For the most part, I agree with you on how you do business--the no sex before monogramy, etc., but you really need to be more consistently diplomatic when talking to people. Calling people firecrotch is just tasteless and tacky. You said you didn't do tacky but apparently you can! Not classy at all!
I watched two episodes back to back where the men brought a second girl on the date. This was the funniest TV I have seen in a long time. Where do you find these guys? For some reason, they think money (and not virtues like kindness and caring) will get them what they want in life. No surprises they are still single. I loved the comment about how he chose his date even though she was not the hottest girl in the room. You can't make up this stuff!
I felt sorry for Kevin, I think he's more clueless than malicious. I agree with Patti that it's a long process. He followed his MO and started with a seduction not a date but I liked it that he just said ok when she said no and still dated her after. That's a small step, but it's still a step towards learing a new way.
Justin was punishing Jennifer for Patti's sins. There's no saving him, that's his personality and the way he handles his problems. Kate is perfect for him. Were Jennifer a little older and wiser she might not have started trying on dresses to begin with, but at the very least she'd have gotten dressed and left as soon as Kate walked in.
SHOCKED that Jennifer just didn't get up and leave the minute the "other girl" walked into the room. I'm yelling at the TV - "Just leave, just leave. He doesn't deserve another minute with you!!!"
What i find weird about this show is,,people think she has a data base of woman for men,yet you see on the show is a group of strangers come in a few days before and she picks a few and invites them to a " mixer ".
To pay 10 to 15k for that is crazy!
Patti, I'd never show on t.v. how you find these woman.
Patti - I love your show - you're wonderful - and your crew are fab too. I'm originally from Canada - Justin is by no means the norm - I very rarely am ashamed of being Canadian - but hats off to you Justin - thanks for that you jerk! It just goes to show - money can't buy class. And what's up with that Kate - she accepts his line about her really being his first pick - umm - no - quite clearly - she was NOT his first pick. I'm not sure if I want her to bring a guy with her on their next date or if he should bring another girl... they are both rejects.
Bravo Patti!! Justin will never know if a girl is interested in him because he he is caring and incredibly generous of heart or because he can drop a dime on a girl. And men wonder why they feel like all girls are "gold diggers"...lols. Justin, news, if you didn't have a dollar to your name, these girls wouldn't even be giving you the time of day! You have $$$s and I, an intelligent, independent, incredibly attractive individual, wouldn't look twice at you. Patti, if ever CA needed your services, they need it now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Best.
I couldn't BELIEVE both girls stayed on the date with Justin, especially #1. They even seemed to compete for him. Truly sad. And self-hating. Oh, and stupid, as neither could see he's using them like Kleenex.
Patti is smart and sassy. However she should know better than to pick a 21 year old for a 40 year old.
I feel bad for Jennifer, and Justin is absolutely ridiculous!! I literally sat there with my jaw dropped when Kate walked in, and from there-on-out! I wish I had been there in person! Too bad I'm not a millionaire; I don't think I could afford her taste. She's even Jewish!! =P Seriously though, I don't even have words for that guy...
Love the show but you really should change your "rules" about what happens when both millionaires choose the same girl. Having the girl choose the millionaire publicly is an embarrassment to the millionaire not chosen. Furthermore, having the losing millionaire ask the "runner up" out on a date is very awkward. I would personally never put my clients/guests into that kind of position.
I think you should discuss the situation with the dually chosen girl in private, let her choose, and then let the millionaire's know in private so the losing one can decide what to do next and avoid a potentially uncomfortable situation.
Just my 2 cents. Thanks for the great show.
I am really worried about Jamie, that guy Kevin is just awful and that is putting it mildly, please can someone warn Jamie, last i saw she was still dating him, I really am worried about her she seems like a really wonderful girl!
So Patti yelled at the one guy for having a spreadsheet on the girls he dates to keep them straight, BUT THEN she went to her LAPTOP database of GIRLS to find more for the mixer.
If you have to have a database of clients Patti to remember who they are, you should cut those one loose!
Can a normal college guy like myself date one of the millionaires and show these millionaire boys how to win over a real woman??
I'm not cocky or trying to be egocentric, I just know that I have the qualities to make a match.
I think you should seriously consider it as like a little flip to the show bring in a normal guy to try out his chances with millionaires :D.
Thanks for taking the time to read this.. your show is great.. it just drives me up a wall how stupid the guys are.
I actually feel sorry for Justin and Kevin because they are sooooo socially clueless. Who brings a second girl on a date? Way to make a person feel special!!! As for Kevin, it was so uncomfortable to watch his presumption that his date would stay the night. Have these tactics worked for these guys in the past???
If I was livng in the west coast I would definalty get in touch for my partner. I am single and find ithard to meet the right man.
If the guy that brought the second choice date along could just see himself as the world sees him. A real jerk that deserves to be kicked off the show with no refund. No rules apply to him? Who does he think he is? It is no wonder this punk is single at 40 going on 12. There is something sick about a guy like this. What was the goofy girl thinking that went along with the scenerio since she knew ahead of time he was going to use her as a pawn in his chess game against Jennifer. Take the jewels and the dress for your trouble, I say!! He may have money but he has no class. The blonde bimbo gets what she deserves! Girlpower!
I love this show and love Patti! I don't know how you deal with these guys, most of whom seem just awful. Good luck Patti, you deserve every penny you get. I can't wait for you to come to NYC and teach the men here to grow up and get real!
Patti, I love Jennifer!! She is soooo beautiful and I just loved her personality even more!! Wonder if she would like a good ol' Kentucky boy? So glad she didn't pick either of the guys on tonights show. HI JENNIFER!
Patti- I offered my opinions earlier.
You need to expand and focus a season for NYC. I can lead this operation - with over 15 yrs of HR, Recruiting & Executive planning, I am on the money.
I am the gal to lead this and we are an EEO employer.
Let me know your thoughts.
Patti, Justin is an idiot. He had a great girl. Jennifer is gorgeous, young and accomplished! If he doesnt want to date her, I'm single, 19, and a millionare in the making. Hook me up. =)