Lilly Ghalichi

Lilly discuess why she doesn't pour alcohol down her throat and how MJ looks great for her age.

on Jan 13, 20130

Later that night, the Shahs decide to hit up the hottest nightclub in town, and when I say it was hot, I mean it literally. I’m sure you guys have noticed by now, I’m just not a partying kind of girl. I don’t let guys pour alcohol down my throat straight from the bottle, I don’t pop pills, I don’t make out with strangers, so an environment like a nightclub is just not for me. MJ is definitely the queen of this prom; rule your sweaty throne, honey! I’m off to bed.

After the club, while I’m sleeping the gang goes through MJ’s bag as Reza is still very concerned that MJ may have a substance abuse problem with prescription pills. They don’t get to the bottom of any alleged problem, but they do get to the bottom of her age, MJ is 40! Girl, you look great for 40, own it.

We have one last breakfast on the balcony overlooking the ocean before we head back to LA. It is the most beautiful, glorious day. Even though I may have been a misfit during the partying portion of the trip, I had an incredible time and I am very thankful for this experience and all the blessings in my life.

170 comments
sweetlola
sweetlola

Lily and her swim line are fabulous!  If I were younger i would definitely wear them.  She and Asa are the only woman on the show with class.  MJ is ok ... GG is a complete mess.  She doesnt add any value to the show.  In my opinion she cheapens the show.  Everyone commented on MJ's drinking but why didnt anyone comment on GG's drinking and how she becomes abusive when she is drunk which is most of the show.  Her behavior is atrocious ... she is like a spoiled brat who throws temper tantrums when she doesnt get her way.  She really needs to be booted off the show.  She acts like such a low life .. no class at all.  She should be embarrassed to see herself but she thinks she's cute.  NOT!!!!

SunShyne_in_Florida
SunShyne_in_Florida

Lily, go back to being a professional (attorney).  Although I like the bikini wear company, it is one step away from being ponographic wear.  I am also all for women doing what they love in terms of a career.  However, if you plan to marry a old-fashion Persian man, then Ali is probably not the man for you.  I also think that the reason that Ali is not moving forward in the relationship, with you is due to the bikini wear.  Have a sit-down with him. 

rainbow13
rainbow13

For someone who claims to be so classy, you say the B word a little too many.

tjoy310
tjoy310

the worst thing a gal can do on a date is to talk about her x.  clearly, u wanted to scare this guy off. ur man of 10 yrs. will not "put a ring on it" until u show him u don't want or need him.  breaking up with him isn't enough - u have to really date someone else. 

 

ur swim suits are great - just not 4 the average gal. us size 12 & 14's can't hang, but i don't hate the gals that can pull ur suits off.

 

even if you did drink, u'd be wise not to do so with that group on ur show - u'd lose alot of business if u did. smart gal - kill the haters with kindness

ogates
ogates

Lilly--for all you have going for yourself why bother dating (blind date or otherwise) if clearly you are not ready to let go of your current long-time ex??? It's almost cruel to the person sitting across from you.  Your such a beautiful, smart woman--couldn't you have been more tactful and consider the other person's feelings?

cinchy
cinchy

Lily walked in the restaurant, saw her date, wasn't attracted, and so turned him off by saying, "I'm in love with my ex."

 

I like Lily, but that's not a good way to handle it.  Just be polite, don't give anything but a 'friend' vibe during dinner, and go dutch on the meal.   Then, tell him that you don't feel the chemistry after the dinner.

TinaLuceal
TinaLuceal

I'm glad to see that you stay true to who you are.  If you don't want to drink, then don't.  I like your fashion sense, you're an intelligent & beautiful woman.  I think the other commenters are a little harsh concerning your 10 yr. relationship considering you weren't alowed to date in high school.

