Golnesa "GG" Gharachedaghi

GG spills on how she'll reunite Reza and MJ, and updates us on her relationships with her sister and Omid.

on Mar 1, 20130

So what needs to happen is that someone needs to force these two to sit down together and just talk it out, figure out their differences, and get back to a place of love. I would love to be that person, because obviously all the other kids in here are too busy chasing Reza’s ass to do anything else.

So for all of you out there who are worried about my love life and what happened after my engagement with Omid: I am in a very, very happy relationship right now. He’s amazing and he treats me like a queen, like I need to be. And the baby factory is close to opening up! So hold on to your socks and just wait and see what comes out of this.

My sister and I are doing really well now; thank God there are no cuts on our faces! (Which means I didn’t do anything to her, so, haha!)

 

71 comments
aprildykman
aprildykman

I just watched an episode and had to find someway to comment and at least have hope you'll see this ... You have an anger problem. You look crazy on tv. You need to calm down, your actions are hideous. I wouldn't approve this to air on tevevision if I were you, you should be ashamed and get help.

housewifefan2012
housewifefan2012

You were right to confront MJ but not at the party. MJ is wrong by all accounts. 

She was wrong to tell your business to someone else, and she was wrong not to reply to birthday party. Reza is the culprit because he set up the issue with MJ telling her she would be turned away, but Lilly did not specifically say she would be turned away. Reza assumed she would turn her away. 

But here is the deal. MJ never responded so I feel like Lilly, your seat would be taken in that case.

 

At this point you should just move on, knowing that with friends like MJ, you need to keep your eyes wide open. She is not your friend. Keep out of the drama and concentrate on your hair business and you might be the next Bethany. Meanwhile MJ will keep getting drunk and having men disrespect her in public. If that is how she rides, get off that train fast.

piperbeau
piperbeau

You are definitely my fav on the show!! Are you mad a Lilly for starting an hair extension line?!

tjjpt
tjjpt

You have to wash your mouth with soap and brush your teeth with liquid bleach every day to wash your language clean.

kcat
kcat

Ugh, you are the most self-centered, loudest, unrealistic person (besides ASA)

daniel.fletcheringram
daniel.fletcheringram

You're my favorite on the show. I hope for the best for you. Ignore the haters-- they can't handle your honesty. 

nlb1525
nlb1525

You are disgusting for saying those horrible things about Reza being half jewish/muslim.

 

How dare you comment about Asa work ethic but you only got a job at 30 years old.

 

You claim to be in therapy but obviously it is not working...when you said that you were going to slice your pregnant sister's face that says alot about you.

Baby0112
Baby0112

GG Reza is not good for MJ. They can be civil with each other but you should  not encourage relationship  you  cannot fix a broken glass. But as for you it is so great to see you moving in a positive directions and that you are gradually coming out of "the feeling of being loss not knowing what to do". It is called you are now a woman and got out of abusive years that hopefully you can all put behind you.

Pasadena47
Pasadena47

GG, You are a doll and you and MJ were so cute together when MJ could not remember what she was talking about.  Your expression's were priceless!  You are the only honest one on the show, I appreciate you for that. 

Lmm1503
Lmm1503

GG as much as i do think you are a little immature and way to angry, I also like you ten times better then everyone else on the show. Dont worry we all saw asa start with you last season> Her friend started with you for no reason probably because Asa filled her head before you even met. Although you should control your anger I also think Asa started all the problems with you this season and then evryone exonerated her for what reason I have know idea. You and MJ are the most likabe people on the show no matter what your flaws are the two of you are at least trying to work on yourselves not walking around like you are the gratest things ever like everyone else. You are way prettier then lilly and I like hat you stil llook completely persian no matter what Asa says about the work you have had done. She should get your doctors number! I just dont know why you or MJ would ever give any of those people the time of day ever again. They were terrible to both of you and if I were you I would forgive them but never speak to them again! I hope they all get kicke off the show except you and MJ and Mike is ok but kind of boring!

stasija3552@yahoo.com
stasija3552@yahoo.com

So happy you are feeling warm and forgiving toward the group!  All the best for your new relationship.  I think you have been really misunderstood.  The real you came out in the clip in which you said your most prized possessions are your dog and your cat!  All the best, and I hope to see you next season!

dpat
dpat

GG, you are a hot mess for sure.  I like you on the show, stick with MJ!  Forget Asa and Reza, they are not your friends.  Omid is not deserving or good enough for you, dump him and find someone like your dad who will spoil you!  Keep working on your career and good luck with your endeavors!  I hope to see a calmer, hard working professional woman next season!

