Heather Dubrow tells a WWHL viewer that she’s felt under attack during this season of RHOC and that’s why she’s always saying Shannon is “yelling” at her.

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BABYFACE69
BABYFACE69

Heather- I almost thought you were faking being such a Witch but then I remembered I saw you on the Cleveland show and you are a crappy actress so it must b REAL!!! It so obvious how ridiculously JEALOUS YOU are of Shannon!!!!! Shannon is HOTTER than you, BETTER, BIGGER HOUSE and you CANT stand it!!    

lovesucks123
lovesucks123

I think that Shannon started the war with Heather right out of the gate, so to speak. I am not a huge Heather fan, but Tamra has played a huge role in causing issues for them. After the July 14 episode, I can honestly say that Shannon seems to be mentally unbalanced. She may have a beautiful home but that seems to be it. When you go on national TV it is hilarious to me that you are concerned about what your children will think of negative issues that you are  freely discussing and they are being filmed. Why be mad at Heather when you are sharing how bad your marriage is? And as far as the email saying her husband wanted a "break" , I think Shannon discussed this in her commentary. So while I don't think that Tamra should have repeated it and then lied to her about telling Heather, I don't get why she is having a melt down.

The trip to Mexico showed that she can be quite the snob. Talking behind Vicky's back about how small her free room was at Vicky's time share or whatever it is. Then planning to get a hotel if her brother had not traded spaces. And her bi-polar behavior with her husband in Mexico. Lizzie is the only one in this franchise that is "normal" and they will fire her because it seems that Bravo "thinks" their target audience wants to see grown women argue over stupid issues that are so overblown .

oldgal23916
oldgal23916

No Heather there is no subdivision in your neighborhood. You have a large lot still not built on and Shannon has a large lot with a beautiful home. Maybe you can't stand having a financial equal on the show. 

kgudrun
kgudrun

Heather, If you consider Shannon "yelling" at you "all the time", what do you call what you do when you speak in your condescending tone?  You constantly "instruct" everyone around you on what they should be doing.  It's very apparent that Shannon was NOT yelling at you and was just giving you a taste of your own medicine.

catiaj
catiaj

I think Shannon is coo coo for cocoa puffs ... She's a major drama queen, and lives in her "own" little world. Can't stand her - I tape the show and fast fwd her parts! Her husband is just as insipid...

ArtMom50
ArtMom50

Heather, I used to like you but I think yo take yourself waaaay too seriously. I believe Shannon...you, on the other hand, I don't particularly like anymore.  I think you and hubby think you're allthat because of your television successes. Either Tamra is lying--which could certainly be the case--or your ego needs to be pared down...maybe both!!!

Blessedmom3
Blessedmom3

Heather, you are the one who continues to bring things up! You sure do your share I'd YELLING and condescending talk! Everyone is not blaming you for everything, but you need to take ownership for your actions, as well. Be nice and others will be nice to you.

housewifefan2012
housewifefan2012

It is not rocket science to see what is happening here.  Looks like every time someone nails Heather to a wall it feels to her that they are yelling at her. Heather, seriously....  No ... Shannon is not yelling.  


Tamra lies. But who wants that to be what they are known for. Heather has no compassion. Vicky does not have Shannons back because she could have spoken up for her at the dinner party. Sad but good TV for people who like drama. LOL


In life people have choices. Shannon should not have told anyone her personal business. Shannon, next time go to therapy and don't tell your personal business to people you just met who do not have your interest at heart.

