Lisa, yes you do hold grudges. If there is an issue with you and a friend, unless that person says I am sorry, bow down and kisses your feet, profess their undying loyalty, and promises never to do that again, you will exit them from your life. Why is it so important for Kyle to have your back? Are you not a grown woman? I am a grown woman, I do not need to demand someone have my back. I can take care of myself, and if a friend tried to interfere with a issue I had with another person, I would say to my friend-"I got this" I can understand if you were in a dangerous situation you would want to know who had your back, but having a diagreement or fight with someone does not require someone having your back. What are you in kindergarten? You do not need someone to tell you" I have your back", especially with all this bs going on this show, but you do. You need that pint of blood. I think you belive you are in England, and that you are the queen on this show. You may be the oldest and more mature, but when it comes to friendship there is no grey area, there is no room to breath. In real life, Lisa, friends sometimes say the wrong thing, might accidently repeat something, but they are still your friend. A girlfriend of mine would have to do something really bad to me for me to exit them from my life. You have no forgiveness in you Lisa! You and Yolanda push Brandi to the front to say the things you two feel you have too much class, but let me tell you something. Hanging around Brandi makes you and Yoland just as bad as she is. You are always saying how you chastise Brandi for things she says and do, but behind close doors you are right there with her. I hope you find the episode Kyle was talking about, and see if Yolanda said things about you. What are you going to with Yolands? Nothing probably, because you are a phone and a coward.