Shali
Shali

Omid doesn't love you. He loves the limelight & fame that comes along with you.

Don't let him hurt you. You can do SO much better than him. 

Rissa89
Rissa89

Really I think its some Bull that GG gets called out for her so called anger problems. I don't think shes angry I think she don't like people stepping on her toes. If Asa Lilly Reza or Mike talked to me the way they talk to GG I wouldn't even say a word someone would just a fist to the face. I think its funny how they all can talk about the way GG acts but they all do it too just in a different way. Its not GGs Fault she has balls enough say  whats on her mind and has actions to back up her words. I say if someone has the balls to get her face she needs to knock them down a step or two so they know next time Not to get her face.

mp.212
mp.212

If you've been in therapy throughout your whole life and it hasn't done a damn thing thus far, because obviously it hasn't, because you lash out every two seconds for NO reason, then going now isn't going to help. You don't have an anger control problem per se, you have a VERY intense attention-seeking issue and you "feel" the need to try and make everyone think you're a bad-a**, which clearly, sorry to say, you are NOT. If you really were you'd be able to actually hold your own and not act like a psychotic high school girl that just got her boyfriend (of 2 days) stolen from her.

Teacha
Teacha

Growing up with an older sister who was the chosen "favorite one" I can fully understand perhaps,where your anger comes from, but lashing out doesn't fix it. You are beautiful and talented. Don't settle for less than you. Harness your anger and reign!

sarah111
sarah111

GG I like your character and honesty.  Please continue therapy re: anger issues and you will be PERFECT :)  Best of luck to your business.

Scribbles
Scribbles

I hope that you aren't back next season. You bring nothing but negativity to the show. I'ts so much fun watching everyone party and have a good time without you being there. All you do is get drunk and start fights.

carolkay01
carolkay01

GG I am behind you 100%.  You and MJ are my favorites.  Forget Asa, she isn't worth your time.  Asa is a big phony who uses Reza to say what she wants to say.  Reza isn't bright enough to see it.  Asa is not a genuine person and I love what you said about her diamonds.  If she was a caring person she would dig them up, sell them and give the money to her mother so she doesn't have to work all those hours.  That is what a real daughter would do and I agree with you 110%.  Don't let Reza, Lilli and Asa get to you, you are more of a person than all 3 of them put together.

 

taffi
taffi

GG, i like your honesty. Continue with your therapy, you will be a better person once you understand the origin of your anger. Good luck with your business.

 

ps I loved your father's slicked back

    ponytail

bravochic
bravochic

GG I like you and am rooting for you. You have some issues but I want to watch input story unfold and watch as you grow and improve as a person. Please stay out of Reza and MJ's friendship. Btw gave you watched thus season and how he turned on you as well and tried to encourage others to do the same? Rethink your friendship with him and keep it a "social" friendship But keep your distance emotionally. Stick with MJ, and Anita, etc. Asa is almost unbearable to listen to and to watch. Her voice is beyond annoying. Good riddens to Asa and Reza. Lilly has potential to be a friend.

Fairy2013
Fairy2013

LOLOL!  GG, please do not buy the water that Asa is selling... if you do, you might end up planting your money in the yard like she did!! Hahahha

Fairy2013
Fairy2013

GG, forget Reza and his ignorance, stupidity.  I would never buy anything that douche Asa creates, sells, drinks or sings.  She is just as bad as Reza and they are not going to be on the show long if the audience allows it.  Please GG, take care of your mental health and next season you and MJ will be the award winners!  Keep it cool!

michelle.lucas.3150
michelle.lucas.3150

Sometimes we can be our own worst enemies. You acknowledged that you have some serious anger issues. You have to stop blaming others and take the responsibility of your way of thinking. Your parents have enabled you long enough. If you truly want to work on your anger, you cannot expect the outer world to change in order for you to act better. It's the inner you that has to adjust to grow into a more mature self-controlled individual. What does getting angry resolve for you?