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Lilly, I don't get why everyone is upset about your discussion of your ex at the dinner table with "that"guy...who may or may not have thought he was on a serious date with you....it did not appear he was...so whats the big deal? He just did not seem like someone I would want to hang out with, he looked a little self absorbed to me...you must have known that or your discussion would have been different...but while on that subject, let me say, that there are things that need to be out of the way from the beginning....ex's are one of them, an ex becomes a part of how you got to be who you are...they set our standards for what we will accept in other relationships...if this guy couldn't handle hearing about your past without feeling squeamish, he would also not likely to handle buying your feminine hygiene products, slough off your dry heel skin, look down your sore throat to check for white spots, touch your leg on the day your razor was not in the shower, without saying"ewww man legs", or pick up coconut nuggets when he had no baggie....all reasons for "date denial" ...

LosAngelesBravoLover
LosAngelesBravoLover

I really like you. I'm glad you joined the cast this year. I'm surprised by all these haters....

Trixiebelle
Trixiebelle

Lilly, you are obviously an educated woman.  However, anyone who "dates" someone for 10 years is stupid. 

StephanieAnnGil
StephanieAnnGil

I love that you are always so positive and don't put others down! Love the new addition to the cast this season! And I must say your hair is die for!!! Extentions and all! And mostly ilve that you own up the extentions!

L.Gore
L.Gore

I get that Lilly thinks she is all that, but she was beyond rude and disrespectful on her date with that guy just sickening, all she talked about was her ex fiance, why do you think hes an ex. wake up Lilly you are not that hot..take off ALL that make up and lets see you for real not the fake person you portray yourself to be, its enough to make a person vomit.

Mommyjam
Mommyjam

can you please stop speaking in that squeaky voice?  That's not how you spoke with your sister so I know it's a fake voice.  Just like your fake face, fake hair.............  Although you're not the only person in Hollywood to wear too much makeup with too much hair, you definitely have the fakest personalities....

 

warriorbride
warriorbride

ANY WOMAN THAT DOESN'T GET THAT A GUY THAT YOU WERE WITH FOR 10 YEARS DOESN'T WANT YOU , I WOULDNT WASTE MY TIME TALKING TO HIM EVERYDAY, THAT JUST MAKES YOU LOOK REALLY STUPID, BUT OH, WE ALREADY KNOW THAT BY THE WAY THAT YOU TREATED YOUR DATE AND HOW INSENSITIVE THAT YOU WERE TO HIM TALKING ABOUT OUR EX, TALK TO ANY DATING CONSUELOR, OR MAYBE YOU SOULD GO TO ONE AND FIND OUT WHY YOU CAN'T LET THIS GUY GO, HE OBVIOUSLY IS JUST USING YOU AND HAS MOVED ON AND YOU ARE WASTIING YOUR TIME WITH HIM, KICK THE LOSER TO THE CURB AND FINS ANOTHER MAN THAT WILL TREAT YOU RIGHT BUT EVERYONE KNOWS NOT TO TALK ABOUT EX'S ON ANY DATES AT ALL A COMPLETE TURN OFF WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF YOUR DATE DID THAT TO YOU AND TO SAY THAT HE IS RUDE TALKING ON HIS PHONE, HELLO YOU WERE RUDE TO TALK ABOUT OUR EX, SERVES YOU RIGHT, YOU HAVE SOME NERVE TO EVEN WASTE HIS TIME, I WOULD HAVE BEEN BORED IN THE FIRST 5 MINUTES AND LEFT AFTER SAYIING THAT YOU WANTED YOUR EX TO BE WITH YOU, ARE YOU TRYING TO HAVE HIM LEAVE, AND YOU JUST WANTED A FREE DINNER ??? LOSER !

warriorbride
warriorbride

First of all this, you don't talk to a new date about your ex-boyfriend, seriously, you act so STUPID and second of all if I met someone who talked to their ex, EVERYDAY, the WHY WASTE SOMEONES TIME by going out on a date, if you are NOT INTERESTED in anyone else, if your ex dumped you then LET HIM GO, if you dumped him, THEN DON'T GO ON ANY DATES if you want to get back with him, you are a FOOL if I was that guy I would have left YOU WITH THE BILL AND LEFT as soon as you talked about your ex, then you didn't even get the HINT when he said that maybe he should talk to his ex girlfiiend, while talking to you, because basically that was what you were doing and then saying, OH I WISH that my ex boyfriend was HERE ON THE DATE ? I mean do you REALLY WANT TO NOT DATE ANYMORE ? because you wont get ANY DATES if you are constantly bringiing up your ex, GET RID OF YOUR EX AND THEN START SEEIING PEOPLE OR DON'T UNTIL YOU HAVE YOUR EX OUT OF YOUR LIFE, boy, you ACT LIKE A DUMB BLOUDLE are you really a brunette ?? I DONT CARE HOW BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE, YOU ARE BEIING INCONSIDERATE AND RUDE SEEING MEN if you haven't let go of your ex, GROW UP !!

