Ashlee White

Ashlee elaborates on her awkward moment at her sleepover.

on Jul 21, 20130

 

Hi, everyone! Welcome back this week. So much happened in this episode, and once again, there were lots of highs and lows for me. Some of it is fun to re-live and watch (Ashley’s wedding) and some of it is painful (ummm date with Marcos). 

All drama involving friends weighs heavily on my heart, so I immediately wanted to clear the air with Amanda at the sleepover. It wasn’t an interrogation. I felt I owed it to her to hear what she had to say about the situation, and it was all still so fresh -- my meeting with Joey had been just the day before. I take friendship seriously and wanted to hear her side because we are friends, and Amanda had every right to know what Joey told me.

In general, I’m protective, almost motherly, with my friends. If I see my friends upset after being repeatedly hurt by the same person, of course I’m going to advise keeping a distance. With the Joey situation, I I did vent to Amanda about the things that Joey has done to me. I have been hurt and in tears on numerous occasions, so I’m not going to pretend that I think Joey is a good friend to have around. All I ever wanted when I discussed Joey with Amanda was to protect her! Sometimes it’s the people with the biggest hearts that get hurt and walked all over. But, this is who I am. I’m fiercely loyal to anyone I believe to be a true friend in my life. I’ve gotten hurt in the past for standing up so strongly when it comes to matters with the people I love, but I will continue to take that risk because that’s just who I am. 

On to more awkward topics… I can’t help that I think some things are private. I’m really old school when it comes to talking about sex. I just really believe in respect and privacy on the whole matter. If being respectful makes me uptight, then I guess Amanda will just have to get over that. Honestly, it’s a little weird that she even cares so much. If I want someone to know me sexually they will -- otherwise it’s just really not anyone else’s business. That’s just the way I am. Sorry.

128 comments
Alia24
Alia24

Omg did you have screw off tops on your wine???? Now I'm sure if someone came over with a bottle of wine with a screw off top you would have some rude "poor people" remark. People are judging you hard because that's all you do.....judge people in a negative way!

ocorangefan099
ocorangefan099

You're crazy you started the talking about Joey first by putting down her neighborhood.  And you did what you're accusing Joey of doing by going to your friends and trying to bring them in this mess (you created) and trying to have them take your side and bad mouthing Joey. Not surprised you haven;t blogged you shouldn't anymore . You have done and said enough to make you like selfish, conceded, stuck up and childish.

sjivey
sjivey

Tell the truth White Trash

RHVB
RHVB

You are a 30 year old virgin that lives with your parents........how sad. At 30, I was married, owned a house, had a child and a college degree and a career. Ashlee, seriously, get some help. Joey's Dad is the only one with sense, making his daughter grow up!

housewifeforreal4
housewifeforreal4

Infantile! Insecure, needy, clingy, snobbish and definitely, NOT A GOOD PERSON. Plus, you just plain crazzeeee....

PTAtrendsetter
PTAtrendsetter

You should go far away from this show to island of poor people who mix their cheeses! You are such a weird, mean person. Joey is 100% right about you!

kh41
kh41

I love all of these comments and hope that Ashley pays attention.....I've never seen a more disgraceful person on T.V. She deserves each and every negative comment posted about her on this blog and others. I didn't even have to say how I feel because everyone has said it all.

viewerfromwayback
viewerfromwayback

 I have never seen so many negative comments before directed to one person.  I honestly hope her parents realize that by sheltering Ashley like this they have actually hurt her deeply.  Yes, she is "quite a mess" but hopefully with therapy she can understand that the way she is acting is simply not normal in any way, shape or form.  Her parents probably meant well but they have done her a giant disservice.  hopefully she will read these and get hlep but unfortunately most people can not see their own faults.  She will think all of us bloggers are "jealous" of her and misunderstand that some of us really do feel very sorry for her even though she comes off as very unlikeable

 

walesgirl
walesgirl

Start the process of growing up by blogging and explaining yourself.  This is your job after all. You should apologize but if you don't think you should, at least be woman enough to say that.  BTW, I think short hair would be much cuter on you. 

jmperf
jmperf

I just have one question.  You say "I’m attracted to successful, ambitious men that are passionate about their careers because it says a lot about them as a person".  So what does it say about you that you are not successful, ambitious or have any type of career?!?!  What kind of man would be attracted to a 30 year old who calls daddy to steam broccoli in the microwave, send her a jet for a 90 min drive, etc. 

