Hey Shahs lovers, sorry for not blogging last week. I was a bit too pissed off from being excluded from the trip to Mexico by my so called "friends" that I didn't want to only write about being disappointed and sad.
OK so here we go. . .
This was a very exciting episode for me because I had the launch of my company GG's Extensions!!! But I can't lie to y'all because I was a nervous wreck trying to put this event together. I spent lots of time organizing this event and making sure every last detail was set. So you can only understand how frustrated I was when I arrived to the venue City Club, and no one was there. I hired everybody to be there hours before my arrival so they can start setting up. I'm definitely freaking out now and I have no idea if this event would be done in enough time!
Meanwhile back in Mexico, the group is having issues because, (well let's face it) Ass-a is a shit starter and now that I'm not there they need another victim to prey on and that's MJ. I've gotta say I'm super relieved watching that drama go down in Mexico because it just goes to prove that I'm not the "only" person that's involved with the drama. . .as some were saying. These people clearly have a lack of understanding as to what a friendship is. They're saying that MJ has an issue with popping pills, but it's brought up and spoken of like it's an attack on her. Just the same as when they sit there and drink with me, but then say that I have a drinking problem. If you guys claim to be our friends, then don't you think a different approach might be more successful? Clearly MJ does not have a problem popping pills. Almost everyone I know takes a little something to take the edge off of flying. Oh well, I wasn't there so it's not my battle to fight.
GG, you have a lot of growing up to do! Reading your post proves to me you live in your own little world and everyone orbits around you. Your company is not solely owned by you! Your father and sister worked hard for this to happen and your only chore was to do the PR party. I highly doubt you put any money into it, meaning money you actually earned! Your Dad needs to cut you off financially and maybe then you will grow up and see what the real world is all about. Believe me the real world is not all about you! You need to continue on your anger management as well before you hurt someone and end up in prison. Daddy can't help you then! Picking up a knife in the middle of an argument is not cool!
Robinlynn I so agree with you 100%. She never worked for anything in her life. I am beside myself I am flipping through the channels and hear her say she is the Rosa Parks of reality TV? are you kidding me how insulting to African Americans such as myself. GG has no Idea what Rosa Parks stood for much less reality TV. I have to just SMH to such nonsense. WELL SAID ROBINLYNN
GG! Don't let that crazy nut job Asa play with your mind the way she does. It's ALL ON FILM. You may have been in Asa's face, but SHE PUSHED YOU! She got PHYSICAL and AGGRESSIVE with you FIRST. I don't understand why no one else in the group is holding her accountable, but it's on film. That's what I saw anyway. Asa is FULL OF ****!! SHE is the WHACK one. Seriously, honey, let it go... and forget trying to get YOUR TRUTH heard...she's not ever going to own her role in it.
I think your a beautiful woman, and have a lot of demons, that you are addressing, and ROME was not built in a day and I wish your friends would understand that as well, that when you have episodes they dont happen over night and there are reasons that they stemmed in the first place. However if you keep up with your thoughts that the therapist tells you about keep cool calm and find a center, then you can stop letting people like the ankle bitter Asa push your buttons and move on with your life. Shes the meanest of mean girls that basically told all the others that if you were involved in anything that she would not have anything to do with them. SHE MADE THEM CHOSE. HOW wrong is that? Reza, Mike, MJ should have been like sorry ASA we love her and like her and she has her flaws shes not perfect but we arent cutting her out of our life just for you. You have to deal with GG as well as she has to deal with you. I wish they were all good enough people to have done just that. I dont know why you all aren't mature enough to be in the same room and steer clear of one another but I wish you could prove to them all that YOU ARE able to. and then be able to do just that. Mike jumped when he shouldnt have at OMID because he was already all worked up and instead of sitting down and hearing anyone out they all had to be the loudest one or the biggest threat maker. Seriously silly. There is a definate inability to communicate well within the group. Asa needs to Woman up and allow you the floor to say what you need to say to be able to move forward so that all the others can witness you did your part and that it is ASA not big enough a person to allow it to move on from it. By acting the way Asa acted is her way of controlling the way everyone else reacts to you and the situation. She did not let you have the floor because she knew she would lose the battle and lose the friendship string by everyone being proud of you for putting your ego aside and apologize and own up for your wrong doings. She would not allow you that time because she knew she would end up being the bad one in the situation and she cant handle that she needs you to be the one that no one likes. Mike should have listened to Omid about what he wanted to attempt to apologize saying he was wrong and had heard things, but instead Mike jumped up running threats so immediately Omid did too instead of trying to clear it up.. typical of men. I wish i could be the mediator for all of you because I could definately get you all to be quiet while each of you said what was needed to be said so that you could all heal!!! God Bless you Golnesa and good luck!!! Ihope to hear a shot out from you one day!!! Im on your team and Reza and MJ!!!! PEace and Love Peace and Love!!!
