#RHOA Tweet Recap

See all the #RHOA drama you missed in the Twitter world while the ladies were getting turned up for Savannah.

on Dec 16, 20130

While you were all watching Mama Joyce get real with Miss Phaedra Parks, our The Real Housewives of Atlanta took to Twitter to give us even more juicy insight on the drama.

Cynthia Bailey tweeted on the touching moment when Kandi Burruss broke down as she opened up about her struggles with Mama Joyce:

It broke our heart, too, Cynthia!

Meanwhile, Kandi tweeted about this difficult time with Mama Joyce:

But as we all know, Kandi’s drama last night didn’t end with Mama Joyce. Kenya Moore may not have whipped off her blue wedge like someone we know, but she definitely laid down the law on the bus to Atlanta:

Porsha Stewart sent this tweet about Kenya's thoughts on Kandi's detour for food before the big trip:

Sounds like someone doesn’t think Kenya's comments were so 'Gone With the Wind Fabulous.'

But Kenya wasn't silent on her showdown with Kandi. The diva tweeted this ambiguous message about the bus brawl:

Tell us in the comments: Was Kenya letting bygones be bygones, or using Twitter to throw some shade Kandi’s way?

24 comments
boobieq@yahoo.com
boobieq@yahoo.com

Miss Kandi, I really, really always liked you since the beginning you always seemed to be level headed and kind but showing up 3 hours late to Nene's trip and then taking the master suite without a care or thought about it blew my mind! I could not believe you got that tacky and classless!  Your mother came right through!  I see that you are not the nice person you used to be or you covered it real well and now you act with this sense of entitlement.  Then you try to justify it by saying that she hasn't always come to your events?  If that was the case then you shouldn't have accepted the invitation instead of being so rude and obnoxious.  I guess the apple does not fall from the tree!

You totally fell off for me!  Karma is a b-tch and you're bound to get yours! Good luck with that!

bell02
bell02

I'm 71yr  yr. old mother  of 4, 1 girl and 3 boys, my girl is the oldest. What Mrs. Joyce is doing I have no respect for her or for Kandi to expect people to except that kind of behavior from a woman that old. I can't call her mama Joyce because I was raised that to be call mama you have to earn that title, she ditch all of that for me. The woman and her sisters acted as if they were hood rats in public.

 

if Tod stay in that situation he has to love Kandi, it's not a matter of choosing  between   your man or your mother but every mother should want to see their children  happy.   My daughter marry early I begged her to stay in school, she stayed in school 2 yrs. stayed married 4 mos. I never said a thing to her or him about it, that was what she wanted at the time. She found out it wasn't for her. She went back to school and didn't stop until she received 2 Doctor', degrees in business. People have to make their own mistake sometime it turn out well and sometime it don't, but please don't let them get down the road an look back and say if it hadn't been for my mother I would have had a good husband.

Mrs. Joyce your own daughter reminded you, that when you was her age you had 3 husbands. You couldn't say a thing, your problem really is you thought you would be living in one of those house and controlling their lives. when you found out you would not be in neither house to control their lives, that's when you turned on Tod, that was the only weapon you could use  on your daughter. If you really love your daughter ;like you pretend before they moved into the house you would be happy.

 

Mrs. Joyce with you being married 3 times at a early age who came between you and yours?

 

I could never, never do either one of my children like that. All my children have been married, 1 son's wife is deceased when I first layed  eyes on her they were already married, but I will always love her, she knew that up until the day she died. One son is still married and have been for about 23 years they met in Collage. The other boy  is divorced but please believe me when I tell you I had nothing to do with it, I knew how much they loved each other but it just didn't work. Things like that happen.

