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Ramona Singer: I Was Outraged!

Ramona explains what really happened at John's party.

By Ramona Singer
I Never Want to Be in Your Presence Again

I wasn't originally invited to John's dry cleaning party, but then when Dorinda saw me at the Sushi Roxx party she asked me personally to please come. Although, watching her being interviewed, she clearly forgot! Or perhaps she conveniently forgot -- to take the attention off John. I would never go to a party that I was not invited to. 

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Dorinda and I were on good terms, laughing and enjoying each other’s company. In retrospect, I probably should have just gone home, but because Dorinda extended the invite to me at Luann's party, I thought it would be rude if I didn't show up. I didn’t know I would be meeting Luann's ex-boyfriend Rey.

I met Rey through Luann during the time she was dating him and getting ready to go away to Ibiza with him, so when I saw Rey I was friendly and we were chatting. I had heard from Bethenny how aggressive John was with her at the bra party, so when he approached me and Rey, I was nervous being around John.

If John had just said, "Luann was attacked by this guy, he must leave,” the situation between John and me would never happen. Instead my protective nature wanted to defend Rey from John as I never heard what John was exactly saying, because I was afraid of his demeanor. I was horribly scared and never knew about how rude and inappropriate Rey was to Luann.

He did say Rey was drunk, which he clearly was, but I didn't think that would be a reason to have him thrown out of the party. So I did stick up for Rey, but only because of the way John presented himself. I did not get thrown out as John has reported to the press. I actually left -- on my own accord! I was outraged! Actually, John scared me. He put his hand in my face in an aggressive way that no man should ever do. Yes, I got angry, but I do think most people would have responded the same way as I did. He came into my space over something that had nothing to do with me. He should have removed Rey quietly instead of creating a scene at his own party. It’s funny because the only reason Page Six reported this event is because John himself called it into the paper. So he created his own drama! But the last laugh is really on him. He keeps making a fool out of himself. Sometimes in life, you get a reaction to your action.

Glad I have the reputation of being the apologizer, but I do own my own stuff! Never in denial at all. I know if I am wrong, and I know if I believe I am right. I only apologize when I do feel like I handled something wrong or I hurt someone. Clearly you can see that I am not the only one that thinks Sonja has some "issues.” The girls are concerned. Dorinda was clear as can be that she did not want to invite Sonja from fear of what may happen. She didn't want to put Sonja into a situation, so Dorinda protected her. Yes, of course it did hurt Sonja’s feelings but Dorinda’s intentions -- as are mine -- are to protect her. 

Tom and I dated around six times between august and September. He was a great date and fun to be with. Nice guy but not for me. I'm looking for a man that has been married before and has older children. That's important to me as I love Avery so much, and she is such a big part of my life. A man who never had a child would never understand this relationship.

Luann is very big about girl code. She knew from the article in the press that I was dating him. I don't understand as a girlfriend why Luann would never mention this to me.





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