What's Ramona Singer's New Year's Resolution?

Is the world ready for a zen Ramona Singer? "I think I'm very blessed in my life right now, so I just want to try not to get too stressed. And try not to be a control freak," the Real Housewives of New York City star tells Wetpaint about the resolution she's making on January 1.

"I have to be a control freak, because when I don't control things they go wrong. I swear. When I stop being a control freak, things go through the cracks and they go wrong. I swear to you. There's a reason for it." Baby steps, R, baby steps.

The feisty blonde mom will be soaking up her fair share of relaxation before Santa Claus comes to town. "We are in Christmas week! Having the best time in St. Martin. Off to breakfast! Xo," the business queen tweeted. So, besides a few cases of Pinot, what's Ramona asking the jolly man for this year? "I just want to be happy, be healthy, and have my daughter be happy. And not try to do everything. My new thing is, I can do everything, I don’t want to do everything. ‘Cause I’m a big control freak." You don’t say.

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