GG is a bitterly mean-spirited, spoiled-rotten brat and brags about being kept by daddy and spending thousands of dollars a week shopping because, well, that’s what she does for a living.
Not particularly bright, and quite transparent in her jealousies, she often talks smack about others for no reason but to be spiteful- it's in her character.
She’s a living testimony to what poor parenting produces and why parents with money should take heed to make sure their kids learn to humble themselves and put themselves to work at productive endeavors.
Without meaningful purpose and an understanding of self-achievement, kids flounder when set free in the world.
I for one, will not be watching because of her, the way she attacks and treats others is abusive in my opinion and I can't stand it.
I wish her well and hope she can attend individual counselling to bring about some much needed change in herself.
fr.mkt.9 I agree on some of your points. GG was volatile and very mean in season 1 and 2. People seem to have forgotten how she constantly made fun of Asa and the fact that she didnt wear name brand clothes that fit in with the style of other Persians in L.A. She has also said she wished she had a knife to attack her pregnant sister and talked crap about Reza for having a Jewish and a Muslim parent. She has been violent on both seasons. None of the Shahs are perfect, but I think viewers are being way too easy on Asa. She has been very rude and volatile since season 1 and everyone just got fed up with it.
GG, At least you are trying to change your situation. Please continue to use your time to better yourself. You lash out because you are not being heard and people blow you off because they still think of you as a little girl. Lately, you have made some huge strides in overcoming your anger and getting rid of resentment towards the group who have shunned you.
I really believe that out of all of them, you and MJ are the most sincere about positive change. It was refreshing to see you and Lily together. Good Luck in all that you do!
I'm not sure why GG is on this show. She doesn't make money, she sucks off her parents, she isn't even pretty. She is such an emotionally unbalanced person, she doesn't offer anything positive to the show. What the hang is she doing on this show????
Hey GG wanted to tell you that you don't need to be phoney to satisfy anyone. You don't need Asa's friendship....and she is the one who is whack and phoney as hell.What I like about you is that you are "real". Let people rise to your occasion....not vice versa.......
GG, you are my favorite cast member. You and Raza bring the fun to the show. Your nemesis Asa is a snooze-fest. Zzzzzzzz. You, my dear are highly entertaining.
GG, sweetie, you have won me over. Even with your bad temper you are a much more likeable person than the devious, manipulative Asa. GAG!! If the others cannot see through her, it is their loss, no yours. Chin up.
...BELIEVE me when I tell you that you missed NOTHING at the El Rey Theatre. Asa was a total mess. You should have seen her horrible clothes and her awful performance, it was pitiful.
You don't need those kind of friends, get sober and focused and kiss them all goodbye, they are not worth the trouble.
Hi Beautiful! I'm a big fan and have nothing but good feelings about you!
I do want to ask if you will consider this: Now that things are better with you and your sister, why don't you two get together and try very hard to lighten the stress on your dear father? The unhappiness between you and your sister has given him so much grief and he has been there as your mediator for too long. Honey, think of reassuring him and giving him some peace in the family. You want to keep him with you for a long, long time. Take good care of him. Best wishes and loving thoughts to you, pretty girl.
Your so called "friends" talk about being humble? Well what about unconditional love? Real friends even as adults argue and even scrap but so what? You apologized! Srew them if they can't stand by you and forgive get new friends who needs them? "To err is human to forgive is devine". ~Unknowm~
Okay, so the dinner didn't go so well. After all of your preparation, you got totally hijacked by the hot-headed boys. I think it's really great that you're working on your impulse control. That is a great thing to do, and it takes a lot of hope and courage. Actually, you seem to be the only one working on their issues on this show. I totally understand that you don't have to humiliate and prostrate yourself before Asa. She's kind of cool, but it's all flash and no susbstance from what I can tell. Diamond water? She hugs the tank? She hasn't demonstrated on the show any healing powers, so why should the water be anything? I hoped she washed her hands. Also, her first performance, ever, is in front of a huge, live audience? That's just ill-advised. No music, no training, no sweat....just straight to the top. It's totally not cool to push and shove, and you were in the process of apologizing, but for her to call you 'wack" at a dinner party is neither spiritual nor cool. She could have just accepted the apology and continued to not hang out with you or like you. Instead, she chose to grandstand and continue to put you down to elevate herself. Okay, you're all a little disturbing, but at least you're seeing a shrink!!!!! Keep up the good work. I think Lilly is cool and has great self-esteem and good boundaries. She's a good role model, in case you're looking! Not Asa, not MJ.
