Shepard Rose is looking for love on a new show RelationShep … but he still has some advice for those people who are using apps to find a date IRL and not IRLTV. The Southern Charm bachelor names the number one thing he thinks people should look for when searching for a love connection (and, no, it does not involve a required reading list). And, as for thirst traps? Well, ladies, Shep wants you to leave a little to the imagination.