Get His Digits

Take his number - and say you'll call him. This way, you won't have to wait by the phone! Yes, it's hard to make the first move, but being in control does wonderful things for the ego! (Men have known this little secret for centuries.)

Tone that Bod

Work on your bod. Taking control of weight, muscle tone, and overall figure can improve your self-confidence, which makes it easier to take control of your life.

No Sleepovers

Tell him you can't sleep over because...his pillow gives you a stiff neck...you cat gets lonesome...you're allergic to his bathroom tile. Even if his place is more of a hovel than a home, he'll probably prefer that you spend the night on his turf - where he feels comfortable. But constantly consenting to do that is a mistake, because it gives him all the power. About half the time, you should say you'd rather stay home. Alone. Soon, he'll be aching to spend the night in your bed! We he does, make him feel welcome: Stock his favorite CDs, keep a beer mug chilled in the freezer, give him a smidgen of room in your closet for business suits.

Meet Mom

Be observant when you visit his mother. Your beau's attitude towards his mom says volumes about the way he treats women. If he loves sending time with her, values her opinions, listens when she speaks, he's a winner.