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How Joe and Melissa Gorga Use Role Play to Spice up Their Sex Life

The Real Housewives of New Jersey couple is keeping the flame lit.

By Tamara Palmer
Melissa and Joe

Melissa Gorga and her husband, Joe Gorga, have been married since 2004, but they still look at each other like the newest and most excited of lovebirds. The Real Housewives of New Jersey couple is never shy about sharing that their sex life is still hot, either.

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“We still are obsessed with each other. I mean, we still have sex more than the average," Joe told Us Weekly. “I don’t think of her as my wife. I think of her as my girlfriend, and we just keep it real, and the key is as much sex as you can have. It keeps us together.”

Joe is also into a little bit of TMI, telling the publication they like to role play: “We do it all! Everything! She plays the game. I play a little bit more. I’m the one that pushes it, and she goes along with it.”

But how much sex is lots of sex? Three or four times a week, Melissa said on the Season 9 reunion of RHONJ.

Guess they have to sleep sometimes!

Credit: Melissa Gorga/Instagram

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