Aloha! I'm enjoying an insanely great time with Terry and the kids. It's funny, everything that could go wrong on this trip HAS gone wrong, yet it's honestly one of the nicest family times ever.
Happy Father's Day to all of the amazing men out there who provide and care for their children. We love you, honor you, and celebrate you. Of course, especially the three dads that are so special to me: my Dad, My Uncle Tony (who is like a second father to me), and last but certainly not least -- Terry.
Terry, my husband, the father of my children, I love you so much. Thank you for all that you do. The kids and I are so grateful and blessed to have you as the leader of our clan!
This past weekend, I was honored to stand up as a bridesmaid in Tamra's wedding to Eddie. From start to finish, the event was such a beautiful weekend filled with love, family, and friendship. Children laughing, champagne flowing, couples dancing. . .and well, there's always a LITTLE drama. Sadly I can't give you any more details. You will have to wait until September 2 to see the special series Tamra's OC Wedding. It's an event you will NOT want to miss!
You were once again, rude to Alexis. She came willingly and all you did was criticize her. Why are you such a bully? Because she's dumb and you think she doesn't know how to defend herself? I jst don't get you. You hold yourself up as someone who is above the fray yet you're a mean gossipy bitch. Poor Terry. Your poor kids. And altho I never thought I'd say it, the poor housewives of the OC. You're a fake and a phony and a really spoiled and ungrateful shrew. And your plastic surgery husband needs to fix your mouth. It's as ugly as the Joker's. Maybe worse. I suggest you get off the show and go try out for bit parts in C list TV shows.
I like Heather. She has a lot of talent. Also, to be that thin after having 4 kids is no small miracle either. (Although I think she is younger than me.) She is usually the smart one of the group.
I've noticed that many bloggers love to bash Alexis and Lydia for their 'Christian behavior'. So I wonder, when Heather is being her usual appalling self, is she engaging in good 'Jewish behavior'? Let's not be hypocritical.
Yes, you should come to a place where you can move forward ! You are, without doubt,the most over bearing individual I've witnessed. You are quick to take umbrage at the errant finger pointing, or rude expression; but dear, you do that yourself.
ADmit it or not, you have an insufferable, superior opinion of yourself
I wonder if you have the ability to shoot laser beams from your eyeballs?? If it were possible you would be the first human to do so
You always act like you are better than some of the other women on the show, yet you sat in that limo and let your husband invite Brooks to something that he did not have the right to, just to cause some trouble? Maybe you have been letting Terry hang out with Sleazy Slade too much. You are who you associate with, right?
Heather pretends to be so proper and polite and seems to pride herself on being an elegant lady. However, the truth ism, she is just as rude and hostile as some of the other ladies on this show. The way she has treated her husband on a few episodes is reminiscent of the way Adrienne Maloof treated her husband on RH of Beverly Hills. With her jagged, harsh features, angry mouth, twisted eyebrows and Ramona Singer crazy eyes, this woman is scary! Not a nice "lady" at all.
Grow up Heather! Nobody is perfect, including you. Including Terry, including Alexis, including the dumb girl who ruined your cake, etc. You have revealed yourself to be shallow and self-centered, and yet you constantly try to justify yourself as being so righteous. If anyone needs evidence, just look back at the clip of Heather saying "she ruined MY CAKE." What are you, twelve years old? Please try to mature into the person you pretend to be and stop hiding behind your self-entitled attitude.
I thought Heather was rude and antagonistic towards Alexis during this so called truce. She's lucky that Alexis is a lady!
A) That's a confusing shot of you (?) and your wonderful husband with Tamra and Eddie's names below
B) You called that truce at the cafe and you were not in the least bit negotiable. you were rude
C) Nice compliments you're throwing Teri's way. He deserves them after what you've put him through
...Heather, you stepped up and offered Alexis your willingness to move beyond the pettiness. Unfortunately, Alexis cannot get out of her own way long enough to meet you halfway. (Alexis, what would Jesus do?...We know, but apparently you do not.)
You are so wise to simply note a difference of opinion with Alexis and then move forward in a positive way! I love these inspirational and positive moments on the show...here's hoping there are many, many more! So happy you are sharing fun times with your family...you definitely know what is important in life!
Welp, all I can say is that these things MUST have happened when not on camera because it doesn't look on camera like Alexis did ANYTHING to you! There appears to be NO reason for you to act like a bully toward her. She bragged and that got on your nerves. Get over it, Heather! That should not have been such a big deal for you to have acted as you did toward her... *sigh*
Best housewife on any of the houswives shows. You seem to stay true to yourself and be yourself and truly try to get along with everyone. Kudos to you
What an awesome, beautiful and sexy picture!!!!! You both look great - pretty dress and gorgeous hair Heather!!!!
Beautiful picture of you two. I'm hoping that you can change my mind that there's more depth to you. It would be great to see ALL of you getting along. There's a lot of opionions about who should stay and go - I'm hoping that you ALL STAY and that we get to seeEACH of you grow to be better people and that rather than critisizing one another, and making each other cry that you celebrate and support each other while laighing and crying TOGETHER. over the joys and pains in moments you share.
