I am completely befuddled! Honestly, with all the OBVIOUS flaws with this slimy snake you are insulted his culinary choices? Vicki, it is time you hear the truth...get a therapist woman! I have lost count of the all items on your laundry list of issues. But one I believe that should be addressed post hast is your insecurities which seem to affect everyone and everything in your life. Maybe Dr. V can come visit you too.