It's time for you to put your emotions in check Porsha and stop crying over your ex husband since he's clearly moved on. I hope you stay focused on what's important. Showing off your wardrobe and talking about how you're having sex on your new bed linens (another post) isn't classy. I hope you continue to honor your legacy. Some women feel like they have to out do their ex husbands when their husbands hooked up with someone else. I hope the best for you, but I think you're setting a tone that doesn't put you in a good light. I'm with Kandi, I think leasing a huge place so soon is going to be costly mistake. I wish you well.