Lily, you are so fake (and not taking about the boobs-they look great) You have managed to destroy many relationships this season. If you want to talk about someones drinking problems then I think you should first address your anorexia problems. I used to have the same problem and it is obvious you do. YOU ARE SOO SKINNY_WAY TO SKINNY. That is not a compliment as I am sure you take it as one.You really need help!

Lily, go back to being a professional (attorney).  Although I like the bikini wear company, it is one step away from being ponographic wear.  I am also all for women doing what they love in terms of a career.  However, if you plan to marry a old-fashion Persian man, then Ali is probably not the man for you.  I also think that the reason that Ali is not moving forward in the relationship, with you is due to the bikini wear.  Have a sit-down with him. 

For someone who claims to be so classy, you say the B word a little too many.

the worst thing a gal can do on a date is to talk about her x.  clearly, u wanted to scare this guy off. ur man of 10 yrs. will not "put a ring on it" until u show him u don't want or need him.  breaking up with him isn't enough - u have to really date someone else. 

ur swim suits are great - just not 4 the average gal. us size 12 & 14's can't hang, but i don't hate the gals that can pull ur suits off.

even if you did drink, u'd be wise not to do so with that group on ur show - u'd lose alot of business if u did. smart gal - kill the haters with kindness

Lilly--for all you have going for yourself why bother dating (blind date or otherwise) if clearly you are not ready to let go of your current long-time ex??? It's almost cruel to the person sitting across from you.  Your such a beautiful, smart woman--couldn't you have been more tactful and consider the other person's feelings?

Lily walked in the restaurant, saw her date, wasn't attracted, and so turned him off by saying, "I'm in love with my ex."

I like Lily, but that's not a good way to handle it.  Just be polite, don't give anything but a 'friend' vibe during dinner, and go dutch on the meal.   Then, tell him that you don't feel the chemistry after the dinner.

I'm glad to see that you stay true to who you are.  If you don't want to drink, then don't.  I like your fashion sense, you're an intelligent & beautiful woman.  I think the other commenters are a little harsh concerning your 10 yr. relationship considering you weren't alowed to date in high school.

Lilly, I don't get why everyone is upset about your discussion of your ex at the dinner table with "that"guy...who may or may not have thought he was on a serious date with you....it did not appear he was...so whats the big deal? He just did not seem like someone I would want to hang out with, he looked a little self absorbed to me...you must have known that or your discussion would have been different...but while on that subject, let me say, that there are things that need to be out of the way from the beginning....ex's are one of them, an ex becomes a part of how you got to be who you are...they set our standards for what we will accept in other relationships...if this guy couldn't handle hearing about your past without feeling squeamish, he would also not likely to handle buying your feminine hygiene products, slough off your dry heel skin, look down your sore throat to check for white spots, touch your leg on the day your razor was not in the shower, without saying"ewww man legs", or pick up coconut nuggets when he had no baggie....all reasons for "date denial" ...

I really like you. I'm glad you joined the cast this year. I'm surprised by all these haters....

Lilly, you are obviously an educated woman.  However, anyone who "dates" someone for 10 years is stupid. 

I love that you are always so positive and don't put others down! Love the new addition to the cast this season! And I must say your hair is die for!!! Extentions and all! And mostly ilve that you own up the extentions!

I get that Lilly thinks she is all that, but she was beyond rude and disrespectful on her date with that guy just sickening, all she talked about was her ex fiance, why do you think hes an ex. wake up Lilly you are not that hot..take off ALL that make up and lets see you for real not the fake person you portray yourself to be, its enough to make a person vomit.

can you please stop speaking in that squeaky voice?  That's not how you spoke with your sister so I know it's a fake voice.  Just like your fake face, fake hair.............  Although you're not the only person in Hollywood to wear too much makeup with too much hair, you definitely have the fakest personalities....

ANY WOMAN THAT DOESN'T GET THAT A GUY THAT YOU WERE WITH FOR 10 YEARS DOESN'T WANT YOU , I WOULDNT WASTE MY TIME TALKING TO HIM EVERYDAY, THAT JUST MAKES YOU LOOK REALLY STUPID, BUT OH, WE ALREADY KNOW THAT BY THE WAY THAT YOU TREATED YOUR DATE AND HOW INSENSITIVE THAT YOU WERE TO HIM TALKING ABOUT OUR EX, TALK TO ANY DATING CONSUELOR, OR MAYBE YOU SOULD GO TO ONE AND FIND OUT WHY YOU CAN'T LET THIS GUY GO, HE OBVIOUSLY IS JUST USING YOU AND HAS MOVED ON AND YOU ARE WASTIING YOUR TIME WITH HIM, KICK THE LOSER TO THE CURB AND FINS ANOTHER MAN THAT WILL TREAT YOU RIGHT BUT EVERYONE KNOWS NOT TO TALK ABOUT EX'S ON ANY DATES AT ALL A COMPLETE TURN OFF WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF YOUR DATE DID THAT TO YOU AND TO SAY THAT HE IS RUDE TALKING ON HIS PHONE, HELLO YOU WERE RUDE TO TALK ABOUT OUR EX, SERVES YOU RIGHT, YOU HAVE SOME NERVE TO EVEN WASTE HIS TIME, I WOULD HAVE BEEN BORED IN THE FIRST 5 MINUTES AND LEFT AFTER SAYIING THAT YOU WANTED YOUR EX TO BE WITH YOU, ARE YOU TRYING TO HAVE HIM LEAVE, AND YOU JUST WANTED A FREE DINNER ??? LOSER !

