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Can't Invite Everyone
Five's a party, Six is a crowd
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I had a small cooking party with my girlfriend Pamela, who's a chef, and I only invited 5 girls. I think Jill overreacted about not being invited. I understand she would have liked to come, but I can't invite everyone all the time. It's not like this was a party for 200 people, in which case of course she would have been invited. Unfortunately in The Hamptons, when people don't get invited even to a small dinner party, they get offended. I understand she was upset, but I can't invite everyone.
I was disappointed that Missy and I lost the tennis match, but I almost feel like Jill set us up to lose. It definitely threw me off balance that Jill had so many people there to watch us play -- maybe that was her intention?! It was like a ploy! Missy always plays the backhand side with me, but for some reason during the second game I switched to the backhand side. The stronger player always plays the backhand side, so I wish I had gone with my gut instinct and stuck to the forehand side. Perhaps then the score would have been better.
It's very funny how people recognize me now since the show has started. I was in Bloomingdale's the other day shopping and someone came over to me to tell me how much she loves the show, and loves me on the show and everyone else. Now I realize I have to make sure I look decent every time I go out in public! When I was in Southampton, I went to the local plumbing store to pick up a sink and a man there recognized me. I had no makeup on, my hair was a mess, I was in old sweats, and I wanted to hide under my sink! But he loved the show and wanted to know what was coming up and it was a great reaction. We've been getting great reactions, and I want to thank everyone for watching the show.
-Ramona