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Sexy In The City

Patti Stanger answers your dating questions.

By Patti Stanger

Patti dearest, I recently moved to New York City from my hometown in Virginia and I love it -- of course. But maybe not all of it. I hear a lot about the big city dating life (okay, mostly from "Sex and the City") and now that I'm getting a taste of it ... I'm worried! I hostess at a very upscale restaurant in Manhattan where guys stroll in with models night after night. I think I'm pretty cute but these girls are long legged giraffes and it can make a short southern gal sorta self-conscious, if you know what I mean? I hate to sound so superficial but I am an attractive, buxom lady so what gives with my sudden anxiety? I meet guys at my job and many of them are successful in some way. I've been going on dates and I really just want to put my best foot forward. But I think I need help? Cynthia, NYC

Buck up Cynthia!

First of all, the first date is often considered an audition ... if you're like Kathy, and you've got a cute, petite figure ... show it off by putting on a revealing mini (let's see those stems!).

If you're vertically challenged, run out and get a hot pair of platforms!

Remember, the girl who gets the part is generally the most sexually appealing -- so, BREAK OUT THE PUSH UP BRA -- L.A. is not the only place that's all about the BOOBS!

-Patti

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