Mariah Huq

Mariah doesn't think Dr. Jackie treated the ladies respectfully at her Lemon Squeeze.

on May 5, 20130

The Queen B is back and feeling fabulous. Did you miss me last week? I definitely missed you. I needed some time to renew, refresh, and restore the positive energy within and around me. I really enjoyed reading all of your feedback and comments. I am also extremely humbled and appreciative of all the love and support you have shown.

#Married2Med has been one heck of a journey with tons of peaks and valleys.

Watching this episode enlightened me. I realized that Simone and I definitely have a different interpretation of what friendship means. Perhaps she is masking the guilt that she SHOULD be feeling for failing me as a friend. But, I'm the one who needs to rebuild her image? Interesting. Maybe Jackie and Simone can take a few pointers on me and Quad's friendship. We truly accept each other without judgement.

I really applaud Jackie on her efforts to bring the group together for the Sour Squeeze. I think next time she tries bringing us together, she should mean that literally. I'm not sure that unity is being promoted when you arrange a gathering that divides the ladies in teams. I can definitely say that it's a problem for one woman to treat her peers as if they're children by scolding their mannerisms and restricting what they can drink. Did I miss the episode where Dr. Jackie, OB/GYN, morphs into Dr. Greg, or better yet Dr. Phil? Maybe she should have started the Lemon Squeeze with the disclaimer: "I'm not a real shrink, I just play one on TV."

371 comments
SHE.
SHE.

Many are happy with the way Mariah put it to the others. Toya throws a drink, but tries to find ways to blame Mariah. Sad how that horse face chic could bite the hand that placed her where she is. I wish Quad would of dug into Toya more being Toya has talked about her terribly from day 1. I hope the chicken heads don't return. I'm so tired of boring Jackie who seeks attn for being mature. There's nothing wrong with standing for your rights and not taking BS.. All the ol hags are jeaous of Mariah, bottomline. Like I said on Disqus, Kari is so jealous of Mariah she had to find a fool to help bring Mariah down n what better fool than horse face Toya. Take Toya back to her flip flops and Bravo please get Jackie, Toya and Kari off the show. Can't stand to see another season of them. Mariah has a wonderful family and can't wait to see their next season.

Swanie
Swanie

I don't see how anybody could take sides with any of these ladies. They all are a disgrace to be associated with the medical profession. Dr. Jackie carries herself somewhat professional and she realizes that these ladies are immature and they are a shame to the medical profession, hence, that's why she deals with them like they are immature. Dr. Simone is somewhat neutral, although, she has the tendency to get a little loose with her mouth at times. But all in all this show portrays a negative image of Black women who represent the industry of medicine.

HugsNKisses
HugsNKisses

Mariah, you, Quad and Dr. Jackie are women I look up to. you are classy, intelligent women that I would be proud for me and my sister to look up to as role models. While you have made mistakes,no one is perfect. What you are doing with letting go of your friendships with Toya and Kari is a great idea. The only problem I see is that they won't be able to let go of you.

SunShineMarae
SunShineMarae

Mariah you and Quad are sad examples of women. You have to feed off one another to say what you want about the other women. You can not stand alone. A real woman is a woman all the time, with her girls or without. You have told secrets about Quad to Kari, now you are mad because Toya told your secret. i was always told if you didn't want something to be repeated, then you are not suppose to repeat. Like your mother Lucy said, you should have never told anyone. You are a woman and you know how women are, and we are catty by nature. You should have kept your big mouth shut about your daughter, so you are the one that put your daughter in harms way. Then you are a liar, you said you did not stop payment on the money for the party, trying to make all the ladies think bad about Kari. You are pitiful. Toya should have beat you down and push you in the pool for touching her. You were completely wrong for bash that party. They should have put you out and had you arrested for acting so stupid and embarrassing your husband. It is sad to see broke women like you and Quad behave the way you do. Your husbands made you what you are. You can't change a ghetto girl into being a fabulous woman. You are not good enough for Aden. he deserves better! Sit down and get a real life and protect your kids by keeping your mouth closed telling the family secrets!

jasminesemone
jasminesemone

I only have one thing to say, Thank you Mariah for sharing the inter-racial relationship of your marriage.  It gives courage for those of us, who desire to live and love Dr's from other countries.  They desire to love us, yet the customs,families, they sometimes get in the way.  You and your husband show us, and Doctors, that there is hope and possibilities to love and live!

