First of all, MJ actually said, "These people were my friends FIRST," which is the truth and doesn't need defending. Second Lilly and MJ were exchanging catty remarks, and I don't see how this is anybody else's business but theirs. How are you going to have a fight with someone and then blame the other people? I really wish Lilly would get more real about things.
I apologized to Lilly because I did not want her to be hurt by my actions, however I expect the same type of respect and accountability for her actions. To be honest, it's difficult to be friends with someone who is always condescending and thinks they are better than everybody else.