jellybean818
jellybean818

Lilly, you're making the show hard to watch. You are not likable, fun, or interesting. I'd rather watch your dog twirl in circles. Hopefully now that you've promoted your swim line, you will go.

methinks
methinks

Lilly,

 

Already bored with you. Kinda like Barbie dolls. They look good, but don't have much substance.

kantoine
kantoine

omg ... lily I was watching Secrets of a trophy wife and the wife Jennifer Stano looks, talk, act like you.. She also has a swimwear line.. hummmmmm

deogieboo
deogieboo

Lilly, I think you gotta get over yourself. Get rid of the big hair &quit talking threw your nose. Your not that hot.

RHOallCITYSfreek
RHOallCITYSfreek

Lilly, can you blog about the show and not worry about giving plugs for you swim line?  But hey, I'm truly wondering if you even read these comments that people make?  Just gimme a courtesy response as to if you ever even read these!  Thanks!

nikgrameg
nikgrameg

I just can't watch you anymore, you are beautiful but there is nothing geniune about you at all.. you might as well be plastic....stop trying to be Kim Kardashian there is already one to many of her.

cranberrylaw
cranberrylaw

Totally lost respect for you after that scene of the date. You were so Rude & Obnoxious. 

 

I no longer feel sorry for you, for letting your ex string you along. Clearly you are not that nice of a person. 

aries66
aries66

Hello Lilly i don't  drink either but it was not good for you to bash those that did. You knew the type of trip you were getting involved with and yet you went. So you should have had a great time in doing the things that you like to do and understood the place you were in and moved on. As for your date night your man is digging someone else he is not going to marry you and was very happy that you moved to LA. Move on and leave him alone you are a very beautiful woman with less hair and make up and you will easily find someone that is into you with no excuses. I bet if you stopped calling the 10 year relationship he will stop calling you! TRY IT OUT FOR A WEEK OR 3. PROVE ME WRONG!

lori.sweatmessenger
lori.sweatmessenger

If a man doesn't at propose to a beautiful educated successful woman with in 2 years," He's just not that into you".  Move on. Your making yourself look  desperate.  You don't have to date anyone just drop the loser of 10 years.  10 YEARS!!!  Terrible.

rainbows
rainbows

You are too in love with yourself and that is a big strike against you...also, you're not a blonde, which kinda lowers you're status right there...

selena78
selena78

It was so rude how you talked nonstop about your ex on that date. I hope you at least paid for your own meal...that would have been the right thing to do, but I'm guessing that poor guy not only had to listen to you go on and on about your ex but bought your meal too.

bpster
bpster

Good grief you're getting bashed left and right....I think you gave the vacation a go and it wasn't your thing. That ends that right lol......Lilly open yourself up some don't be so superficial. What's Lilly like? I have no clue! Let go of the past boyfriend move on there is someone out there (could have been the date) that can give you everything you want...wish you luck!

gigi4012
gigi4012

Honey I'm old school and if you would have disrespected me like you did MJ I would have tied in a knot and sent you on your way. And ps I really wish these women would stop with the weaves. WTF!

dollizmybiz
dollizmybiz

I'm in the business of being and selling beauty, Lilly.  You are entirely correct about ETOH:  it makes one fat and it makes one act like an idiot.....neither of which are beautiful.  Stick to your values and your life, Lilly.  You're healthier looking;  your skin is smooth;  you're an intelligent businesswoman;  and you're far prettier than your peers.  I admire the fact that you maintain your composure regarding your values instead of compromising your integrity and your health.  Stay the way you are.  I am a fan.  You should have your own show.