steve.snedlecker
steve.snedlecker

i like you and MJ the only thing i see is that perhaps there friendship and love for Resa and MJ has maybe run its course.. and perhaps they can no longer be the best friends ever again.. Resa has got an ego that is larger then the pacific ocean.. and that is something that he is angry really angry at MJ for saying all the stuff he did about her.. that is hate .. he wanted to hurt her deep inside.. so that is why i think it may be over for the two of them.. i know you want them to be together but i think perhaps its time the move on.. without each other. in marriages when people seem so perfect for each other and yet there is a fighting going on and wont stop there is always something underlining what is really the issue.. and so the marriage is dead .. and this may be the case for MJ and Resa .. MJ has done all she can.. but there is a hurt deep down for Resa ... he is not letting it go. you can see the pure hate he has for her.. its no longer love he has for her.. only hate.. and its sad.. but something its better that they are going there own ways.. let MJ have her own life now free of all .. take her out and get her going again.. as for Resa let him be.. let there be time.. sometimes that heals better then anything else. he has some other demons chasing him..perhaps in the coming years you will find out what is really behind all this anger and hate.. but for now .. please stop putting MJ on this hot seat it only will hurt her more.. and being a friend is also to make sure your other friends are not hurt.. and that goes for MJ.. cause she is the one who is getting hurt by his mouth.. no one else.. and as for for the shemale please make her go away.. she hurts my eyes.. she is so nasty.. and fake can not stand to watch her. and i stopped buying the shows cause of her.. i wont give her a dime of my money she is not worth looking at any longer.. the rest of you i love her not so much.. thank you for a great season.. hope to see you back next season.. without the shemale who is a super bully ..  

janb55
janb55

GG--you have to help yourself first--continue counseling, therapy, etc. and get your act together before you try to help someone else. and you may be better off staying away from this gang for quite some time. You sure don't need friends like them.

nitti
nitti

GG  you scare me a little.  You don't have a control switch or you just don't know where it is, but you better find it soon cause you are gong to need it hanging with this crowd. 

 

I was very proud of you and how you controlled yourself with Asa The Witch.  You got at her at times but you pulled it together.  Sometimes people get you so mad that  there are just  no words to express it, and insults come flying out.  The advise I have for you is those insults are like giving her, and the other fools, on the show  a "Gift" to attack you with and keep you down.  If you could manage to not go there with her, just smile and keep your cool, she will expose herself.

 

Asa is not a spiritual person, she cannot write, she cannot rap,.  Who the hell wants to pay for that big ass diamond she put in the Vat.  Please, God made water perfect just the way it is.  She is a phony Witch and she is very envious of you and goes after your weakness.  Dont' let her!  She is also a coward for not putting out a blog.  God Bless.

JudiB
JudiB

Before you try to help anyone, you need help yourself.  You need help badly.  If things are making you this angry now, imagine how bad it's going to be in the State Penitentiary.

Luashtal
Luashtal

MJ tried to coordinate a sit down with Asa and Reza set up the get together for you to have a chance to talk to everyone!! What are you talking about them not doing it for you?

RJoyS
RJoyS

I LOVE you GG! Team GG all day, everyday. You have your issues, as we all do, but at least you admit your failures and cop to who you truly are. You're honest and you're real and we can see it. You are the one and only TRUE and LOYAL friend out of the group, period. I love MJ and feel deep empathy for the season of abuse she dealt with from Reza and Asa. I felt real pain for her watching their vicious attacks against her during the reunion. However, even MJ wasn't a true and loyal friend to you during the season. She seems so desperately afraid of losing favor with Reza and the group, that she allowed them to dictate her treatment of you. Sad. Nevertheless you are a great woman. Don't let them (Mike, Reza and Asa) continue to tear you down. They are most definitely no better than you are. Reza's anger and attacks far outweigh you swinging a fist at Asa. Reza's attacks are more vicious, more vindictive, more hateful and more immature than anything you've ever done on the show, period. Please for MJ's sake use caution when reuniting her & Reza. Do you really think she can handle another colossal betrayal from her "best friend of 20 years"? He's deadly. Forgive don't forget. I cannot imagine him deserving or earning her trust again. Best of love and life to you Golnesa-joon!

chato
chato

GG, no need to bring Reza and MJ back together.  What Reza did to MJ is unforgivable....Just be a friend to MJ, she needed that..and also stay away from Asa and Reza.  By the way Mike doesn't care about you..he is just full of himself.

radicaLove
radicaLove

wow the nightmare is over. reza is coming around. i hope you all find a way to manage your anger better.

i wont front tho- seeing asa laugh at reza's anger.... is just annoying bc most of us couldn't laugh at it and we are strangers! there she is right next to reza being entertained by the "who is going ot have a heart attack first?" game.

 

hope you guys do a season 3 without the funky clown ruining the finale with some corny event.

 

cheers GG! 

 

 

 

 

shysharon
shysharon

That was nice that you apologized to Andy....a little late, but nice.

nvt
nvt

GG before you start brokering peace deals you need to under go intensive therapy. The thereapist you have now is ineffective. First it was the kids at school , then it was your sister. GG do you take any responsibility for your out of control rage. You have a choice, you choose to lose control and blame it on people pushing your buttons. Who's in control of you and your mind, Asa? omid is not that into you girl, his actions are drowning out your words.

