Ben Way

Ben dishes on the awkward dynamic caused by his desire to date Sarah.

on Nov 19, 20120

The mess with my sister and Sarah is why you should never mix business and pleasure -- things can get complicated very quickly. Unfortunately it is also natural to do business with people you know, like, and trust, so it is not always possible to avoid.

However since my sister and I are now working together and living together, it can get complicated quickly. Sarah is attractive and I can’t help but want to take her out, but at the same time I don’t want to upset my sister so I am trying to walk this fine line. I just hope my sister and Sarah have finally sorted it out, or I may have to choose between my sister and Sarah, and that is a battle that Sarah would lose.

Just to complicate things Hermione is now dating Jay, and Sarah has it in her mind that she and Jay were dating, so you have a crazy dynamic where I want to date the girl that my sister’s date was dating! But you only live once, so I am prepared to take a risk and try with Sarah again. We had a great time at SXSW, but it was nothing really more than some chemistry. However chemistry should not be ignored. I just hope that Sarah is not as complicated as everyone makes her out to be, so I will give her the benefit of the doubt, for now.

4 comments
sandy47
sandy47

If i were you  I would stay away from Sarah, You saw what she did to Jay. Also I think your sister knows Sarah and is just looking out for you because she knows how crazy she is.

Just_A_Viewer
Just_A_Viewer

Ben, I think that you are a hard woker and a very bright person. I think you better off to run the business by yourself.  Your sister is dragging you down.  As far as Sarah, if you like her, you should ask her out.  You sister needs to stay out of your business and you shouldn't get in between the girl fight.  You need to man up and make your own decision.  I don't think that Sarah is really into you.  She does not like a weak man.............and I don't blame her.

awex
awex

Oh Ben, you are brilliant. I am hoping nothing progresses with you and Sarah because your time deserves to be spent with someone who has a banging bod and a smaller ego. 

Just_A_Viewer
Just_A_Viewer

I think man likes to challenge....they like to chase things that are hard to get