AppleJoy
AppleJoy

I apologize for the essay. I frequently have a lot to say and trouble saying it succintly. I did make a second paragraph, but it didn't post that way. In response to your comment about Dr. Jackie's lemon squeeze, I think her efforts were admirable and well-intentioned. I don't see how it's her fault that you and Quad were sitting together. You two came last and sat down next to one another. If she had suggested that you move, that would have been another argument. It's also not her fault that it seems to be you against the rest of the group. I think the behavior of the participants was less than desirable, starting first with your reluctance to drink a non-alcoholic beverage. The comment about Dr. Jackie not being a biological mother was also highly distasteful, followed by Quad's "you're not my mother" statement. Jackie had every right to dictate how her event should proceed as well as to try to maintain order. I understood her frustration when she walked out, since most reality shows, if not all of them, have made a mockery of women. It makes no sense for you to call Kari a liar when she has documentation to prove her statement and you joked with Quad about withdrawing your portion of the fees. It is completely illogical to say that Toya altered the course of your child's life when you're on national television discussing the fact that she was adopted by Ayden. If it were such a big family secret, that information should have stayed in the family. You even admitted that you didn't consider Toya a real friend prior to this incident, so there was no real reason to tell her. Toya also did not tell Lauren herself. She discussed it with another adult in the privacy of her own home. At the end of the day, you are responsible for protecting Lauren, not Toya.

AppleJoy
AppleJoy

I just would like to know if you ever considered the fact that this conversation Toya had with the hairdresser may not have been malicious in intent. Some people love to discuss other people's affairs, especially in certain settings. Beauty salons and barbershops are known as the go-to spots for salacious gossip. If she was in her home as she stated, it is possible that the stylist then went elsewhere with this information. Either way, although this may not have been the most appropriate discussion to have, it is quite possible that it was not discussed in an underhanded or hurtful way. It is even possible that there was some just cause for the conversation such as the stylist wanting to adopt or her significant other adopting her child/children. You and Toya obviously have this person in common for her to even be able to discuss your affairs with someone who would even care, let alone know others with which to share this information who could then share it with you. These are the questions you should ask yourself before assuming that others have some sort of ill will toward you. Having a victim mentality will not ingratiate you to anyone but yourself and select family members or friends. Everyone else could care less, as you have seen. In addition, I applaud your friendship with Quad, but I have to wonder if she asked you the same questions I just did. While we need friends who will support us, we also need those who will tell us the truth and talk us back from the ledge. In this case, you're sister came to you with information about Toya which you both perceived as negative and you further amped each other up, as did your mother. In your televised conversations with Quad, she seemed to immediately accept your view of things without offering an alternative. Maybe I'm the only one who feels this way, but I always like to give a person the benefit of the doubt before assuming the worst. In your rush to believe the worst about Toya, you became violent without even first getting her side of the story. The conversation you had on last nights episode is the one you should have had before the fight took place, not after. She didn't even know why you were upset in the first place, which is a shame and a disgrace. You also could stand to gain some insight regarding your issue with Kari. At the end of the day, you and Toya were wrong to fight at this woman's house and cause her embarrassment as well as property damage. I hope that Quad gives you some sound advice instead of just backing up everything you say.

PureLife
PureLife

I liked you at first, but you've shown yourself to be a liar - a trait that I cannot overlook. I understand that you feel wronged by Toya, and I really don't blame you if you never forgive her. Whatever. But as far as this whole Pay Pal thing with Kari - own up to it! You cancelled payment. She has proof, but you still deny and call her a liar and it really makes you look like a fool. Come on now! 

Sweetnlw
Sweetnlw

Yes maybe the whole world didnt know about it, maybe a few close people knew bout it, but the key word being "close". Friends confide in each other. Thats just what friends do. The fact that you are gona bring this up to a complete stranger was totally malicious vindictive, hateful, entitled... List goes on & on. I mean, of all the topics you can talk about with your hairdresser, why on earth would you feel the need to bring about something that a "close friend" comfided in you about?? I mean, there is so much else to talk about! ... Talk about how you need to get a new weave, or about how that hair color doesn't even suit you, talk about how tacky it looks hence your name tacky Toya, talk about how if you have so much money that you should be able to afford a better looking weave, talk about how you need to learn how to apply your makeup correctly, talk about how you need to go to etiquette class, talk about the weather, yourself, I mean...... Something!. Definitely not that! Let alone a child! Its absolutely none of your business! I mean if you that bored, talk about your own children. (Let he that is without sin cast the first stone). Y'all need to get it together. The worst part of this is that none of the other women xcept for Quad, reached out to Mariah, they totally took Tacky Toya's side regardless of the FACT that she started the fight! she threw the first punch & Mariah was just defending herself! Point blank & the P

