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Luann de Lesseps: Would You Pick a Party Over Your Friend?

Luann wants to remind every one what "girl code" means.

By Luann de Lesseps
That's What FOMOs Do

This week, I’m going to remind everyone what the #GirlCode means. Do you think it was OK for Ramona to try to score an invite to Tom’s New Year’s Eve party in Palm Beach? Would you pick a party over your friend? Ramona doesn’t see a problem with what she did, although she apologized like she always does (100% insincere). Not only was holding this party tacky, insensitive, and disrespectful on Tom’s part, it showed complete disregard for me and my feelings. The ink was not even dry on our divorce! You would think Ramona would have realized how this would hurt me, but she went ahead and did it anyway. The best part is Tom said “NO”…LOL.

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The Grace Mayflower Inn and Spa in Washington, Connecticut is spectacular and just what I needed upon getting back into town from Florida. The girls had a great time, and it didn’t bother me a bit that they drank while I sipped non-alcoholic concoctions! I’m totally fine with it after not drinking for weeks. I’m taking the time to figure out myself, and it’s easier for me to find clarity when I put down the rosé and pick up the cucumber water!

I’m in San Francisco this week at Feinstein’s at the Nikko doing my new cabaret #CountessandFriends!  The great thing about my cabaret is that it is always different, depending on which friends are with me that night. Go to for information on upcoming shows and where to buy tickets in a city near you. We’ve added shows in Long Island at the Paramount on August 4 and the Borgata Casino and Hotel in Atlantic City on August 24, which is the same place I filmed the music video for Chic, C'est La Vie! I’ll be exclusively wearing @JovaniFashions …#sparkle. Thank you for all your support! Hope to see you there. Lots of love!




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