First of all this, you don't talk to a new date about your ex-boyfriend, seriously, you act so STUPID and second of all if I met someone who talked to their ex, EVERYDAY, the WHY WASTE SOMEONES TIME by going out on a date, if you are NOT INTERESTED in anyone else, if your ex dumped you then LET HIM GO, if you dumped him, THEN DON'T GO ON ANY DATES if you want to get back with him, you are a FOOL if I was that guy I would have left YOU WITH THE BILL AND LEFT as soon as you talked about your ex, then you didn't even get the HINT when he said that maybe he should talk to his ex girlfiiend, while talking to you, because basically that was what you were doing and then saying, OH I WISH that my ex boyfriend was HERE ON THE DATE ? I mean do you REALLY WANT TO NOT DATE ANYMORE ? because you wont get ANY DATES if you are constantly bringiing up your ex, GET RID OF YOUR EX AND THEN START SEEIING PEOPLE OR DON'T UNTIL YOU HAVE YOUR EX OUT OF YOUR LIFE, boy, you ACT LIKE A DUMB BLOUDLE are you really a brunette ?? I DONT CARE HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE, YOU ARE BEIING INCONSIDERATE AND RUDE SEEING MEN if you haven't let go of your ex, GROW UP !!

Lilly, you're making the show hard to watch. You are not likable, fun, or interesting. I'd rather watch your dog twirl in circles. Hopefully now that you've promoted your swim line, you will go.

Lilly,

Already bored with you. Kinda like Barbie dolls. They look good, but don't have much substance.

omg ... lily I was watching Secrets of a trophy wife and the wife Jennifer Stano looks, talk, act like you.. She also has a swimwear line.. hummmmmm

Lilly, I think you gotta get over yourself. Get rid of the big hair &quit talking threw your nose. Your not that hot.

Lilly, can you blog about the show and not worry about giving plugs for you swim line?  But hey, I'm truly wondering if you even read these comments that people make?  Just gimme a courtesy response as to if you ever even read these!  Thanks!

I just can't watch you anymore, you are beautiful but there is nothing geniune about you at all.. you might as well be plastic....stop trying to be Kim Kardashian there is already one to many of her.

Totally lost respect for you after that scene of the date. You were so Rude & Obnoxious. 

I no longer feel sorry for you, for letting your ex string you along. Clearly you are not that nice of a person. 

Hello Lilly i don't  drink either but it was not good for you to bash those that did. You knew the type of trip you were getting involved with and yet you went. So you should have had a great time in doing the things that you like to do and understood the place you were in and moved on. As for your date night your man is digging someone else he is not going to marry you and was very happy that you moved to LA. Move on and leave him alone you are a very beautiful woman with less hair and make up and you will easily find someone that is into you with no excuses. I bet if you stopped calling the 10 year relationship he will stop calling you! TRY IT OUT FOR A WEEK OR 3. PROVE ME WRONG!

If a man doesn't at propose to a beautiful educated successful woman with in 2 years," He's just not that into you".  Move on. Your making yourself look  desperate.  You don't have to date anyone just drop the loser of 10 years.  10 YEARS!!!  Terrible.

You are too in love with yourself and that is a big strike against you...also, you're not a blonde, which kinda lowers you're status right there...

It was so rude how you talked nonstop about your ex on that date. I hope you at least paid for your own meal...that would have been the right thing to do, but I'm guessing that poor guy not only had to listen to you go on and on about your ex but bought your meal too.

Good grief you're getting bashed left and right....I think you gave the vacation a go and it wasn't your thing. That ends that right lol......Lilly open yourself up some don't be so superficial. What's Lilly like? I have no clue! Let go of the past boyfriend move on there is someone out there (could have been the date) that can give you everything you want...wish you luck!

Honey I'm old school and if you would have disrespected me like you did MJ I would have tied in a knot and sent you on your way. And ps I really wish these women would stop with the weaves. WTF!

I'm in the business of being and selling beauty, Lilly.  You are entirely correct about ETOH:  it makes one fat and it makes one act like an idiot.....neither of which are beautiful.  Stick to your values and your life, Lilly.  You're healthier looking;  your skin is smooth;  you're an intelligent businesswoman;  and you're far prettier than your peers.  I admire the fact that you maintain your composure regarding your values instead of compromising your integrity and your health.  Stay the way you are.  I am a fan.  You should have your own show.

Um Lily, hate to break it to you but you went to OC-South with a bunch of LA Realtors & a Pop Princess looking to parteeeee....no place for D&B couture & H-bags! Maybe you should have had a sip or two, just so you could say you actually let loose amongst the Shah-Shindiggery!!

Do you really think the fans of this show are too ignorant to notice your passive aggressive comments. MJ does look good, period. But, what an opportunity for you to make sure all of us "dummies" realized being born in 1972 makes her 40. And, you like curves on girls, other girls, just not on you in any wrong place. You're mean and fake. I hope they give you the boot as soon as Reza gets the commission check cashed!

I don't drink but I'm the life of a party anyway. Your just mean  and boring time for you to say goodbye.

Love you! You are so intelligent and real! You call it like it is and I respect you for it. People that don't like you are just jealous...sorry people it's true!