Sweetnlw
Sweetnlw

Hey mariah!!! I love you, and keep doing your thing! Dont listen to the negative ppl on YOUR blog!! Oh puleeez people!! Now all of you who are mothers know for damn sure that if you were in Mariahs shoes and your so called friend Tacky Toya was gossiping about your daughter, that you would have reacted in the same exact way or worse so please stop right there & get rid of that holier than thou attitude. The point of the matter is that tacky Toya was malicious in every sense of the word because why would a friend talk to a hairdresser wheather it was in her home or at the salon, venue doesnt really matter, why would she feel the need to tell a complete stranger that Maria's daughter was adopted. Not only that, but when confronted, insted of owning up to it she said oh well every body new about that, so it wasnt a secret!! now if thats not classless, then i dont know what is.

chazzmother
chazzmother

If this was a panel of her peers I see so horrible advise!!! As far as her apologizing she apologized to her husband. That's the only person she owed an apology to. The actions and behavior of everyone else voids their being owed anything. Including Kari. If Kari had have taken the time to find out what happened yes, but throwing Mariah out was more about her being late and being put in her place. If I had a "friend" and she had a fight at my house Id have gotten to the bottom of it. Not thrown my friend out. People confuse Mariah's confident over the top personality with their lack of confidence, because anyone with an ounce of their own wouldn't be effected by it.Mariah is a beautiful woman with imperfections but a genuine person. I feel more genuine than Jackie who is very snobby not refined as she pretends to be and Selina is a pretender not exactly sure which role she wants to play so she's all over the place. Toya is a bully, a liar, instigator and just over all pathetic personality. Quad is a breath of fresh air!!! LOL over the top but a beautiful spirit. She will give you a chance and if you cross the line she will string you up with it!!! Honeyyyyyyyuu

charlie@company
charlie@company

Maraih.....I just hope that you & Aiden know that there are a catalog of children's  books that are available to help them understand the meaning of adoption & I would highly recommend "The Tapestry Collection"!!!!

charlie@company
charlie@company

Mariah......w/the exception of Dr. Jackie & Dr. Simone......this show.....like all the other reality shows on Bravo & other cable networks......is just about another group of immature, insecure, & caddy women tearing each other down & competing to see who can dig-up the most dirt on the other!!!

 

And after watching your husband's immature behavior w/the other husbands on tonight's episode........I see why he married you!!!! The man has no common sense & is socially inept, & now we all know who wears the pants in this marriage!!! Toya's husband, Eugene, is obviously much younger.......but clearly sooooo much wiser & more mature than Aiden!!! 

Ittbittit
Ittbittit

Mariah, You, Quad, Toya and Kenya belong on basketball wives. Your demeanor, approach to disagreements and your total inability to conduct yourselves appropriately in social situation when you have those disagreements, says to me you belong on that show. Money can't buy you class...and you guys are NEW money...AND the way you spend it, it will never be old money.

mimi610
mimi610

Mariah you have done nothing wrong..Your a mother and your their to protect ur children..I feel it wasnt Toya's place to mention that to anybody...I far as I can see the only one that keeps it REAL is Quad shes a friend..the rest are FAKE so  just smile and keep it moving Mariah..Toya is just plan  jeolous. Mariah you and your husband and your pretty family keep doin yah thang...Mariah and Quad # 1 on the show...

HousewivesRealFan13
HousewivesRealFan13

Go Meriah!  The last 5 posts sound just like Kari and that Tacky Toya!  I love you and Quad!  As for Toya, she threw the first punch! 