GG Reza gave you great advice he is not buying your excuses he doesnt want to hear it!! And its right your excuses justify your actions. Your scary and I really want you off the show. You are pretty, you have so much given to you and yet you are psycho.....I dont think its healthy to have you on this show at all. However if you stay on I wish you the best and hope to see you change. The big nose guy is bad news stay away from him.
She admits her weaknesses. The goal is to solve it. Your suggestions for "shock therapy" coincide with your attitude, which is abusive.
PamChristmas radicallove I agree with you PamChristmas. You were not being abusive - you were giving your opinion like everyone else on here. I feel sorry for GG and I think she has some issues, But she is very volatile and rude - she made fun of Asa all last season and has gotten physical on MULTIPLE occasions. People are letting her off too easy. She was very nasty to her sister and disrespectful to her father as well. People are talking about the other Shah's as if one thing happened and they just abandoned her. After 2 seasons of her nonsense i think they are all just fed up! In the same way that her sister is fed up with her antics!
ok first off this isn't about your character, it was about your opinion.
her father and mother earned the money so it is not our place to decide how they choose to spend it.
show some respect for her honesty, only a suggestion.
"acceptance" might play a role here.
GG your first problem is hanging around with the guy with the big nose, he is an idiot and has no class at all, he is trouble for you and it seems when he is drinking his beer muscles come out
OK everyone enough with the psychobabble and excuses. GG, in the end it does not make a difference if you have PTSD, trust issues, fear issues, insecurity issues, men issues, women issues or just generalized life issues...you are responsible for your own behaviors. Believe it or not you can choose to stop aggressing against others by simply making that choice. No mystical process. No need for "integration" you simply make the decision that violence will get you arrested and you prefer freedom. Simple.
Hey girl. I totally get your personality and I honestly think that something is stopping you from growing at the same pace as others. People are quick to assume that you have spoiled hangups, but I think you need to investigate whatever it is in your life that truly traumatized you. You have all the signs of PTSD. The drinking needs to either be stopped or put into control. Either way, you should abstain for at least a month and rediscover your sober personality as your rock and the drinking can extend itself from there.
Yeah you can afford to be less judgmental. You feel judged because you are, but be the better person and let them be ignorant. Not sure how religious you are but reading up on a few buddhist proverbs is a cool way to ground some peace. People think that your father supporting you is completely your fault but if you were raised like that so what? How does anyone know what you went through in life? Don't put it out there but I can feel that something very horrible happened to you.
Throwing a party is what people think you only did? I saw people there that were spending $ so you threw an event with investors. It's not easy to find people to spend money, not at ALL! Who are some of these critics kidding? I bet they can't even find a friend to pay for a dinner LOL.
Asa reminds me of a bible thumper. The "spiritual people" who throw their "faith" in as a weapon, rather than a tool towards peaceful solutions. You may be having bouts of that "ghetto street tough" ridiculousness (please let go of the knives obsession! u can't stab anyone u'll get sued lol <3), but her mentality is as primal and ghetto as it gets. Her dating a black man doesn't give her the right to act like she is the authority of openindedness. She is pretty closed minded and fake. Stop apologizing to her and let her go.
Hope you are your sister are still playing nice. Your dad loves you both so much and it would make him happier than it makes you, imagine that.
Love you GiGi! keep your head up. Being a hottie is not easy. No one listens to you, but I can promise you that no one will if you scream. Breathe more, life is divine!
WOW! That "GG" is 29 years old?????? I thought she was ATLEAST 35! Less Booze would help her get back to her "teenage" complexion!!!! Maybe she didn't have a MOM in her life to teach her: RESPECT....TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED.....IF YOU WANT SOMETHING, W-O-R-K FOR IT!!!! DADDY NEEDS TO SHOW HER SOME TOUGH LOVE AND THEN ARRANGE A MARRIAGE TO ANOTHER BILLIONAIRE BEL AIR MALE!!!
