Ramona: Perhaps My Delivery Wasn't the Best

Ramona looks back on her exchange with Kristen and explains the real reason she hasn't been blogging as much this season.

By Ramona Singer Jun 22, 2015, 4:06 PM ET

Decorating cupcakes was more than fun with the girls. I was so excited when Sonja said she wanted us all to go on a trip to Turks and Caicos. I sent the cupcakes to Avery at her college, and she loved them.

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Bethenny is a very strong woman. The things she has been going through have been very hard on her emotionally. At times Bethenny cries at a drop of the hat due to all the stress she's under. I know the feeling as finalizing my divorce has been taking a toll on me emotionally. This is the reason I haven't written a blog in a while. I appreciate everyone's continued support and understanding. It means so much to me.

Perhaps my delivery wasn't the best to Kristen. In fact, I admit many times my delivery isn't. As Dorinda says, it's not the content but the delivery. This is something I need to work on. We all know Rome wasn't built in a day. I also need to think before I speak. Unfortunately, easier said than done.

I knew how hard it was for Bethenny to make it to Luann's photo shoot. I also know she finds it difficult to warm up to many people at the same time when walking into a group. I firmly believe that Kristen should have waited 10 minutes before asking Bethenny questions about the trip. It put Bethenny on the defensive, and it was awkward. It also made Bethenny run off and cry. Kristen wasn't thinking. I probably should have said to Kristen that her timing was off and awkward. Being Ramona, I went with what I was thinking and didn't edit myself.