 

Love you, those kids, and Ayden!  You go girl!

luvemtall415
luvemtall415

Mariah I think that your mother is going to talk you right out of your marriage.. I do not know her but from what I have seen she is way to invested in your household, and when you start taking in advice you better make sure your next move is worth your happiness.

monicahansard
monicahansard

Seems to me your the one that put it out there about your daughter for all the world to see.. no one would have never known your secret if you wouldnt have let it be shown, so what are you upset for you have no one to blame but YOU, and than you have dumb ole Quad co signing everything you say, damn move on girl get over it and quit running your mouth.  I guess your just mad because someone besides yourself was talking about it you wanted to be the only one, quit running your mouth if you didnt want your daughter to know 

MsGaPeach
MsGaPeach

Mariah....you are a representation of what you don't want to act like as a black woman.  I really don't buy the family secret thing....you don't seem secretive about anything.  Fighting is not an answer to anything especially when you are older.  In addition, anyone can look at your daughter and see that he is not her biological child.  That is not a bad thing....be thankful you found someone willing to raise her.  Real professional women know that you don't call people you might eat dinner with, or go to lunch with people that you would share so called family secrets with.  You were also very disrepectful to Dr. Jackie.  She is truly a classy woman who does not take her cues from her bank account.  If you are from the hood, take does experiences, embrace them and leave them where they belong....in your past.  Not be be ashamed of it but to only use it as a learning experience.  I see that you have developed a friendship with Quad but I am really afraid for her being a friend to you!  I don't trust you girl....   

PRINCESSLY7
PRINCESSLY7

Mariah you are the bomb! Stay Away from wanna be Toya, Old Sea Hag Kari, Buck Tooth Simone, and The Almighty Judge Judy! You and Quad need your own show! Love ya'll

MJNP
MJNP

You are perhaps one of the most ridiculous women that I have ever seen on reality TV.  FIrst of all, you act like you are above everyone else just because you are married to an ER physician...and I assure you that does not change the fact that you are trash.  You knew going into this show that your daughter is not your husband's biological child, and anyone who views the show can see that she isn't ...so what's the big secret.  I'm just trying to figure out how such a loud mouth, disrespectful woman ended up with a man that would be honorable enough to take on you and your child.  It completely baffles me to say the least. As far as your little jabs at other people like Dr. Jackie about her lack of empathy because she has never given birth to a child, I can assure you that the ability to give birth does not make someone a good mother...and you seem to be case in point.  You were wrong to have told your daughter on the way to the Halloween party that she was not wanted at the Harris' party...that was something you should have kept to yourself, besides it wasn't the kids that were not wanted there.  And then you continued to use your daughter at the puppy party to get your point across...shame on you.  I'm also trying to figure out why at the lingerie store you commented that if you didn't make your husband happy, he would end up at home with a nurse....are you speaking from experience? I'm sure he could do much better than you nurse or maybe even a stripper...just saying. 

kosven
kosven

Well said! I think the outcome of the Lemon Squeeze would have been better if it hadn't seemed so divisive in the first place. Everyone has different ways of working out disagreements and this just might not have been the best way to handle it.

larrydean
larrydean

You are right! While it seemed there were good intentions going into the Lemon Squeeze, it's unfortunate that nothing really beneficial came out of it.

Whoa
Whoa

Love it! You are why people watch this show. Its the Mariah show. Bravo knows it! Your cast members act like they knew it from the beginning because boy was they hating early on. Thats what made us all love you, all the hate coming your way from people who were suppose to be your friends, they made themselves look so ugly.

reeny26
reeny26

Mariah, you are no queen b. you all are trying too hard. I think this how should be cancelled. all you do is feed into the stereotype that black women don't know how to act. I am embarrassed to see sisters behaving like this, especially those who have kids and are married to these professionals. I hope ten years from now when you all have time to reflect you will see that this is no way for grown women to act. cancel the show and to you bravo its time you stop exploiting us black women. shame on you

Whatnow
Whatnow

Your real issue with Toya is that the other women (other than Quad) prefer Toya's company over yours. What you are really angry about (afraid of) is that in your mind,Toya is going to dethrone you from your self imposed "queen B" status. You talk about how you brought Toya and Kari into this circle and you can block them out, etc. ect., but the truth is that you have alienated yourself from the group with your lies, violent and manipulative behavior.

