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Heather: Bethenny Knows How To Shut Down A Conversation

Heather dishes on her unsuccessful attempt to confront Bethenny.

By Heather Thomson

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I was really looking forward to dinner at my good friend Jonathan Morr's restaurant, Cherry, with Dorinda, Bethenny, and Radz. I thought it was going to be a great way for us to continue getting to know each other better. Little did I know...
The birthday dinner a few nights ago turned out to be a good time. We all rallied for Bethenny to have a fun party. Everyone was getting along, and we all danced on the table. It was a shame Kristen and Dorinda weren't invited. I didn't understand it. I was even more surprised since some of the girls brought dates that Bethenny definitely didn't know, but it wasn't my guest list.

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I guess with Bethenny you have to really put in your time before your feelings are allowed to count. Noted.”

Heather Thomson

After speaking to Kristen about the party, I realized she, and probably Dorinda, felt left out. Totally natural. Since Kristen and I are close, and I thought Bethenny and I were on a positive path, I didn't think twice about bringing this subject up at our dinner--I thought it was useful information.

Bethenny Does Not Work Well With Others

I have to hand it to Bethenny--she sure knows how to shut down a conversation the minute there's no personal interest. I barely finished my sentence on the topic before it got hostile. I don't think any of us knew what to make of her reaction. Between the sleeping dramatization and telling me I was Carole's plus one, I quickly realized nothing positive was going to come of this.  Mind you, I started by saying "Kristen's feelings were hurt," and somehow it turned into a debate about how long they've known each other. Maybe it's just me, but I try to be conscious of my actions when dealing with others, regardless of how long we've been acquainted. I guess with Bethenny you have to really put in your time before your feelings are allowed to count. Noted.
P.S. I'd actually prefer my rap name to be H to the Tizzle. But appreciate the suggestion!
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Heather

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