Can Todd agree to Kandi’s terms?

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1jwatcher
1jwatcher

Todd deserves more than Kandi is willing to give just for putting up with her nasty momma!! Kandi needs to tell her momma that she took her out of the will and that she will no longer provide for her as long as she is disrespecting her & Todd!!! Bet momma Joyce's attitude will change real quick!!! Greedy momma!!

joneszy65
joneszy65

That was over the top! I would of never signed anything. I would of put the wedding on hold. Why do they plan a wedding in weeks and expect everything to work out. Plain craziness! Than to video tape it,how much trust does she really have in Todd? When she said she was going to have it taped I thought she was joking, I guess she was not kidding. It is sad to watch. What a way to start a marriage. SMH

Jade333
Jade333

I don't think that Todd wanted a payout.  I think he just wanted to make sure that the document was not one sided.  I would not just sign anything without my attorney reviewing and negotiating it.

wlm2009
wlm2009

No kryptonite....reality check.  The pre-nup is for the first two years of the marriage and momma joyce minding her own love life.  I understand being protective..and I also understand people with a vested interest who feels entitled as well.  Parents who raise kids and then make them feel obligated...

mvbo
mvbo

Todd, Todd, Todd,! smh. Kandi must have kryptonite in her jungle of love for you. You should have allowed your attorney to hash things out with Kandi's attorney so that you could have something of substance if the marriage dissolves.

Marriage is a business arrangement. Of course Kandi should have compelled you to sign a pre nup. But you gave up all of your rights. It's just so sad to watch. 

Daisyatl
Daisyatl

Good for Kandi. He came into this marriage with nothing why should he leave with money she made prior to them getting married. Kandi is supportive of Todds business ventures as he is of hers. What they make together she is happy to split with him equally. Go Kandi!!

snowsuit
snowsuit

Kandi,  


I am so proud you got a prenup.  You have two priorities which is your daughter and self to take care of financially in the long run.  You are a successful business woman and Todd is an opportunist.  But, everyone needs some companionship in this world.  If Todd other qualities offset his opportunist and/or gold digging ways then, ok.  As long as He NOT abusing you in any manner, enjoying each other company, and treating your daughter well..... keep him.  What people haven't figured out is that you INCREASED the settlement amount for him in the prenup.  Why do you think he checked the papers and looked pleased?  You gave him a cool million plus some out of love and hopefully it was part of the bottom line of your projected terms.  He used your emotions to get a cushion if the marriage doesn't workout.  You longed to be married and have more children with a decent black man which is normal.  But, Todd waited until 4 hours on the day of the wedding to force your hand to get more MONEY.  Being a celebrity, you would've have had great embarrassment canceling the wedding in front of other rich celebrities.  Todd and his attorney used an OLD legal tactic to get double the money and it worked as usual.  Kandi, you showed your hand by NOT setting a DEADLINE of one month before the wedding to sign prenup.  Of course, you know Todd was going to miss the deadline so the official deadline would be two weeks before wedding.  And, the vendors or contracts for the wedding ceremony should have stipulated a full or 75% refund for cancellation up until the day of the wedding.  I'm a paralegal so red tape is always a factor.  Well, you married Todd for love and paid him handsomely for it.  Be happy and get more money.....make sure your business ventures are primarily separate or he gets a salary NOT a percentage of the profits........PAPERWORK or NOTHING on HUGE business deals. 
You know what you married.........PRENUP!  Continue to be smart.

1truefan
1truefan

So glad that Bravo has been rerunning NeNe's wedding, now that how you do it. Pre-Nup and all, totally out classed this mess. She always said that she Ball on a Budget. Some of what was shown just didn't make since. Having said that, I hope you stay together not just for Todd's sake but for you and your daughter as well. You could have a great marriage if you don't make money priority. It is the rut of all veil.

Mitchies
Mitchies

Watching this is disappointing because money is definitely the root of all evil. It changes people and some of them end up lonely, I'd hate for Kandi to end up lonely as a result of following her mother's lead. Protect your earnings, you really should, but not at the detriment of your relationship with Todd.

Sandy763
Sandy763

Wow Kandi is so insensitive.  If the roles were reversed, she would be ticked off at only having 2 days to respond to her demands.  The thing about him getting nothing if she dies is really strange and callous to me and having to be out of the house in 30 days is a little cold as well.  I don't know if this marriage will go long term, she's really is alot like her mother.

Jade333
Jade333

@mvbo Agree.  Kandi said he is paying bills and such living there, but it is her house so he is not getting any equity.  Not saying he should get her money, but he should make sure the document states that he gets anything he makes.  Tricky situation.  I think putting up with Mama Joyce deserves a little payout!

BeWiseNotFoolish
BeWiseNotFoolish

@snowsuit 

I absolutely LOVE your insight and ATTENTION TO DETAIL that the majority seem to overlook or not be educated in.  Todd has a cushion and used it at the last minute knowing Kandi wouldn't want to be embarrassed before her friends in the industry or on national television.  I'm so glad as a paralegal you broke it down in basic terms because you provided first-hand knowledge to people who slam Kandi and her pre-nup. Todd gets an easy million as a "settlement", but how much or what does Kandi get.  What until Todd's true self comes to the surface.