You make think you are hurting Tod but you are really hurting your own daughter. Be carful

cindy1963
cindy1963

Joyce- I found it very difficult to watch you speaking with Kandi at her place of business because first of all you said that you and the rest of the O.L.G. were "joking" when you know damn well that there was absolutely not joking going on. Second, you said the Carmon wanted to "whoop your ass" when again you know she NEVER said anything like that. You were doing all of the arguing, fighting, taking your shoe off to throw at her, etc. I think it's time you not get involved in Kandi's personal life because she is no longer a little girl, she knows how to handle her money and she does not let any man take advantage of her. WHY DON'T YOU TRY SOMETHING...TRY TO BE HAPPY FOR HER THAT SHE HAS FOUND SOMEONE WHO LOVES HER AND WANTS TO BE WITH HER (AND NOT HER MONEY)!!! IT'S GETTING SICKENING AND DISGUSTING ALREADY!!

pammyluv2watch
pammyluv2watch

I really wonder what the show would be like if Kenya was "GONE" she gives me a headache and I want to change the station every time she opens her mouth. Porsha is the reason kid should be in school  year round and give the facts about their own history so they don't sound like that"OMG" for real Porsha you don't need a husband you need an education.

mbloom005
mbloom005

Kandi I love how you handle your mother and others that don't understand her communication style in some situations. 

 

I also love how you tried to handle Mynique and the dating of her husband. You really wasn't trying to go there, but I also was glad you shut her down because Mynique was trying to be funny thinking her husband left you and she ended up with him.  When really you was hot back then and hot now and you dropped him. I loved it.  I'm not sure what Mynique with a "Y" was thinking coming at you like that.

MizzouTraveler
MizzouTraveler

You've let your mother run your life and manipulate you for years, but after a certain age, that's on you.  As for the rest of your family, that is clearly on your pay roll, that's on you too.

Being chronically late is not only rude, but uber unprofessional.  Truth of the matter is, RHOA is a job for you.  You get paid and it's also a platform to  promote your other businesses.  If the people you did business with were chronically 3 hours late, you'd be irritated too.  You might feel that because you're wealthy and have been successful in your businesses that it gives you a free pass to be rudely late, but the truth of the matter is that it only makes you look less.  

And as far as speaking of your relationship with the new housewife's husband.  It was classless to sit there indignantly and carry on about how much more the relationship was than what his wife believed.  What good would have come from it?  None.  Other than displacing your frustrations about your own current relationship.  After this episode, I see you nothing more than a pot stirring, passive aggressive version of the Kenya, whom makes my skin crawl……. Such a shame, because now whenever I hear Scrub or any of your other music, I'll just think of your belittling behavior to a new comer.  Oh well, true colors always end up showing through

mrsd@13
mrsd@13

Kandi, we love you girl but you shouldn't allow your mom to tell you how to live your life. After all youve done for her, she should not be trying to tell you what to do. I respect my mom as you do, but she has never tried to run my man off or disrespect him. Noow, let me tell you girl, I've seen families get crazy over money, telling a brother he shoulldnt get married ya know. because they prob wanted all the money but in my opinion, you can do what yoou want to with your money. You earned it. I wish you and Todd the best!

patcaseygold
patcaseygold

Tonight I saw a different side to you. You said no one can tell you what to do except your mama? You should never allow your mom to put you down in any way. Your mother is a mean and controlling person and I am surprised you keep defending her. I know you love her but to allow her to spew off to 2 people that you love is beyond wrong. I sure hope you don't let her run your man off. You just may end up a miserable old lady with a sad life. Would you want to destroy your own daughters dreams for a happy life?

drscorpionking
drscorpionking

Also Nene, if you are such a good judge of character, you know that YOUR GIRLS, ARE ALWAYS LATE!!!!!! - Kenya is the only one that's always there on time and you don't give her the benefit of the doubt omg Nene. Nene, it feels like you're losing track of yourself here, not good. Kenya and Cynthia are the only real Atlanta Housewives you have, the rest are a waste. We here in NY don't even care watching Kandi or Phaedra, we skip over the sections where these two women show up.

drscorpionking
drscorpionking

Kenyaaaaaaa, why do you give Porsha the time of the day omg. Porsha is nothing but a child. YOU need to work with professional people. Kandi, Phaedra and Porsha ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS!!!!!!!

 

Omg why did Porsha get in the show? Kandi and Porsha should MUST be kicked off the show. There is no ratings there.

ogates
ogates

Mamma Joyce is too long in the tooth to be acting like she is the head of the Old Lady Gang.   The best Kandi can do is convinced her mom to go to therapy--for the sake of all involved. 