Pasadena47
Pasadena47

GG I can see that you are really trying to improve your demeanor and control your temper.  I wanted to jump through the TV screen and snatch Reza, Asa and Lily by the back of their hair for being so mean to MJ and you.  Screw them.  Now I see how absolutely phony and fake they are.  You do not need them.  Focus on your company and making your family proud.  Good luck on what ever you do and keep growing into a mature wise woman.

9japride
9japride

I'm all for helping people hunny, but you need to do you for now. No one and I mean NO ONE (including MJ) stood up for you. She had to work on herself first and this is your time to do thesame. Love you girl! #Team GG

elsaro9
elsaro9

I can see your desire to be a better person, GG: However, your awareness of how you should do things does not match your actions. At this point, I see a long road of brutal self-honesty and disciplined behavior change as the one and only way you will be able to manifest your intention to go forth in love and kindness. Your violent, mean-spirited alter ego is still running the show; your more vulnerable self knows what should happen, but currently is helpless in the face of your own worst inclinations. I do wish you luck, and I have learned something in my own evolution that I hope may help you: Stop talking, get quiet, and be aware of your every trigger--tell yourself that if the only response you can make is in anger or unkindness, you will literally, physically walk away. Find a mantra to recite over and over if someone is saying or doing something that you would typically lash out at; just block it out. The next moment will arrive and you will have made one teeny step in the right direction: The modification is cumulative; ultimately the change will be integrated, and your life will open up. But it takes TIME, not pronouncements.

backfires
backfires

You are an idiot and selfish.  Your going out of your way to have Reza and MJ get back together?  You really believe MJ was attacking Reza?  You didn't say one word when Reza was spewing all those hateful things at MJ.  You people brag about being Persian but if I had girlfriends like you or Asa or Lilly.... life wouldn't be worth living.  

Live-UR-Life
Live-UR-Life

Stay strong girl! I wish the best for you and it just makes me sick how Asa and Reza has been towards you and MJ. They obviously went out of their way to make you both look bad and push the two of you from the group. All it has accomplished is showing the world what mean bullies they are. I couldn't get through the whole reunion because it upset me when they got so vicious! I want to watch and support you but it's so hard to do with people like that on the show. I understand all shows need a little drama but they are cruel and ridiculous! Good Luck with every thing and i wish you much Love and Happiness!

rita.frazier.547
rita.frazier.547

GG, do you like MJ????

I'm assuming you do..then do not let her near that psychopath.

I wouldn't be surprised to see his 'career' go up in flames..who will trust him

after last night? No one!  

You need to watch yourself with him as well.  The only reason you're not

in MJ's place is because hopefully he does not have any dirt on you.

MJ's mom did not deserve his dirty mouth.  I feel bad for his own mother too 

but oh well!

 

mp.212
mp.212

 @Pasadena47 So... her getting physical with Asa, yelling at MJ on the phone then hanging up on her, then telling her PREGNANT sister she wanted to cut her face with a knife makes her a "doll?" If we're talking about the doll chucky, then yes, I completely agree!

Live-UR-Life
Live-UR-Life

 @Scribbles don't agree! its Asa and Reza who instigate all the drama. Id be frustrated and angry too! GG don't listen to the haters! There are so many people that support you and wish the best for you! 

radicaLove
radicaLove

 @Luashtal MJ also didn't invite GG to her birthday b/c Asa didn's show up at that lunch. And she did apologize, but then "that's not how you apologize to people. when you apologize you own the whole situation" something like that Reza said to her.... now Reza;s blog apology is simply LOL

radicaLove
radicaLove

 @backfires the one time GG keeps her mouth shut and she gets ridiculed for it? 

Pasadena47
Pasadena47

 @mp.212

 The comment about Chucky is funny!  Her sister is clearly jealous and she has been no saint either.  I blame GG's problems on her permissive parent's.  Her actions are a direct reflection upon them.  They apparently set no boundaries on her and then everyone is surprised when she acts the way she does. 

Pasadena47
Pasadena47

 @Live-UR-Life  @Scribbles

 It is Asa and Reza that prevoke GG.  She just wants to be heard, but people keep cutting her off.  They are phony and she is real, and at least she admits when she is wrong.

mp.212
mp.212

@Pasadena47 @Live-UR-Life @Scribbles When has GG EVER admitted she was wrong?? And how did Reza and Asa instigate?? GG was the one who went psycho b*tch on Asa over a COMPLIMENT!! If you not only condone what GG has done but agree with it too then you're just as crazy as she is. I'll stay sane over here in reality thanks.