Heather, You should have told Lizzie to apologize to Tamra for calling her all those names and purposely twisting everything she said and trying to turn everyone against her. Instead you told Tamra to when she finally got the chance to speak to Vicky.when Lizzie hadn't shut up all night. She says others aren't allowing for her feelings about the Birthday- PLEASE!, but she thinks she has the right to call Tamra names and tell her how to feel about the big things in her life. She is a snot, and you owe Tamra an apology now. Vicki never let her speak without talking over her either.