Heather - Just apologize to Alexis - take the high road otherwise Alexis will let it burn away at her! You did the right thing - try to clear the air and acknowledge she is who she is, you are who you are, Vicki is who she is etc. I like your attitude - your honest and not so much back stabbing. Laurie on the other hand - why she is back to be so back stabbing - without Vicki she would not be where she is today.
I know you guys had the issue where Terry called Alexis fake but I think he was really looking at the work done and how they talk about what they have. I think Alexis is a bit of a ditz at times. She doesn't listen to really what is being said she takes everything as an attack instead of looking into herself and seeing what was said and thinking maybe she does come off a bit braggy. You just try and get her to see it and she won't see it that she may be that way. Lydia can see it when she tries to talk to her. She can't get past the me, me, me, stage to see she won't listen. Jim feeds her what she wants to hear as well. Seeing faults in yourself is probably the hardest thing to see. Tamra did go off on her and she owned up to it but you really didn't strt it you just answered a question asked of you.
I am no fan of Heather, but its not fair to compare her Judaism to Alexis and Lydia's Christianity. Both Alexis and Lydia -- especially Alexis -- talk all the time about how their Christian faith and values shape their view of the world and their behavior. Heather does not do that -- while we have seen her and her family go to Temple on the their High Holidays its pretty clear she is not an observant Jew and I even think she once made some comment about how how they are "half Jewish and half Buddhist."
Agreed that Heather is about as appalling as a person can be. But she is not a religious hypocrite.
She does come across as a JAP.
@southernfried 2 wrongs don't make a right.
Heather did not make amends with Alexis. She tried to reiterate her entire 'case' against Alexis. She has to try desperately to make Alexis out to be the bad guy, because Heather is, herself, the guilty party here. Without Alexis's generosity of spirit and Lydia's sweet intervention, Heather would not have even been at that table with Alexis. The only reason ladies like Lydia and Alexis give someone like Heather the time of day is because they are genuinely sweet souls. Heather is lucky they even speak to her.
@ScottWmSimpson You could have made your point just as well without the body snarking.
@rholawrence yes and it was technically only the edge of the Bow of the cake...which was barely noticeable (rude of Sarah to do it, but barely noticeable!)
@BarrioBabe It's one of those take a photo booth photos at Weddings.
Heather was rude and condescending to Alexis. Heather has nothing to "move past". She caused the problems and hurt feelings. It is hard to move past something when the other person (Heather) won't take accountability of her actions.
@booey1 Sorry to disagree, but there simply is no room for difference of opinion. The facts are the facts, and Heather changes the facts around to suit her delusional self image. Her treatment of Alexis...from Costa Rica (planned intervention that served no purpose except to give Heather and Tamra an excuse to let Alexis know how much they disliked her) to the the reunion and Heather' s absurdly cruel words (if people tell you that you're dead, lie down) a n d all the crass blogs in between, Heather has refused to own a single instance of being wrong. Well, enough people o n this blog have been telling Heather she is dead...so for goodness sake, WHEN IS SHE going to LIE DOWN??
@Becky03 Do you think there's a difference between 'planning an intervention' and 'answering a question', or you truly believe that it is the same thing?
No, they don't talk "all the time" about their faith. Anyway, Christianity isn't about behavior. It's about faith and belief in Jesus Christ.
@Lorimelissa Alexis was condescending, rude and unwelcoming to the new girl- she has loads to apologize for but like her fans she will probably choose to never ever see it. What good could possibly come from a Christian woman recognizing when they have offended someone - apologizing and trying to truly move forward rather than continuing to talk over everyone with your version of what everyone should hear rather what they did hear.
@mothership You are forgetting very quickly how Alexis picked apart Heather and had strong opinions about her before Heather could formulate genuine opinions of her cast mates. You are also forgetting how Tamra knew right off the bat that Alexis would hate Heather because she is everything Alexis wants to be, but is not. If you watch last season over again, you will see the hatred from Alexis right off the bat. One of the very first comments she made about Heather was, "Who is Heather? I've never even heard of her as an actress. Now Angelina Jolie? That's an actress." She had met Heather one time. Now what's Alexis doing? Taking acting classes. Hmm. Coincidence? I think not. She is threatened by Heather in every sense of the imagination.
@southernfried perhaps I overstated. Alexis and Lydia do not talk "all the time" about their Christian faith but they do make very frequent references to it. And there are perhaps denominational differences in what Christianity is. I am indeed a Christian. And I do believe actions and behavior matter. True faith leads to righteous behavior. Unless I am mistaken Lydia clarified that when she explained why she would not attend the male stripper show.
It's funny Tamra said Alexis is jealous of Heather. Tamra knew better than to try to go against Heather, because Heather is everything Tamra is not!!! Especially the part about having class! Does Tamra think she has an ounce of class next to Heather or to most women her age, for that matter?!
@AnaBanana0712 @mothership Well said! Also Alexis tried to embarrass Heather at Heather's own painting party by talking about bedroom activities, which Heather did not want to discuss. Apparently, Alexis is not shy about bragging about her sex life. I still remember when Alexis tried to one-up Peggy about who had sex in the bathroom more often. Ridiculous.
@AnaBanana0712 "Tamra knew right off the bat that Alexis would hate Heather"
Interesting. Is this why Tamra told all the mean things about Alexis to Heather before they met?