Gary, I thought the same thing about the fight. In fact, all of us (the family) watching together (because we all love Brad, and now you) wondered if there wasn't something else going on with you for the type of reaction you had.
Did either of you wonder if Penelope was trying to stop the fight?
We love the show, adore the both of you, and are enjoying the season! It's wonderful to see a couple on tv who adore one another, and treat one another with such care, thoughtfulness and love.