 

I think it is time you do some soul searching and worry less about your soles (shoes) and more about who you are.  You are overly concerned with such materialistic things.

sharonli
sharonli

For the first time ever I'm almost embarrassed to say I live in Roslyn.

alarmed31
alarmed31

Ashlee is astonishingly juvenile and delusional.  Really, she's the worst case of awful I've ever seen on reality TV, and I've seen a lot of it. Sadly, I'm sure she has managed to convince herself (with her parents' help) that she's been misunderstood by her viewing public. I do have to thank her, though, for the "Help... help me!" scene on the phone with her mom. I laughed at that harder than I have anything in a really long time. 

 

BratsAnnoyMe
BratsAnnoyMe

Ashlee, it isn't so classy and very much tacky to say things like 'poor people do this, rich people would never do that". 

 

Also I'd like to say your Corell dishes are sold in K-mart and Walmart so at which one did your mom or dad purchase them at?

espistar
espistar

You're belief in your own victimhood is the stuff of legends. You should really do some soul searching because the way you treat people is terrible. Your behavior and attitude is very off-putting to the viewers. Perhaps in your blogs you should be a little bit more reflective and own some of your negative behavior. Humility is a positive quality. Showing  some humility may help to endear you to the viewers because right now all we've seen is a negative, spoiled, bratty, self-entitled snob and that's not attractive or likable.

jtrzupek
jtrzupek

Ashlee - you add a lot of color to the show!  The best line of the week was your mom telling you that all the girls are jealous of you and that is why they were yelling at you.  Oh gosh, that was funny.  You are definitely entertaining.  I have to shake my head at all the drama, family dynamics and ridiculousness that goes on, but it makes the show fun to watch!   I laugh through most of it!  

secretbravofan
secretbravofan

How old are you? Its not cool to still be breastfeeding at the age of 5.

makeuplover
makeuplover

I stopped watching the show for a while because I found it was really kind of sad and really negative and made me not feel so great. I tuned in today and I am so disgusted by your behavior. you even kind of look like a little devil person when you spew those ugly comments and manipulate everyone around you. I had a friend like you once when I was in my twenties. She was and still is every bit as manipulative and narcissistic as you are. I can't imagine she is happy and I can't imagine you are either. She married some rich old man and I am sure she has every hand bag she ever wanted- wait -no actually when you live like that you always want the newest next handbag. This is not a healthy way to live. So many people posted comments that say so many of the thoughts going through my head as I watched the show. It's really very tragic. Joey and Amanda have a realistic and optimistic way of thinking. You might take a few ques about life from them!