Tamra and Heather are two peas in the pod. What gets me is these people have families and all of this drama on National TV is sad. Have they forgotten reality ... that is, that your family will eventually see the re-runs of these shows and all you do will show at the end of the day.  Sad .. but true. These women have no respect for themselves or their families. To be seen as a liar and a person with no compassion is a sad truth. Good luck with that. I feel like this is a high school show. You guys need to get another story line,  because you are not looking very good at all, and all the Botox injections and fillers in the world can not cover that up. 

music
music

To me, Heather talks at people, often correcting or lecturing. She never misses an opportunity to give unsolicited advice. Shannon gets frustrated with Heather. To disagree with or take umbrage at a Heather opinion is, according to Heather, yelling at her. Heather has no problem explaining people to themselves as if she is expert & has every right to do so but when the table is turned, Heather gets her defenses up. I don't notice that Shannon gets out of sorts with anyone else. David gives as good as he gets from her. I am amazed at how much of their marriage issues they are allowing to be aired. I'm pulling for them. They seem to really love & care for each other. Hopefully, this is a phase that they will weather & become stronger from it.

Trvel
Trvel

So many lies...and there is NO way you only had a  "1 to 2 minute" conversation with your friends about Shannon's marriage. The information should never have been given to you, and you definitely shouldn't have passed it on, which you did. Good for the other woman at the table for texting David; she knew you were wrong in saying what you did. Terry told the "group" last season that you all had used the "D" word, and you were upset. It was filmed, but did others go and gossip about it to others, or did they have your back? And Terry, I watch your facial expressions while Heather is talking, and you KNOW she is lying at times. You really have so many character flaws, I don't see why any of them would want to be your friend...except Tamra; you're two peas in a pod...something I would not be proud of.

forestqueentoo
forestqueentoo

Heather is annoying and lying a lot this season!

Justarealhousewife
Justarealhousewife

I think each person has their way of "yelling". What Shannon is doing is yelling, her way. And I can see why Heather is tired of it...she is seen as snobby, with an attitude...but why????? Where did decent manners, appropriate responses and common courtesy go? I would sure as heck rather have a discussion (whether heated or not) with Heather than with Shannon. Im sorry folks but look at the bigger picture here..every time Heather is somewhere that shannon is, there is a confrontation, and shannon loses it..then comes Shannon leaving her house, doesnt call first, goes to Heathers home and wiggs out on her...that whole thing could have been discussed when the two ladies were alone..perhaps shannon should have stayed home and fixed dinner for her family instead of running over to confront Heather. If someone came to my home without warning, and put me on the spot then started going off the deep end, Id ask her to leave too...I think Heather did it with much more class than Tamra did when she booted Alexis out of her gym dinner...Shannon has no ability to self control, so she escalates, but because she might not do it like Vicky or Gretchen or other ladies who could break glass with their screaming, she is not seen as yelling..well..watch tonight...I think we will all see shannon yell..........

Liznorris
Liznorris

I don't think Heather is really referring to the volume level of Shannon's voice, it's the manner of delivery. When your parents discipline you and ground you the volume of their voice doesn't necessarily get higher but you'll say to your friends "my parents just got done yelling at me ." I think that's kind of what's going on here. For most it's the manner in which things are being spoken to you.

k.keola
k.keola

Oh come on Heather!  Really?  I believe the reason why you act the way you do is because you think that YOU'RE BETTER than EVERYONE ELSE!  By the way, you look very scary these days!  Sorry!

sheillacoco
sheillacoco

Heather is most conceited self righteous person on show!

marieHi5
marieHi5

Shannon wasn't technically yelling because her volume was low but if you played that scene on mute it's an aggressive attack. She really wants to yell and beat her husband into showering her with his love and affection but knows that's going too far so incessant bickering and nagging will have to suffice. It's laughable since the issue is her marriage, not about Heather's spoiler alert. Did Shannon think she could edit her scenes herself or what? Heather knows how to articulate and says things as a matter of fact and somehow good etiquette is snobby? A culture or personality difference is most likely. Real snobs let you know it. Heather, just take it In stride and laugh it off. I live in OC and if I ever run into you I would play it cool and not say this, but really, I'd be thinking you are as Lady London Caroline would say, "fab!"

bravolover10
bravolover10

Yes, most definitely.  Seriously.  She yells at her husband the same way.  It's the manner of the delivery, the tone, the intent.  It's an attack.  It's throwing a punch.   But is the voice YELLING, no...  

