If Jon Gosselin would man up and actually be responsible she never would have criticized anything. He made it very clear that it was easier for him to just do what Kate told him to do so when she was occupied with the kids...he had free time. "Never iniate - wait for Kate" were his exact words. That way he could go "for hours off her radar and play" he said with a smile. Now he has clearly elevated playtime from hours to days. Great dad!