DariusMommie
DariusMommie

I don't know if its hubris, narcissism or delusion that would cause a person to make a total spectical of themselves, much less their entire family. But, it's obvious that you do. Maybe you think money exempts you from having class and grace. Southern women are backwards and they are legions behind northern women in the areas of social graces. I thank my mother for leaving South Carolina and moving up north when she did. There but for the grace of God go I.

kabin7
kabin7

I love the pearls of wisdom that can be found in good quotes:

 

Great minds talk about ideas. Average minds talk about events. Small minds talk about other people"  Eleanor Roosevelt

 

"Violence is a tool of the ignorant"  Flip Wilson

 

There is just one cast member who has any real dignity, civility, and respect for others, demonstrates any depth of character.

 

The rest of the cast should find a hoard of barbarians because they do not know how to behave in civilized society.  I would feel humiliated if I gossiped, insulted, and abused people verbally or physically in private, let alone in public.

 

They may have wealth and superficial trappings but they are impoverished of any worthwhile human values.

 

I'll leave now, to continue developing in my children the traits of compassion, respect, fairness, and behavior management - maliciousness, aggression, and deceit have no place in my presence.

ralph12
ralph12

I think I remember in the first episode you mentioning that your daughter was adopted by your husband so why then allo of a sudden is it a big secret when Toya said it somewhere in the 3rd episode before you go around telling family secrets maybe you should have told your daughter first. I'm sure your husband is a great dad to her and she is lucky to have someone like him in her life. It was your fault that this all came about because you opened your big mouth. You think you're a Queen B but that is not a good thing most Queen B's are shallow self-centered people. Oh! maybe you are right you are a Queen B.

woody2011
woody2011

 "The things she HAVE done to me, I would never do to another person." 

I keep seeing that clip on TV. It's "HAS done."

Barbarajean
Barbarajean

Do you ever tell the truth about anything. Plain as day you started the fight. If you didn't want your daughter to know that she was adopted, why would you tell anyone else and then expect them to keep it a secret. You are a disgrace to all those women that are trying to better themselves. You took yourself back to the gutter and now it might be hard to pull yourself up again.

charnorm
charnorm

Marriah, I just read your blog and I am disappointed, not because of you being who you truly are. But because you are not addressing your part in all of this. I just got off writing comments on the others women's blog supporting you and not Toya, now you need to find a pair of big girl panties and step up and own your part in this. Dr. Jackie's efforts were innocent I belive, she had the event set up to avoid a possible fight. So I think you should not make that an issue, but you should think about the comment you made to her. She has had battles you have not had, and that is her health. People may not know the best way to facilitate a disagreement, especially with women but Dr. Jackie did try. I hope you do apologize to her for the comment you made to her about motherhood. That was cruel, and hope you did not really mean to hurt her. If you did, then you are not the woman I think you might be. Show these women that you have class and integrity. Yes, I afraid you do need to show that you are a bigger person.

alma13
alma13

Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers out there.

WhyBother
WhyBother

You are the most disrespectful woman on any of the reality shows.  You keep blaming Toya for the fight. Understand something: A real lady handles those who have wronged by staying calm, and keeping cool while checking the wrongdoer.  You went ghetto with Toya, proving you are no better than she is.  Even if Kari threw you out of her house after the fight, it does not negate your obligation to apologize to her for the mayhem at her party, irrespective of who started it, because you and your mom were part of it. You were in it.  It's unbelievable to see how you do not hold yourself accountable at all.  Shameful.  Then, you use your daughter at the puppy party to try to get at Toya again.  Who does that?  A self-centered, egotistical person.   You give Jackie no credit for trying to get the women to reach a better place.  You dissed her for no other reason than your inability to take responsibility for your part in  the mayhem.  If you had acknowledge your contribution to the fight, and expressed your feelings of being hurt and betrayed by Toya's running mouth, you would have handled that situation like any lady should, with dignity, poise and self-control.  Instead, you run your mouth about Jackie not being able to understand anything because she never gave birth.  Wow.  What a slanted and hurtful interpretation of motherhood. 

trudee
trudee

You have to admit that you made your entrance to the party with a serious attitude problem, you and your mama. It's that same nasty passive/aggressive tone as BONJOUR OIU OIU!  I get it, you and your moma Lucy were both upset because of what your sister told you about Toya (nice timing sis!)  But you really can't blame Toya for approaching you at the party and wanting an explanation.  Especially after Lucy went off on her, criticizing the party decor for not being up to her standards and how neither Toya nor Simone gave your party complements.  Gosh, even Dr. Simone found her hard to take!  And that face your mama makes, like she's smelling something foul, I've even seen you make it at times..It's NOT becoming, no matter how dressed up you get.  Admit it.  You lost it girl.  You went there.  By taking no responsibility makes you only look worse.  You, the wife who repeatedly talks about class seems to show the least.  And how did a party that was to be put on by two women for their husbands morph into a party honoring you and your husband? Get some help and free yourself from all that anger that's just below the surface causing all of this erratic behavior.  You owe it to your husband and kids and any friends you might have left.