bamadoll33
bamadoll33

Are you serious? For real... Are you serious this week? And are you really 30? I hope it's a joke and you are really just 15 years old bc girl... You are a disgrace for all women. I hope you watch these shows and learn how disgusting you look and how childish you really are. It's downright pathetic watching you. The first one or two episodes I could tolerate you, but after weeks of watching you brag about being a spoiled, lazy, worthless child that lives to spend daddy's money and meet your prince charming, I am ready to puke. You treat Joey like a rag doll you can drag though the mud, but when the kitchen gets hot, you can't handle the heat! You throw out insult after insult, tell her your friends aren't her friends,constantly trash her behind her back, and when she says she doesn't want to talk to you, you choose to bring her mom into the fight... Disgusting!!! Truly disgusting!!! Let me tell ya honey, you are in for a rude awakening. You expect a real man to put up with your babyish ways.... Wake up moron!!! Instead of insulting Joey, you should take some pointers from her work ethic. She has goals, and her daddy doesn't save her from herself. She is a WOMAN and what the heck are you??? I am still wondering myself. How are you friends with Chanel and Casey? They are good human beings.... You are a waste of space. GROW UP!!! You annoy me and make me wanna vomit just by hearing your voice. I hope your daddy stops sugar coding his thoughts and finally tells you how worthless you really are. That's honestly what you need, a wake up call because honey, don't dish it if you can't take it! You really cried and called mommy??? Holy crap! Such a joke. That's what you are honey... A joke. A waste of space. A nobody that will have a sad existence if you don't get off your lazy you know what and change your disgusting ways. Get a job! Quit talking smack if you can't handle it being thrown back in your face! Sad, sad, worthless human.... Truly sad. I bet you are in tears sitting in mommy's lap as we speak. You are so ugly on the inside. Truly hideous soul, and I feel so sorry for you. You will have a tough life if you remain this way.

Danceluv21
Danceluv21

 What would you be able to afford without the support of your parents? It is so frustrating to see a 30 year old woman crying about someone making a comment about her and being unable to navigate these issues on your own. You have no job, no romantic relationship, and it appears like no education. Of course you need to fill your life with these petty arguments, because as it stands, your life is empty. You are actually the only one that has said truly mean and hurtful things about another person. You are insecure, shallow, elitist, and desperate for a man who will be able to support you. Pathetic. Your parents seem like sweet people, but they have raised you so that you are entitled, and unable to make it on your own or provide for yourself the lifestyle that you were afforded growing up. Hopefully you will learn from this experience and grow to be a better person. If you watch the show, you will see that you are the only one saying how great you are.....if this were true, you wouldn't need to compliment yourself every 2 min... You would hear it from other people- other people besides your parents that is......

Milford
Milford

I usually never post on these sites, but Ashlee you are the most self centered, spoiled person I have ever met.  You are just as guilty as Joey in this situation and are too much of a child to take responsibility for the comments you have made.  You are the mean person.  Grow up and take responsibility for your actions.

Demi-Tz
Demi-Tz

Ashlee - you are a disgrace!

Rain_Dropz_7
Rain_Dropz_7

Ashlee, you have serious issues! I'm not surprised that you haven't posted a blog yet on this past episode. You should be ashamed of yourself! You are pathetic. The comments you've made about "poor" people...really? Please! And the relationship you have with your parents is not healthy at all. I think all parents probably spoil their children to some extent, however, your parents have done you a complete disservice. You're 30 years old, and you have absolutely no idea how to even navigate in the real world. NO MAN will ever want you. Grow up, go get a job, move out on your own, and stop being such a whiny, self-absorbed brat!

1tuf1
1tuf1

 I am a registered  family counselor and the mother of 3 girls.  I am begging you Ashlee to get help now!!  You are one of the most poorly raised women(hard to use that word) that I have ever seen.  Your parents are so incredibly dysfunctional and they have raised you to be so out of touch with reality that I am afraid for you.  You are spoiled, erratic, prejudice, judgemental and shallow.  None of this has anything to do with any range of income or social status, even the wealthiest of people can be down right warped yet wrapped in LV and BMW wrapping paper and I'm afraid my dear you are.  I don't see any healthy relationships in your near future until you get a grip on a true and scensible definition of the real world.  Your relationship with your dad is so very, very inappropriate, one can be very close with their parents yet still have it be appropriate yet yours is most definitely not!  What are you ever going to do without them? When that time comes, wouldn't you like to have a partner and a family of your own so you are more of a whole person rather than just a child in a 30 year olds body.  Get help Ashlee before it is too late every episode is getting worse and people are laughing at you and not with you!

