Adriana's Bad Acting
Joanna thinks Adriana should have just come clean from the start.
And the Oscar goes to… I think anyone can tell the difference between a good acting job and bad acting, and there is definitely some bad acting going on here! I am just not understanding the whole Adriana argument, and I am trying to see and be open minded about the 50 different reasons why she didn't tell anyone she was really married. Honesty is the key to anything -- the more you lie in life, the more it comes out. You can never ever escape from it, because it will always end up biting you in the butt. In my opinion, people respect someone that has made bad choices in their life, but owns up to it, apologizes, and moves on.
I don't buy this whole victim thing with Adriana for one second. She keeps spinning the story, and it seems she is getting herself confused about all the lies and trying to keep to her script. I am really trying to accept her and like her, but the more I listen to her, the more it makes me want to stand my ground and side with Lea. Sometimes it’s worth putting the ego aside and accepting your faults in order to move on instead of believing your web of lies and being stuck there and ending up looking like a fool. Even though I am trying to stay open minded here...The night of Baoli starting off fun with just the 3 of us, and when I saw Adriana and Marysol walk in, I was in shock. It was very disrespectful and rude that Lisa had the nerve to invite the other girls to Baoli whens she sold it to us as just the 3 of us girls out for a fun night. Not sure what planet Lisa lives on, but it can't be Earth, because no sane person would do such a selfish thing knowing all the tension that is going on in the group with Lea. It seems Lisa forgets to put herself in certain scenarios to see how she would feel if she was put on the spot like that. It’s one thing to be a peace maker but another to be living in La La Land.
You can't expect to see someone that has betrayed you and lied to you for years and forgive them overnight. If someone is a real and a caring person with a heart, it takes more than just one night to get over the pain your good friend brought upon you. Especially when that same friend is still attacking you and pretending like she doesn't know you. It’s common courtesy if you see someone to say hi to them. One word: ungrateful! If Lea wasn't real and a fake, she would just pretend she is friends with everyone, but it seems she is truly hurt and it takes time for wounds to heal, especially ones that are this deep. Are some of these women delusional? They act as if lying about being married isn't a big deal and they go about their day as if it’s OK to lie and it’s no big deal? Makes me suspicious of what they are hiding, since they seem like it doesn't bother them at all. Am I missing something here? The true friends that I have in my life always tell me the truth, would be there for me no matter what, and have my back if I needed something. Here it seems that friendship is so superficial.
When Lea left the restaurant and was really upset, I decided to hand Lisa a copy of Adriana’s wedding license, since a Twitter fan was super upset about it. I decided to print it out in case the subject came up that night and give it to Lisa, since I couldn't take her looking so ignorant anymore and listening to all the lies over the proof that is set in stone. Honestly with this group of women I sometimes feel as if I am back in high school, maybe even grade school…time to grow up and take responsibility for your actions.
I really pray Lisa gets her wish and gets pregnant, since she obviously loves to take care of others and wats us all to get along.
See you next week!
Joanna