Mikez
Mikez

Mariah,

 

You have proven to me that you are a bad person.  You have never owned up to any of your actions.  Why did you let your sister speak out about your daughter?  She was wrong to do that. You never apologized to Kari and you never paid for the damages.  You fought at her house and made a fool out of yourself and your husband. How can you speak badly about others with all of the things you have done.  You need to own up to your actions and grow the F up.  I do not trust you because you have lied to much. Every time I hear you say mean things about all of the ladies, I just think you are jealous. I feel so sorry for your child having a mother like you, who will stop at nothing to advance her career. 

 

You are such a bad liar.  Like you say Mariah "when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time" 

Vigdis
Vigdis

I used to like you but now I´m not so sure.  Why can´t you say you are sorry?

It´s never about what it´s about Mariha.  If that secret about your lovely daughter was that serious why on earth did you go and tell that stupid woman Toya about it?

Go change the myth about woman never being able to be nice to one another.  Say sorry to the lot.

It´s gonna make them happy and give you the upper hand.

Enough already. 

 

Karlosmonty
Karlosmonty

Mariah,  I have watched you from the start and you have made many mistakes.  You seem jealous of some of the ladies.  You need to act your age and clean up your act.  I find it hard to see you as a producer. Stop using your daughters adoption to get ratings.  It has become far too obvious every time you and your family keep mentioning it. If you wanted to protect her you would have kept your mouth shut.  Your sister is the worst of all. 

hlgraham1016
hlgraham1016

MARIAH, I GOT TO GO FROM START TO FINISH TOYA IS JEALOUS BECAUSE YOU HAVE A BEAUTIFUL HOME AND SHE IS IN COMPETITION WITH YOU. SHE IS NOT SATISFIED WITH THE BIG NICE HOUSE SHE HAVE SO SHE WANT ONE BETTER THAN YOU. JEALOUSY IS CRUELER THAN THE GRAVE. THE DOCTORS SIMMONE AND JACKIE IS JEALOUS BECAUSE THEY HAD TO BUILD THEIR WAY UP THE LADDER AND A LOT OF WOMEN WHO ARE SUCCESSFUL AND HAD A HARD TIME GETTING THERE TEND TO HATE ON THOSE WHO DID NOT HAVE TO GO THROUGH AS MUCH TO GET IT. AND THEY WONDER WHY AND HOW YOU GOT WHAT YOU GOT LIKE YOU DONT DESERVE IT. MAYBE THEY NEED TO READ THEIR BIBLES IT IS CALLED FAVOR. MRS. SCARY KARI JUST THINK YOU ALL IS GHETTO AND REALLY THINK SHE IS BETTER THAN EVERONE ELSE, LORD KNOWS I WANT TO SAY THINGS ABOUT HER BUT I WONT DO. BUT KARI BEFORE YOU CALL SOMEONE ELSE LOW CLASS SWEEP OUT YOUR OWN BACK DOOR. QUAD IS A TRUE FRIEND TO THE END, AND AS YOU CAN SEE THEY ARE HARD TO FIND.

Whatnow
Whatnow

You and your cohort, Quad, were laughing about how you cancelled payment for the party. Then, when you were confronted by Kari, you accused her of being a liar and denied you cancelled payment. You have lost your credibility. At this point, no one can believe anything you say.

Whatnow
Whatnow

If you are so concerned about your child, why did you put her in the inappropriate position of having to confront Toya at Quad's charity event? At this point, you have lost all credibility. You have shown yourself to be lying and manipulating. Your husband is a sad shell of a man. He sits there and nods his head while you spout off your rationalization s. He is unwilling to hold you accountable for your reprehensible behavior. Your husband sat there smirking, while you denied hitting your children. It is obvious that you use physical violence to solve your problems. There is no doubt in my mind that you would hit your children, like your husband stated, yet you denied. 

