Shame on you Tamra for not being honest with yourself and everyone else. You cannot even reply to a caller honestly without trying to deflect your behavior. When one friend leaves a room, you throw them under the bus. Just like you did about Heather at Lizzies party. You make is seem as though you have no culpability in any of the drama when in fact, you cause all of it! You have a really good man, when will you be happy with what you are given. Hope Eddy comes to his senses and realizes what you are about.