SanityLost
SanityLost

Ashlee, you should be ashamed of yourself! You're the most dishonest, disrespectful, selfish, narcissistic, immature, spoiled rotten, twit I've ever seen on T.V. To think that this is truly how you are in real life is astonishing. What is not astonishing is the fact that you're a 30 year old woman, living off of your parents and single. No self respecting person would want a lazy, delusional, liar as a life partner. Joey is a smart, fun, sweet, caring, hardworking and GOOD person. Stop projecting your own issues on this girl. You, not Joey, are the true Not Nice Person. Own it. That title is something that you earned....all on your own!

bcscards
bcscards

Ashlee you are a spoiled little BRAT (at 30)...your parents are doing you more harm by treating you like a baby.  Grow up and quit acting like you are always the victim because you are not. You start everything and maybe that is why Erica didn't really want to tell you the truth because you would just play the victim and have Daddy come running in to save you...GROW UP and act your age...

realhousewifeNS
realhousewifeNS

You're a bad person. Like it? Cause you are the worst kind of woman. I kind of doubt you'll ever find a man who actually loves you because let's face it; you have a lot of odds against you and really none working for you aside from your parents' money. Even pretty girl can't get away with acting as entitled and bitchy as you.

5209971
5209971

Bravo. I hope you are reading all these comments about Ashley get rid of her.

jcharlse
jcharlse

you are DISGUSTING. painful to watch. #teamanyoneBUTyou

dinadanieli
dinadanieli

Wow, I too am not surprised Ashlee has not posted after this weeks episode. She must be hiding due to her own horrible behavior. Ashlee, YOU ARE NOT A GOOD PERSON.....get it? I said it loud and clear. It is so very obvious that the only thing that you are upset about is that Joey said "Funny Looking", sorry, but did that hit a huge nerve, kind of like the truth slapping you in the face???? Really, you are not nice, you are also the most immature 30-31 year old I have ever seen. You run to your parents with the smallest of problems, GROW UP!!!! You need to get down off your wedge heels and take a long long look at yourself. You can consider yourself forever single, living with your parents, the last episode put the nail in the coffin for you, no man will ever come calling not EVER!!!

 

Herbs208
Herbs208

Clearly YOU are the one who manipulates your friends and twists things around. Joey is 10 times the person you are and you could learn a thing or two from her. If I were you I would write a very sincere apology in your next blog to Joey and all of your friends for being such a disgusting human being. Your parents should be ashamed of themselves for condoning your behavior. If anyone is trash my dear it is you not Joey!

lislaw
lislaw

If you ever left your little bubble and became a little worldly you might see you aren't rich. See how the rest of us live and maybe you will see how uneducated you sound with your ridiculous comments. The stuff that comes out of your mouth i would expect from a 15 year old. When I read you are 30 then i just felt sorry for you. Your parents have done you a real disservice!

lbrizzle917
lbrizzle917

Wow Ashlee...not surprised you haven't posted a blog on this week's episode yet!!  You are one of the most selfish, immature, manipulative people I have ever seen on television.  I cannot believe how you tried to pit all your friends against Joey and then still played the victim in the end!   Not to mention poor Chanel was trying to stick with you and then you ended up giving her the slip and leaving her alone.  Your parents have enabled and probably rewarded your strange behavior over the course of your lifetime and now this is how you end up at 30!  You will end up with no friends, and certainly will never find a man that will find your behavior as cute and entertaining as your parents do.  You are pathetic!! 

bravohautie
bravohautie

I know plenty of people who have been incredibly spoiled by their parents but these same parents push their kids to succeed and excel at life.Your parents seem like decent people but they have done you a HUGE disservice. Girlfriend you have shown that you can not navigate the real world without being ugly and manipulative. Hopefully you realize what a shallow joke you come off looking like and make some life changes because you really need to make some improvements. You show that you really have the capacity of a 12 year old, wannabe mean girl and your sidekick Casey is lucky she's a cute girl because her unhappiness and insecurity shines through  

Onaille
Onaille

You seem to think you're always the victim.  I think you need to grow up and stand on your own two feet.  You act like you're still in high school.  You're the (I pretend I like you so when you do something wrong, I will get everyone to hate you) girl.  It's no wonder you are still single.

zaracki
zaracki

YOU need serious THERAPY!!!

