Yolanda H. Foster

Yolanda thinks jealousy and insecurity drive Kim and Kyle's behavior; plus she clarifies what happened with Joanna Krupa.

on Nov 25, 20130

Hello Bravo lovers, I hope you enjoyed tonight's episode and thank you for taking the time to read my blog. . .

I wish you and your loved ones a wonderful Thanksgiving. Even though we don't celebrate this in Holland, I have grown to love it, and it is my favorite holiday. I enjoy the togetherness of the family in the kitchen, cooking, and then sitting around eating, drinking wine, and chatting until we roll in front of the TV and watch movies 'til late hours.

OK here we go. . .Trashy Lingerie is a landmark in LA and seeing Brandi and Carlton there makes me smile and makes me happy because it's a great example of what girlfriend time should be like -- fun, loving, and supportive of each other's beliefs and success without judging or jealousy, which seems to be rare these days, especially in Beverly Hills.

When I got the invite to go to the Cirque school, I thought it was a splendid idea. Even though I am in no physical shape to participate much, I was happy to get out of the house and looked forward to seeing everyone for the first time after the reunion in a light and playful setting. Obviously there are a lot of unresolved issues within this group.

I'm not very diplomatic and wear my heart on my sleeve. I cannot fake, make nice, or even pretend nothing ever happened between the Richards sisters and I. They insulted my integrity and they continue to do so. I always wonder, what drives women like that? I assume the sad answer is insecurity and jealousy.

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diana.koeleveld.3
diana.koeleveld.3

Yolanda ,Bring In The Dutch!! we dutchy's stay together!! loved it when youre family came to you and hear them and you talk dutch! i understand you dont like the hate comments cause they dont now dutch ar fair, fearlless,speak whats on the mind straight forward i think Beverly Hills cant handle us Dutch Girls !!! ;-)


Goodluck with youre Health and you go girl love to see a dutchy make it in this live style!


met lieve groetjes van je fan in holland!

Purp32
Purp32

Looks like the Richards sisters have attacked your blog!  I enjoy your character more all the time. Finally someone is strong enough to shed some light on those 2 sad women and the boring things they do....please more screen time!! 

MCTCB
MCTCB

Yolanda your ego is so inflated that you honestly believe you're a therapist.  I think you know a lot about insecurity and jealousy from whence you came.  You are so fearful of losing your husband that you exaggerate your behavior to the point where it's sickening.  Calling him your "king" is not going to secure your relationship. If you knew what was good for you you'd get off this show because you're behavior is what's going to ruin your relationship and affect the integrity of David's reputation. Essentially you will bring your own marriage down. Now that is some good advice....and I am a therapist, so take it. 

msmith76
msmith76

Yolnada:

 

You are not nice.  In case you did not know, in the United States we make our guests feel welcome when they come into our homes.  We do not draw hearts or do anything for some guests that we do not do for all of our guests.  Your behavior is repulsive and juevenile.  Th eproblem I have with Kim and Kyle is thathey sat down for this garbabge.  I would have gathered my things and left.  Clearly you are not trying to be nice or be respectful.

housewifefan2012
housewifefan2012

Yolanda, not saying that you said what Kyle said you said.... lol but could it be possible that you could have said it jokingly and just forgot you said it. I know that with lime disease a person can be forgetful. I know at least 2 people , actually 3 who had it and it can affect your memory. Could that be possible? People say a lot of things off the cuff not knowing that someone will hear them or that the person will through them under the bus. One way or the other I would end this mess and move on. 

bethie0927
bethie0927

Yolanda, I watched the show, initially, because I was so curious about how the "other half" live. I stopped watching because of all the drama Brandi brought into the mix, and how so easily Lisa jumped on the Gossip band wagon. I've been a huge fan of your talented husband for many years. Imagine my excitement when I learned his wife would be joining the cast. My thought was that you would bring back some of the refinement and polish the group lost when Brandi became a regular. I've been saddened to see you fall under Brandi's "mean girl" spell. I've seen you comment in your blog that you felt the group would get along better if you talked to one another instead of about one another. Sadly, you seem to be leading the pack in the Gossip arena.I guess I expected to much of you. 

ml123
ml123

most condescending woman ever.

acmgrath
acmgrath

oops forgot 

 

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that would be on the top of my forehead.

acmgrath
acmgrath

FAKE, so fake.  you just lost footing YOlanda, Girls Girl fake.

happiness3971
happiness3971

Yo  good blog....Only have one thing to say.....Prom is not an extravaganza.....your closet is an

extravaganza....I thought you and your girls we at a store. 

jaguar28
jaguar28

Ever since you bought Brandi shoes in Paris and gave her sympathy, you have been played. She is playing you and bringing out the worst in you. She's a s*** -stirrer. Please pull it together!! Give the Richards sisters another chance. I was very inspired by your blog - and am always inspired by your ideals. You're slumming it intellectually and morally to run with the likes Brandi!