As for Kenya--OMG--she was late as well!  Check yourself first before lecturing anyone else and get that long needed therapy!!!

debikk
debikk

Kandi - you need to do something here quick - you will lose ground if you do not stand up for yourself and Todd with your fans... If your mama truly loves you for you and not your money, she will back off...

walterscott
walterscott

Kandi inherited the "blame someone else for your own mistake" trait.  Clearly she was wrong for showing up THREE HOURS late.  I would have been angry enough to say something, too.

peanutshelle
peanutshelle

I think Mama Joyce wants to keep Kandi isolated because she wants to make sure she has access to Kandi's money. I thin she wants to make sure that no one else is around to point out her faults to Kandi. Kandi, you gave your mother a house, put some money in the bank for her, and keep on moving with your life. I understood your mother's apprehension about AJ, rest his soul, but Todd? Todd is a good man, and right now you are at risk of losing hi if you don't put your mother in check. Besides, Mama Joyce needs to remember who is paying her bills.

cars121
cars121

Hoping beyond belief that something 'clicks' in Kandi as she watches these episodes & somehow recognizes that the best way she could respect her mama is to stop enabling mama's dysfunction.  Clearly Kandi can be self possessed with everyone (as demonstrated by her ability to confront Kenya) except her mama.  She identifies the old lady gang, as well as her mama's lifelong double standards & hypocrisy.  Is Kandi so damaged from her mama's abuse that she actually believes it's a sign of respect to allow a drowning person to take a potential rescuer down with them?  Allowing a sick person to marinate, much less help them THRIVE in their illness at the expense of those around you who you claim to love is as twisted as it can get.  Unless & until Kandi gets some serious therapy to deal with her toxic family members, long term prognosis could only be bad.

Pinouye
Pinouye

I say give mama $1 million to go away for good. Make a new life for yourself where there isn't hatred being spewed. Watch the episode where you were trying on your dress and you will see how much "love" mama feels for you and Todd...

CarlaB
CarlaB

Mama Joyce is mean, spiteful, hateful, and I think mainly worried about the cash in her pocket. I understand Kandi wanting to be respectful to her mother, but there is nothing respectful about how her mother is acting towards her daughter. I can't feel sorry enough for Kandi...Mama Joyce needs some serious help. It's quite sad.

housewifefan2012
housewifefan2012

1 hour late is just as bad as 3 hours. Quite frankly we have a 15 min rule. If you are late the truing leaves without you.

So Kenya had no right to chastise anyone when she was late as well.

JulesG.
JulesG.

Kandi we all wish love ANC happiness. However, we really feel your mama is not well. She is doing things and being so violent? She needs help. Please have a beautiful wedding with or without your family. You, Todd and your sweet daughter are who really count. Kenya, go away! Ach!

bell02
bell02

 @boobieq@yahoo.com

 I love what you say because it is true. I couldn't believe she taken the master suite and her little friend encouraged her instead of trying to tell her she was wrong. You are turning out to be a real bi-ch now.

Don't take it out on other people take it out on your lying mother. You can get on TV and cry all the crock-a-dock tears you want about your mother she is a fool. As for you, you don't need a man let your mother be your man. She want to rule you anyway and you let her do it. If Todd leave you today there are plenty of women waiting in the wings, just let your mother keep talking sh-t to you about him.

bell02
bell02

 @cindy1963

 Ms. Joyce is out of her mind and taking Kandi with her, because if she loose Tod over a hood rat mother she will soon find some slick man that is sharp  enough to get all her money and Mrs. Joyce's too

bell02
bell02

 @pammyluv2watch

 I wonder why is Kenya back, what does she offer to the show, [nothing but try to keep up bull] I agree with you about Porsha she was pamper from day one.

bell02
bell02

 @debikk

 You are so right, have anyone wonder why Kandi Mom  found a house with 2 houses on the grounds? Kandi open you eyes before you won't be opening them to Tod

Haukku
Haukku

 @cars121 If Kandi doesn't read any of these posts, I hope she reads his one.  I just wish I could email this post to her directly, then have it printed on every billboard on the way to her house.