Mory
Mory

You need a thicker skin, you should have known what you were signing up for. You have a very sick and distorted relationship with your father and your mother. It's time to grow up, get a job and move out. Go get laid already, if anyone ever needed it its you.

1tuf1
1tuf1

Chanel- I tried to post this on your blog but noticed you don't have one- probably a smart thing.  SAVE YOURSELF-  you seem like a smart, ambitious, beautiful girl from a great loving healthy family, your friendship with Ashlee is bringing you down.  I'm  not usually a believer in "you are the company you keep" but in this case it is ringing true.  Ashlee calling you her best friend is such an awful connection, anyone watching is wondering-  what are you thinking?  including any future suiters.

Silly2121
Silly2121

Ashley, I really hope you grow up. I've been watching Bravo for years, all shows, all seasons. I have never been so disgusted at someone's manipulative behavior as I was watching you. Your are so incredibly twisted and mean. Every single thing you call Joey is actually a representation of yourself. I don't know how you have friends. Grow up and start by admitting to yourself you are not being nice, honest, and compassionate. Once you do that I'm sure you will find a great man.

ParkerStratton
ParkerStratton

Ashlee please come down to earth.  You present yourself  as a princess but let's face it.  You had a party in a strip mall, you live in a typical Long Island house (nothing special), you can't open a botle of wine, you wont spend a night in a house by yourself, you call your daddy every chance you get (FYI nobody over 12 should call their father "Daddy" just sayin).  I've never seen someone soooo conceded who has absolutely nothing to be conceded about

CGM1970
CGM1970

You need to grow up. 

lindsj91
lindsj91

I really don't see a husband in your future if you can't become somewhat independent.  Your parents have really done you a disservice by making you so dependent on them.  At the age of 30 you should at least be able to provide for yourself and live on your own financially and emotionally.  Most men are looking for a partner in life not someone who is not capable of caring for themselves.  Your selfishness is a characteristic of your upbringing.  It's a shame you have been so spoiled, but it's not too late to turn your life around.  Get out there, find a career, become passionate about something other than finding a husband.  

Alia24
Alia24

@BratsAnnoyMe I bet on sale at the dollar store

marcisue
marcisue

 @bamadoll33 She is not a waste of space or worthless. You on the other hand are mean spirited and evil. I guess it's easy to cut someone down on the computer. You're a total bully. Maybe get a life so you don't have to tear someone down when they're already down. Maybe take a good look into your own soul.

numee3
numee3

@lbrizzle917 No blog this week........not surprised at all! Hope she's doing some soul searching in the meantime.

realhousewifeNS
realhousewifeNS

@lbrizzle917 I totally came here to say all of that. Even if she does blog about this episode, I doubt she'll admit any wrong doing. I've never been so disgusted by someone's behavior, and I watch RHNew Jersey! Acting like such an entitled beast (like making comments under her breath and nasty faces all day towards Joey and then acting like every comment or action towards end is completely unprovoked) is a total product of her parents, that became abundantly clear when she was on the phone with her mom "everyone's jealous of you"? Come on. No one is jealous of her. I honestly feel bad for her, so much money yet nothing to offer the world.

Glimmer88
Glimmer88

@ParkerStratton you mean CONCEITED --and you're right--she has NOTHING to be conceited about. She makes fun of poor people, the neighborhood Joey lives in, amongst other things, but she can't take it when someone points out her flaws, of which there are many..... I hope this show makes her take a good long look at her and how people see her. Maybe itll be the best thing that could've happened to her weird ass.

Glimmer88
Glimmer88

@ParkerStratton you mean CONCEITED

bravo-tv-viewer
bravo-tv-viewer

 @lindsj91 Or spending her Daddy's money on shoes, clothes and handbags. It must be so boring to be so self-centered.

 

sjivey
sjivey

 @bravo-tv-viewer  @lindsj91 She cant even snag a man offering money her dad said she needs to marry a man with lots of money to get her off his payroll..(something like that)