jewelofthenorth
jewelofthenorth

One last comment for this week:  You sit on your throne and make a suggestion that the ladies work for charities instead of gossip.  THIS is a GREAT idea!  HOW ABOUT YOU start by setting AN EXAMPLE.  STOP lambasting the "Richard's sisters", and all of your other pot stirring and START by suggesting a charity to work on.  In other words, ZIP YOUR OWN MOUTH SHUT  UNLESS you have something nice to say!!

jewelofthenorth
jewelofthenorth

Yolanda, I think you forgot the NUMBER ONE RULE when talking about what 'you' believe or think.... NEVER, and I do mean NEVER use the word:  ASSUME.  WE ALL know to ASSUME means to "make an ASS out of YOU and ME"  Well... Lord knows, you CERTAINLY made an ASS out of yourself. Again.

fernaa6
fernaa6

Your turning into a mean girl and a hypocrite. Sucks cause I use to like you. Ditch Lisa and Brandi and you'll come out smelling like roses!

Suzjdh
Suzjdh

Yolanda, You are a straight-shooter, a class act, a lovely person.  What's with the backlash from the bloggers??  It seems consistent who the mean girls are on this show.  Kim's snarky snipe at gymnastics was just that!  She acts like she's talking to her children, not grown, independent women.  Maybe she needs more practice at being an adult.  Or maybe, once again, her upbringing and Kyle's are rearing their ugly heads.  Love your segments.  As always, there is something positive and lovely to come away with.  Keep it up!  Best Wishes

Sara.Bellum.1
Sara.Bellum.1

Yolanda, Congratulations to both you and David for his recognition on Hollywood's walk of fame. Cheers to  a  new year filled with wonderful things for you and your family, mostly your health. 

Thank you again for keeping it real.

staugielady
staugielady

Yolanda - I am so relating to you in regards to Gigi graduating and turning 18 and moving on! I'm dealing with the same thing and my daughter just doesn't understand why this is so difficult for me! It's nice to see you going through similar circumstances and having similar feelings - it makes me feel like I'm not the only one!

lizmonte
lizmonte

I have to agree with most of the comments about you. I was a fan last season but not this one. It was nice to see someone with a little integrity but now I'm disappointed. I hope you actually read these comments because you need a wakeup call. I liked to see you last season above the crazy behavior and not looking to seem better than the other ones because of it. It just seemed as if that was just who you were. I'm hoping this has to do with your illness. A saying I live by is" You can tell who a person is by how they carry themselves in bad times not good". Pull it together Yolanda!

4637039
4637039

i agree yo. i loved when you joined. level headed and straight forward. but you have been sucked into their level. i suppose it's hard not too. watch the past shows and see how you have changed and maybe you can turn yourself around to the women we all know and love.....just a thought

Sophialolagirl
Sophialolagirl

Yolanda's lemons have gone sour. She is a mean girl to the core with Kyle and Kim first in her sights (although neither did anything to her, but she was attacking Kyle in her very first blog last year and never stopped) and now she has begun to attack Lisa. Most people are now waking up and see a hypocrite with Lisa as the new target. Funny how Yolanda called Taylor vulgar names and shut her down immediately for saying one thing about David, a first-hand account of how he treated his ex-wife, Taylor's friend badly, but she can go along attacking Kyle's 20-year relationship based on tabloid gossip. Yolanda sure doesn't live the rules she preaches incessantly to others.

KrissyU
KrissyU

You hit the nail on the head about the two sisters. I am glad you are healthy!

 

piperbeau
piperbeau

I never thought your identity on this show would basically consist of you being Brandi's co signer! I thought you were going to be waaay more interesting!! Your intentions (toward Lisa) are blatantly obvious!! 

Candygerlz
Candygerlz

This episode has aired on Bravo numerous times and every time I see the scene of Kim calling you RUDE. I am confused. Lisa and Kyle cut Kim off, not you. Your comment about having fun was said directly behind Kyle explaining to Lisa why Kim was giving everyone orders to leave the drama behind. You said, "ok. Let's go have fun" and Kim suddenly calls you rude. Why she singled you out, I just don't know.  Kyle wrote in her blog that you interrupted her sister.. It's simply not true. She interrupted her sister.

luvtherh
luvtherh

It is very telling how you were a fan favourite last season and now that your true colours have shown, there are many people disappointed in you this season. A hypocrite and know-it-all who pretends to be above the drama but is actually the pot stirrer with your new BFF the nasty Brandi. Lisa has always said kind things about you because of your relationship with her good friend Mohammed. She has hinted that this all has changed. A dumb move to go against the very person who was so loyal to you that she believed you over Kyle and Kim. We know it was a lie because we saw the episode. I never understood why Lisa continue to defend you even after it was clearly shown on tape. But in her blogs, she hints to ignoring something she didn’t want to believe.

 

No smoke without fire? Wow. Because you have experienced infidelity, I would hope that as a girl’s girl you would be more sensitive towards what Kyle may be feeling. I hope it is not true, but to sit there and say that as if there must be something to the gossip tabloids make up all the time was very cruel. I am not a Kyle fan, but no one would want to hear such words. Small minds right?

nobodyknows
nobodyknows

Ditch Yolanda immediately from the season. Nobody likes her.

