Tom Sandoval

Tom laments that complicated coffee table and tries to figure out what Scheana is so bent on sabotage. 

on Nov 13, 20130

Scheana talking to Lisa about Schwartz and Shay's fight was a tattletale move, and the way she explained it was pretty much the complete opposite of what actually happened between Shay and Schwartz. Shay was probably the most drunk I've ever seen him, btw. . .

I feel like is just going through this sabotage mindset on a power trip. What bothers me the most about what she did is that she wasn't just a little bias and she didn't just exaggerate, but she full blown lied about what happened that night between Shay and Schwartz.

Scheana also most definitely knew that Schwartz was coming in to interview. News gets around SUR almost as fast as it comes out of your mouth. I've known Schwartz long enough to know he would've never come in for that interview if he know the chances of getting hired at SUR weren't probable or almost a sure thing. Scheana deep down is a good person, that's why it really bothers me to see her be so manipulative and shady.

17 comments
louis1111
louis1111

Tom,

 

First I loved the respect you showed to The Motels...they deserved it and you could see how much you loved their music and their contribution to the American music scene. That was such a class act. Don't ever be afraid to show your emotions. It took balls to just let your feelings out. Tom S, turned it into a great scene...he seems to be a good friend. I still don't trust Kristen...You did not need to beg for a good night kiss. Once you were in rock star mode she was all over you. She only wants you on her terms. You keep saying you love her but do you really love her or is it just a five year habit? She's going to turn again. I just don't know what episode...but she will. Be prepared. 

9judgenot
9judgenot

Dam Tom, ask Kristen for your balls back!

Calendargirl@20
Calendargirl@20

You seem to be, on the surface, an okay guy.  The problem is that you fail to shine in a positive light because you have aligned yourself will the wrong people. 

JLSOBE
JLSOBE

It doesn't say desperate.....it says "bi-curious".    Metrosexual men, what a concept !

MomLeader
MomLeader

Oh God Tom, you kinda ragged on Pandora at the end there. I suppose that's very brave of you cuz let's see if Lisa takes it out on you.  You just criticized her daughter--but your point is valid. Obviously we won't see if Lisa takes retribution with you on the show (cuz the season is in the can), so tell us on here next week if she does. I bet Pandora reads this and runs to Mummy..I didn't think she was like that until I've seen her on this show run to Mummy twice to gripe. Not liking Pandora at the moment, and I usually love her. It's all Scheana baby....

WilliamSue
WilliamSue

Tom, I don't blame you for cheating on Kristen.  The least you can do is let her go.  Who wants to be with a sour-puss face person anyway?  She's always mad about something and her personality stinks!  You can do way better - and apparently you have (in Vegas)! 

bunnymunro
bunnymunro

Nope, you all missed the boat (all respect).

It should simple read "SUBMISSIVE MALE SLAVE"

Just because he isn't an old man crawling around on the floor with a dominitrix for hire, doesn't mean that he isn't screaming "please humiliate me, I am a slave and crave abuse!"

Poor guy, if he could just take it up a notch and go find a smart, older dominant bitch, he would be a pig in shite.

He is addicted to the constant humiliation and adrenaline rush of rejection from this amateur little girl who doesn't know her ass from her elbow.

 

donuthole
donuthole

you did wrong, but you were honest about it. I think you and your girl need to break up and she needs time to figure out if she wants to be with you. Just don't go hoing around during the break. that never looks good to someone you're trying to win back.

louis1111
louis1111

Tom,

 

Instead of putting the table together for your ungrateful and vengeful girlfriend, why don't you begin putting your life together and start anew with someone who appreciates you for the seemingly sensitive, generous and thoughtful person you are. Kristen is never going to forgive you...she loves the histrionics of her life and she seems to enjoy being spiteful and playing the "victim" in this whole mess. Nothing is ever black and white in this world. What she has to learn is that she is 50% responsible for what happened...it did not occur in a vacuum. But that's not going to happen...she's way to full of herself. I hope that one day you look back on all of this and wonder why you put up with it in the first place. 

phillip.mcgaugh
phillip.mcgaugh

Much better than your last post. I commented on that post...don't know if my reply passed the grade for it to be posted.

Proud of you!

catherinem
catherinem

If I watch the show, it's basically because of you.  I thought you putting the table together (or trying to) was very cute and typical.  Thanks for being fairly normal amidst a sea of "high school" hijinks.

housewifeforreal4
housewifeforreal4

Well it was crappy what you did- but you did tell the truth and own up to it like a man. Now it's on Kristen if she decides to stay with you. She needs to either break up with you o GET OVER IT.

rachel.n.lee.7
rachel.n.lee.7

Tom Schwartz is responsible for not getting the job, not Scheana. If you guys keep blaming other people for the outcome of your life, you'll never acknowledge and learn from your mistakes. Hold each other accountable and encourage each other to grow up.

KeyRat22
KeyRat22

Tom I think you are wonderful.   Your relationship with (I cannot remember her name) well you know you live with her, was in serious trouble prior to you being with someone else and was in fact the reason you were with someone else. The unworkable quality of the relationship is that your "roommate" is not capable of taking any responsibility for any of it when in fact she shares the responsibility and the other problem is that she is now on "punishing" mode.  Some women stay so that they can hold the episode over their partners head and thats what she is doing.  She is trying to humiliate you and she is in fact abusing you. For any couple to go without sex for more than a few days is not good but for months is terrible.  I felt particularly bad for you when you said that she "cringed" when you touched her.  The relationship is over for a couple of reasons one is that (I wish I could remember her name) "she" will never let go of this and will use it as a weapon against you as long as you are together and she will not change because she takes no owndership.  She sees herself as a "victim" and by the way for a woman of 30 to talk about something happening within "3 days of my birthday" as if that makes it worse is silly and childish.  Whoever has more money (probably not her) needs to move out.  Dont make 5 years into 6 or 7 leave now so you can get the relatioship you deserve.  You do not deserve to be "punished" she left you emotionally and physically far prior to your tryst.

nancydrew70
nancydrew70

@rachel.n.lee.7 I think it wasn't necessarily Lisa believing every word that Scheana said, but realizing that another couple working together and who knew everyone (no clean slate) would just add more unnecessary drama. Lisa was right on that decision.

The_Other_Lisa_V
The_Other_Lisa_V

Tom Scwhartz didn't get the job because Scheana didn't just distort the facts when she told Lisa what had happened at the birthday party -- she blatantly lied. Lisa chose to uncritically accept Scheana's version as the truth and ended up basing her hiring decision on a lie. Scheana -- in her infinite journalistic wisdom -- didn't seem to realize that there were cameras there during the party, and the footage pretty convincingly shows that in no way did Tom Schwartz "pick a fight" with her milktoast boyfriend.

 

Tom Sandoval is right: Scheana is shady. I guess that makes her  "scheady."