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Siggy Flicker Gives Dating Advice to Single Bravolebs

The #RHONJ relationship expert has some wisdom for Bethenny Frankel, Kenya Moore, and more.

By Jocelyn Vena
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According to Siggy Flicker, you won't see any of The Real Housewives of New Jersey ladies without their wedding bands anytime soon. However, not everyone has been lucky enough to find "the one." The Garden State relationship guru dished out some important dating advice for some of Bravo's unattached folks during a recent interview with Wetpaint. So, if you're single and ready to mingle then you, too, might want to pay attention.

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1. Andy Cohen

"When you are that talented, and you are in the public eye, the one concern that you have when getting into a relationship is: Does this person just want to be with me because I'm Andy Cohen, or do they really love me and like me for who I am?'" Siggy said of the Watch What Happens Live host. "The friend of a friend route is definitely the best route for him."

2. Ramona Singer

Ramona Singer's dating life and her relationship with Luann de Lesseps' fiance, Thomas D'Agostino, has been a topic of discussion on The Real Housewives of New York City, but following her divorce, Ramona should be down to have a lot of fun. "I feel like she gave that relationship her all. She really, really loved her husband and it's a shame," Siggy said. "But I would say to Ramona [that] life is just beginning for you. I mean you don't need to have children, you can go out there and have fun, fun, fun. You're beautiful. You're fabulous. You look amazing and, listen, your attitude is your altitude."

3. Bethenny Frankel

While Bethenny Frankel may currently being seeing someone, Siggy shared what she thinks she should look for in a potential mate. "She's extremely successful and she's a celebrity in her own right and it's very, very difficult because at the end of the day, you want to know that somebody's going to be with you through thick and thin and they're not using you."

4. Brandi Glanville

Over on the West Coast, Siggy noted that The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills alum Brandi Glanville needs to figure out what she wants before she gets serious. "Brandi's a wild girl, she says it like it is, which is amazing," she said. "What I would say to Brandi is [that] it depends on what you want to attract. I think that she would agree to the fact that what we all want is a man, a M-A-N. We don't need a little boy. She's just got to filter it a little bit."

5. Vicki Gunvalson

The Real Housewives of Orange County OG Vicki Gunvalson is currently in a new relationship, but Siggy isn't sure that she's completely let go of Brooks Ayers. "She is gonna date and date and date, but I think she still loves the guy who lied about the cancer," she said. "I think her heart's still with him and she really loves him. And I believe that they can work it out."

6. Kenya Moore

Siggy shared her take on Kenya Moore, who parted ways with Matt Jordan back in June. "There's a little girl inside of her that's crying over the demise of her relationship with her mother," she said of The Real Housewives of Atlanta pageant queen. "And I think that when you are hurt in that way, you act out in real life. And I would say don't give your mother or anybody else the power to make you angry and stop you from living your life to the fullest. I would say to her, listen don't be afraid of being vulnerable. No one can hurt you, but you. Vulnerability is a very beautiful and sexy thing and I feel really bad for her."

While you let all that wisdom soak in, you can check out some throwback photos of the relationship guru, below.

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