TrishRN
TrishRN

I think it's entertaining to see all the chirpy, nasty statements made here by people watching edited footage. What I saw, what cannot be edited out, is the very real love you have for your girls and the very present dreaded anticipation you feel at the edge of letting your oldest spread her wings. I realize it's already happened for you in real life by now... But I have a mother like you and it makes me realize the immense love, terror, and loss she must've felt all at the same time. You're an awesome mom and a delight for me to watch each week.

suzcurt
suzcurt

For someone who proclaims to be above the fray seems you jumped right into the hog slop, sad. 

SaraJan
SaraJan

You think Kim and Kyle are jealous and insecure, but you know what they say... if you spot it you got it... just saying..

Maddie_CK
Maddie_CK

Is it not very hilarious that Yolanda would end her blog in a quote about how small minded people talk about people. Yet was she not just at a lunch with Lisa and Brandi talking about Kyle? Yes i believe she was. So I'm assuming she is admitting to being a small minded person as well. Oh the irony of it all

wrentham
wrentham

You're becoming so intolerant of people lately, as if you're superior in some way. And please remove the straw whisk broom you always have hanging at the back of your head. I know you can't afford another horse but I'm sure you could afford a better hair extension than the one you're wearing.

sdotnyc1
sdotnyc1

Yolanda can't "fake, make nice, or even pretend nothing ever happened between the Richards sisters", but she can talk trash about Lisa behind her back?  I always looked at Yolanda as a straight shooter but this season is beginning to show something totally different.  I wonder though, why Bravo execs have decided to leave a lot of her trash talking, as it concerns Lisa, off air?  While I think the Richard sisters are immature and insecure and petty as the next drama queen, at least I know what to expect from them.

2012Lucy
2012Lucy

Hi Yolanda, I had always wondered about Joanna Krupa and Mohammed.. she is SO YOUNG, or at least looks young.. how young would she have been seriously when she hooked up with Mohammed?  18? 

lifeisshort48
lifeisshort48

What a joke.  If you wanted to help or be encouraging to Kyle you would have had a private conversation with her.  No those lunches are not to bring things like that out.  Why would he discuss such things with people who are clearly not her friends.  Nor did Brandi bring it up to give her a heads-up as she knew very well that Kyle had heard the rumors.

 

You and Brandi are very out spoken cowards.  You don't have the courage to say you are doing what you are doing just to be mean.  You are a big mouth woman but you lack real courage.

lifeisshort48
lifeisshort48

The word is snake.  I too thought you were nice and level headed in the beginning.  That's what you wanted us to think of you.  I think you are the jealous one.  I think you are very jealous of Kyle.  You are a snake.  You are childish and I think you use Brandi to do your dirty work and then you pipe in as if what she is saying or doing is appropriate. 

 

The episode where you commented about Kyle not having the longest hair now.  Really?  It's still longer than yours.  You are jealous of her, you are picking on her and why would you and Brandi make the comments you have about the things you've read in the tabloids.  Why would you wish that on anyone woman.  Jealous.  Obviously your mirror works and you see what we all see.  Your behavior makes you very unattractive.

 

You are a disappointment.

smitty62
smitty62

unfortunately with this group it's never going to change... I like what Carlton said about women could rule the world if they could just get out of each others way... same same with this situation --- if you could all just get out of each others way imagine the good things that could happen...

piperbeau
piperbeau

I never thought your identity on this show would basically consist of you being  Brandi's co signer! I thought you were going to be waaay more interesting.... Your intentions are blatantly obvious!

cindy1963
cindy1963

Yolanda,

 I was watching the first episode of the new season when you were at Kyle's Chamber of Commerce party and it seemed like you were so jealous/envious of both Kyle and Joyce's hair. You mentioned it a couple of times and at times just the look on your face makes you seem so fake and phony. I liked you more last season but so far this season all I see is a lot of acting pretentious. More power to you and God bless you that you have so much more than many of us but why do some people who have money have to be so fake?

tinad920
tinad920

Was a big fan, but don't understand why you have it out for Lisa? When you first came on, you immediately tried to pair off with the Richard sisters and bad mouth Lisa. Once you realized that wasn't a smart move you quickly changed your tune and became buddy buddy with Lisa and Brandi. Now it seems that you and Brandi are turning on Lisa.... I love watching the scenes with your family, but all of this mean girl stuff has got to stop.

MCTCB
MCTCB

 @Sara.Bellum.1

Yolanda had nothing to do with David getting the star. It's David's accomplishment.  She just happens to be his current wife.

Sara.Bellum.1
Sara.Bellum.1

 @biancashines I agree 100%. Sad how most American's are so geocentric and just don't get it when it comes to other people from other countries. Yolanda doesn't have a bad bone in her body.

Candygerlz
Candygerlz

 @SaraJan It's takes one to know one is an elementary school saying, because children in grade school do not have the wisdom or insight to analyze a persons behavior. Adults, however, are another story entirely.