deanaleigh
deanaleigh

Shannon is not yelling at Heather.  Heather is mean.  She is a very conceited person who is trying to appear to be simple and down to earth because she knows the public will turn on her.

lovesucks123
lovesucks123

@oldgal23916 Shannon is not as attractive as Heather. She is having serious marriage problems. I have not clue where their money comes from but she doesn't work. At least we know that  Heather and her husband do earn at least some of their money.  And if you saw the episode of Shannon in Mexico with Vicki, she is a huge snob. The room wasn't big enough and she was very ungracious. It appeared that Heather brought her on the show. Lizzie is the closest to being Heather's equal in looks and IQ. While I have never been a big Heather fan and don't get why she is friends with Tamra. I don't think that Heather is jealous of Shannon in the least.

Omgosh23
Omgosh23

I agree with this..and there is a difference between raising your voice and yelling at someone.

lovesucks123
lovesucks123

@forestqueentoo And Tamra, Vicki and Shannon are fun to watch???? I am not a big Heather fan but Tamra and Vicki started off the episode to take her down. Then Tamra drew Shannon in on it. Lizzie is the only one that seems incredibly sane. I can't believe how any of these housewives act out at parties or nice trips.

housewifefan2012
housewifefan2012

@Liznorris Word crafting perhaps? Reality is everyone knows what yelling is. You do not have to guess about that. Come on now ... Can not excuse Heather's bad behavior. 

cindy1963
cindy1963

@k.keola I agree! She's the one who looks "SCARY ANGRY" not Shannon! Heather definitely thinks she is better than everyone else and it has really come out this season. I'm so tired of watching her, I really do hope that this is her last season. I think the whole "building a brand new 20,000 sq. foot house" thing has gone to her head. No matter how hard you try Heather, you are not perfect...NOBODY IS!! ONLY GOD!!

lovesucks123
lovesucks123

@sheillacoco Are you serious? What about Tamra and Vicki? I hate this forum vs the comments from the blogs. The opinions are more varied and usually I agreed with most of what viewers were saying.

Trvel
Trvel

@bravolover10 And Heather's tone and finger-pointing are appropriate and not at all condescending or attacking?

housewifefan2012
housewifefan2012

@deanaleigh The problem is that Heather likes to hear herself talk. Always the actress and every thing is drama even the onion rings that her poor husband wanted last year LOL LOL. He really needed to get a spine last year. No way I could get away with telling my husband he could not have what he wanted for dinner and he being the breadwinner. I do like his new show Botched. He needs to stick with that and not get in the cat fights. LOL 

lovesucks123
lovesucks123

@housewifefan2012 @Liznorris And you can condone Shannon for ruining Lizzie's party? In what universe would you go to someone who you don't get along with to drop in on when you are upset? And Heather tried to text her after the altercation. Would you accept being treated the way she treated Heather at her party?

Liznorris
Liznorris

I actually didn't say anything about Heather's behavior in my comment above, so no, I'm not trying to excuse anything. I am making a comment about a single incident. Everyone has their own opinions and perception of things. Feeling like your being yelled at isn't always necassarily based on someone's volume level. That is my opinion, not a guess.

lovesucks123
lovesucks123

@Trvel @bravolover10 It is better than throwing a drink at someone's face like Tamra. Or yelling at the top of your lungs like Vicki. Geez, Heather's behavior is child's play considering the other housewives franchises especially RHOA and RHONJ, which I can't watch they are so violent.

bravolover10
bravolover10

@Trvel @bravolover10 I have only noticed Heather doing that when someone is accusing her of doing something she didn't do and she's strongly making an attempt to state the facts or gleen the facts.  And since people really don't like being wrong, they usually cut her off and don't let her finish so she begins asking them point blank questions that they continue to avoid.  I can relate to Heather's frustration this season.  I don't think I'd be as calm if people kept twisting my words, I would be a little ticked and try to go over the details to set the story straight.