I like you GG! You keep it real for the most part, you own the fact that you have issues and it seems that you are trying to be better :) But seriously please stop acting like you are such a gangsta!!! No ones fooled babe you are a spoiled rich girl :)
GG, you remind me of myself at your age. I was full if piss and vinegar and I thought it was my duty to call out all bullshit as I saw it. It took me a long time to realize that I cannot intimidate people to behave as I wanted them to. Expecting a different behavior from someone, over and over again, is like going to a hardware store for bread. They'll never have it. I wish you inner peace and happiness.
GG you are one spoiled brat. Your father clearly treats you way better than he treats your older sister and you take advantage of your favorite position in the family for sure. I don't blame your sister for having some resentments towards you.
Janes i agree. people keep saying everyone is treating GG bad but GG has been acting nasty and violent since season 1!
GG are you sure your problem is anger management not an attention thing? because watching you makes me feel like you think your life is a James Bond movie, seriously!
I've routing for you this season hoping you find your way and stay away from drama. Hope you find success with your hair extension company
i was watching a Law and Order show title HOME SWEET. there was a defense lawyer on it and i believe it was GG. she had short brown hair, much heavier than now. but i know it was her.the lips and eyes. hope someone can check it out.
Loved your handbag last night GG what brand is it? Keep up the therapy I think the out come will be great for you once again. Also what the heck did your bestfriend (Asa) have on last night? ;-0
I like you GG. You are one I can say who is totally not fake. And you are trying to take care of your anger issues. I see that the time you get really angry is to defend someone you care about. But you still can't get physical or even screaming is not good. You keep working on it, you can do it. Take care of yourself.
Seriously....................just had a therapy session and then grab a butcher knife at Sammy's proclaiming you will be the only one to stab someone. THAT IS AS ILLEGAL AS ACTUALLY STABBING SOMEONE. You are lucky no one called the police and had you arrested. Oh, but that wouldn't matter, would it? After all, Daddy would just bail his little baby girl out and pay for her attorney.
Don't forget editing. She (thank God!) didn't seem angry & was only loosely holding the knife. To me it seemed she may have simply taken it to diffuse the situation. I'm still unclear on what the beef was about in the 1st place. Having said that, I DO NOT condone any of her behaviour this season. I loved her season 1, but it seems the cameras have turned her desire for popularity into full blown narcissism & outlandish expectations of preferential treatment from everyone. She is in desperate need of professional help to ever live any kind of normal life, let alone have any hope of success in her business or a place on this show! JMO of course! I just can't see Bravo being willing to be liable for such explosive, unpredictable possibilities that keeping GG could bring about in her current state! Sorry GG, I really do wish ya well!
GG, it is good that you are returning to therapy to work on your anger issues. We cannot ever forget our past because that is what makes us who we are. The difference is now that you are not a child, but a woman who can defend herself without using violence. You can do well again, but it will take work and it is a life-long process. Stay strong. Our prayers are with you.
GG I think that the success in coordinating this party let you know the importance of having goals in life. The problem in you is that your father pay for your bills and you are not responsible for your duties. I congratulate you and encourage to establish new goals and you will see that you will be able to attain them. Move forward
Other than hiring people and drinking and getting your hair done I did not see much of a contribution from you. At least you were smart enough to get the right people to all the work properly. Hint for the future, follow the housewives lead and stand around asking quesions and maybe spread some flower petals or light a few candles.
GG made a huge step forward with her launch party. Let's hope she keeps up the self improvement.
Otherwise, she's not just a car crash, she's a train wreck. That kind of temper is nuts.
Omid's parents probably watched her violent behavior and forced their son to break off the engagement. Wanna bet?
I routing for you GG. I believe you have had issues that are deep routed and I hope you have the strength and will to continue working on your anger. You can really become a great business woman - but that anger will hold you back every time. Also, you are a woman. Don't fight a mans battle. You take the Man out of the Man. Let the man speak up for himself. Good luck.
You are in total denial!!!! You need to stop drinking! It makes you crazy................
Consentrate on your work. I think you did a pretty good job with the hair show.
you have got to be taken off this show. now u comin for ppl with knives. YOU HAVE GOT TO GO ASAP
GG, you have serious, serious anger issues. Your temper is out of control. Grown women do not get physical with other women. You say you've been in therapy on and off all your life, girl, it hasn't worked. You need to find a better therapist and really start doing the work necessary to grow.