act like a child, and are queen of the drama...."

AWESOME POINT!!

ruke
ruke

 @Trvel

 

                       FANTASTIC post!!!! Bravo!!

okidikiepokie
okidikiepokie

@MyNeurosurgeonSucks 

What cracks me up is they stand around,talk, drink and get pissed more then they work. Kristen stands around berating people in front of customers. Has anyone noticed some of the customers giving them looks? lol

cynthia.peterson.739
cynthia.peterson.739

 @lped1

 The problem is that most of these spoiled Brat's are in their early 30's and if not they sure look like it!!!!!LMAO

elaineolivia
elaineolivia

 @LolaL I couldn't get rid of the  unlike.  I sooo agree with you about Stassi.  Honestly can't stand her.  Why does the crowd listen to what she has to say?