EjadeS
EjadeS

I do not believe a word that comes out of your mouth! I don't believe you paid Kari, I believe that you withdrew or disputed your payment thru Paypal. I do believe that Ayden not being Lauren's bio dad was common knowledge. Toya never spoke badly about your daughter. You have shown that you will fight in front of your husbands co-workers & at a nice, fancy party. You have shown not to have your daughter's best interest when you were at the puppy party & told your daughter to ask Toya why she couldn't come to the Halloween party. You are damaging your child & your family. Shame on you for the way you spoke to Dr. Jackie & for everything else! YOU ARE IN DENIAL!

GRANNAKAT
GRANNAKAT

 @SunShineMarae

 I totally AGREE, these men may have taken these woman out of the ghetto but they can't get the ghetto out of these woman. Mariah should be more ashamed of her lack of example for her children on how to solve a problem responsibly. And I can't emphasize enough how IGNORANT it was to drag that poor baby girl into the problem, first by telling her children that they were uninvited, when it was because of her behavior. And again by pitting her innocent 8 yr old daughter against an adult, especially one she cares about. Explain that to her when she grows up!! You can lie to your own child about her paternity you can lie about ANYTHING to fit YOUR PHONY MOLD.... CATCH THAT!!

HugsNKisses
HugsNKisses

 @SunShineMarae Sad examples of women. I think not. The on;ly thing I agree with is that secrets should stay secrets. The rest of the crap you are saying sounds like Kari or Toya paid you to write it. Mariah and Quad are outstanding examples of women. they are entertaining, friendly, and love their families. Yes women are catty, but I have not see Quad or Mariah search for disorders or googles someones name on mugshots.com just to make them look bad. If anyone is a poor example of a woman, it's conniving Kari. Here'a an great example of a disorder pathological liar Toya and Simone. As a doctor I expect so much more from her.

HugsNKisses
HugsNKisses

 @PureLife If you all had truly listened instead of taking words here and there, you'd realize she said she stopped payment on the $300 check,the party and set up was way more than $300. She was put out of the party that she was co-hosting. I knew when I came on here that women would gravitate towards Kari and Toya because a lot of women like messy women. I had hope though, that I would see great comments, uplifting comments. Sad to see I was right.

theguru2013
theguru2013

 @Sweetnlw Quad -Loves me some her all the way.  She's straight 100; not a 50 BIT3H.  (whew, done caused me to put it on the shelf..... can't stand gossipers -why would you be discussing your friend's bizz w/ your hairdresser????? ~elephant in the room anyone)  -The Guru

Tazeda
Tazeda

Criticism should be like rain to a flower, nourish, not destroy.  Some of the commnets on here are just outright dissapointing and really says more about the person writing the comment than the person they are writing about. 

 

Key points to remember:

1. Toya said in her interview that she just had to confront Mariah.  So, she approached Mariah with ill intent.

2. Toya admitted that she told her hairdresser in the privacy of her own home.  So, how how did she know everyone already knew about the child?  Which is it you only mentioned it to your hairdresser or did you mention it in the company of others?

3. Did you catch when Toya mentioned that she and her mother had issued and that the situation between her and Mariah took her back to that place which is why she threw the glass? 

4. None of the other women, besides Mariah, Toya and Quad, have commented on the fight after seeing for themseleves what happened.  I'm thinking it's because they too see it didn't happen the way Toya lead them to believe.

 

Yes Mariah reacted, yes Mariah should have walked away, but by no means deserves to be called trash or anything of the sort.  Class can be demonstrated by verbal,non-verbal and written communication......just saying.

 

iadorebravo
iadorebravo

 @Whatnowomg THIS! I don't understand how Mariah thinks it is OK to use her child as a pawn?? Whatever happened to protecting your own child?? It seems like Mariah wants everyone to do this except herself. I think Mariah straight up playing her own child on tv is why she didn't post last week. She didn't want to deal with the heat b/c it was so clear that Mariah was completely out of pocket.

 

And you're onto something about lack of accountability in the family. Just a sad to watch all around.

PureLife
PureLife

 @HugsNKisses 

 

Just because someone thinks Mariah is a dud doesn't mean they are team Kari or Toya. I personally don't think ANY of the MRS's on this show are likable. They are all "messy women" as you put it.