kimbo440
kimbo440

Um Lily, hate to break it to you but you went to OC-South with a bunch of LA Realtors & a Pop Princess looking to parteeeee....no place for D&B couture & H-bags! Maybe you should have had a sip or two, just so you could say you actually let loose amongst the Shah-Shindiggery!!

independent_thinker
independent_thinker

Do you really think the fans of this show are too ignorant to notice your passive aggressive comments. MJ does look good, period. But, what an opportunity for you to make sure all of us "dummies" realized being born in 1972 makes her 40. And, you like curves on girls, other girls, just not on you in any wrong place. You're mean and fake. I hope they give you the boot as soon as Reza gets the commission check cashed!

hopelogin
hopelogin

I don't drink but I'm the life of a party anyway. Your just mean  and boring time for you to say goodbye.

TargaryenDany
TargaryenDany

Love you! You are so intelligent and real! You call it like it is and I respect you for it. People that don't like you are just jealous...sorry people it's true!

cyannokia
cyannokia

You don't drink, but you are willing to do all types of stuff to your body. whatever lily

ogates
ogates

 @Trixiebelle

The "heart" wants what the heart "feels" it wants until it doesn't anymore...

but really--Lilly shouldn't date till her heart decides...

Pasadena47
Pasadena47

 @Trixiebelle

 Perhaps not that educated.  She acted awfully stupid by ditching a perfectly good man so that she could brag about a man whom could care less about her. 

cinchy
cinchy

 @StephanieAnnGil I so agree.  Lily, you take the high road.  You're not the Mean Girl that MJ is.

Beevee
Beevee

@jellybean818 My sentiments exactly. I feel embarrassed for her and it is hard to watch. Why does she need a glam squad to help her to get ready for a date? I sense there are a lot insecurity issues with Lily and that may explain the ten year wait for the ex to propose and the hiding behind the 30lb extensions and slabs of makeup! I too hope the publicity has helped her swim line!

SunShyne_in_Florida
SunShyne_in_Florida

 @kantoine

 

LMBO. I was falling asleep when Trophy Wife came on, but similar to you, I could have sworn that Jennifer was Lily.   Hilarious.  The only difference is that they live in different states.

Mommyjam
Mommyjam

 @kantoine I saw that too and I was thinking wow, they're like twins!!!  Except Jennifer's man looks like he's really into her.  Lilly's man is not into her.  Otherwise, exact look alike!

selena78
selena78

 @kantoine

 Their best friends and are partners in that swimwear business

foxymama1
foxymama1

 @cranberrylaw Honestly, I do not agree with men taking advantage of women. You probably think he can't do any better than you. Just the opposite you are so stuck on yourself it is nausiating. You are pissed because you had to be called out on it, Get your head out of the clouds, you are so superficial you need true friends around that will tell you the truth about yourself.  

TargaryenDany
TargaryenDany

1.  Learn how to use contractions(and, but, etc.)

2.  Lilly is not "passive aggressive"  she is simply aggressive.  MJ is the passive aggressive one.  I suggest you find a dictionary to clear that up.

3. MJ doesn't "look good"  #sorrynotsorry  #theTRUTH

cindy1963
cindy1963

 @Pasadena47  @Trixiebelle I really don't like the way she handled the whole "date" thing. IMO I think it is very rude to talk about your "ex" if you are on a date with someone else. I don't care if it is your first date or your 10th date, talking about someone that you are "still in love with" and wishing that person was there with you at the moment is just not a COOL thing to do. Perhaps I am old-fashioned but that's the way I feel! And then she can't even remember the poor guy's name? Come on, if you're so educated then start sounding like you are! You really lost points with me in this episode. You seemed so "stuck up" in Mexico, like if it was so beneath you being there. Wow, it must be tough going from San Tropez to Cabo San Lucas, huh? I'm being sarcastic but that is the way you came across. Sorry.

DJ49
DJ49

 @TargaryenDany

 

"And" and "but"  are not contractions.  They are conjunctions.    A contraction is a combination of two words like "won't", "can't", "don't", "you're", "they're", etc.