This is the first time I saw the show, so I was not familiar with the leads or format. I am somewhat sure Patti knows her business and methods, but I was sad that she felt as if she had to CHANGE Dylan and his moose pants. He has become successful in business by being himself, he is obviously ecstatic and happy with himself; why do you feel it is necessary for him to change to find love? Also, he is a Duke grad who loves business and is well educated. I did not see any women who were as educated, successful, and ambitious as he. Why didn't you recruit well educated Palo Alto area grads of Stanford and Berkeley? Or at least a woman who saw the film StartUp.com

Of course, I admit that the eye candy women made for better television, but in terms of long-term matchmaking, the selections did not seem as good as they could have been.

I am totally crushing on Dylan! He is such a cutie! *blush* Can I please have him!?

love your show & YOU, patti! and love that dylan! good luck to him & that dolly of his. he is an absolute hottie, i must say... just laughed & laughed at the lawn mower and all the lawn around you... and how he is deathly afraid of breakin the rules. my kind of guy. go get her, dylan! xoxox

Patty, love your show, love you, love the attitude!!! You tell it like it is! Would love to just give you a high five in person!!!!!!
Rickie, from Indiana~

i watched your show tonight for the first time and i saw a girl that i really thought was so sweet i just caught her as she was ending her interview with pattie, she was asain and petite and from california, i didnt hear what she did but i would guess she was an actress, i would love to meet her?? how could this happen?? i am from florida/ thanks george

-I watch the show and sometimes yell at some of these guys...JUST LISTEN TO HER FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!!!!

Patti:
You should come to K-State to recruit more girls like Farrah! Some of us can handle our alcohol a little bit better! Loved it! Go State!

I am 57 black female I am presently in college for my associate degree. I works as an associate buyer for surgery, and also a security clerk which pays for my schooling. I am looking or a prosperous whom can spend time with outside of my jobs. I do have down time, but I need a man to understand my drive to complete school What should I do?

Patti: I love your show. I found your show last year while mending from some minor surgery and I was fascinated since I am a matchmaker as well...with people -but as a headhunter I match careers and you handle love. Your show is great and love your style...your guy from Vegas the one former Chicago, Joe d I think is transformed. You are funny, down to earth and direct...some listen those who don't are the losers.

Keep up the great work. Jean

Oops...didn't know why my message wasn't posting.

Thought it was due to too many characters.

You now have four messages from me stating basically the same thing again and again.

I didn't see the pending approval part. Guess I need to pay more attention.

Sorry!

Kerry Queen

Thanks for all you do on your show Patti. You have helped me guide my 18 year old and 13 year old daughters into the dating world.

I have been remarried for 16 years, am rusty as to the ways of dating, and I value your ability to show my daughters how men (and women) behave when they are trying to impress for various reasons.

You are a gem and the Dolly Levi of our generation. <>{]=)

Thank you Patti! You have helped me educate my 18 year old and 13 year old daughters as to what to watch out for in the dating world.

I have been re-married for 16 years and am rusty as to the art of dating and male manipulation (yes, that can be taken so many ways).

I appreciate you very much and I adore your ability to get to the core of each person psychologically while gently guiding them to being better people. Don't change your language ever. It jerks the jerks into listening to what you have to say.

You are a true gem and the Dolly Levi of this millenium. <>{]=)

I,m very pretty but 45 years old.I want to marry .I live in Miami sudied classic music .My interest are business and much more.
regards
Petia

Jill Zarin is a biotch. I thought you had keen insight when it came to human nature until I saw you were siding with Jill.I won't be watching your show again.

I am 28 yrs old. i live in boynton beach florida.I was wondering how someone can get on your show? I am not a millionaire actually far from one,but i keep meeting the wrong guys.

Hillel is a dream! My husband says we are a perfect match! Now in my 40's I am a total chubby chaser and I'll leave the Lance Armstrongs of the world behind!

Patti,

Why do you have such a negative attitude regarding redheads? You once said that "red heads are used up". Do you think Julia Roberts, Rita Hayworth, Debra Messing and Juliane Moore are "used up?" Why don't you try putting some redheads and strawberry blondes in the mix? Instead of all those fake blondes. There are a lot of smart classy redheads in the world. Certainly smarter than your blonde bimbos with the big fake boobs.

Ah Patty I love you... and your honesty! You are extremely witty and your catch-phrases make me laugh out loud!

I thought that Dylan was absolutely adorable and totally someone I would date. He is such a gentleman, friendly, cute, and just a genuinely nice person. Very rare. He seems like such a sweet person and I really hope he finds a really nice girl who treats him like he deserves!

I thought that Dylan was absolutely adorable and totally someone I would date. He is such a gentleman, friendly, cute, and just a genuinely nice person. Very rare. He seems like such a sweet person and I really hope he finds a really nice girl who treats him like he deserves!

Patti, You go girl with your mad love skill! Loving it!

you are so beautiful and very intuitive. It would be nice if the language used would be more ladylike and not so lets say classless. Overall, your hindsight gives you very accurate oversight. I hope it is genuine.

Patti, I commend you for helping people around the world find love which matters more than anything in this world...Without love, what else is there? Again, thank you so very much for your love you share with others....You ROCK!!!!

Ms. Patti,

Please learn how to pronounce Boca Raton, Florida.

Raton is pronounced like Dial Tone.
Try it Baca Ra Tone !
One more time - Boca Raton, Florida.

Very good.
Boca Raton Resident.

I have found it interesting to watch Millionaire Matchmaker, but a recent episode, which incidentally aired during the day had Patti Stanger remarking, " I like C--K!". I am no prude but that was the most disgusting comment to make, even if she did just spell it, there are minors running around in their homes hearing this! How crude and irresponsible can you be? I will no longer watch this show, and will tell everyone I know why they shouldn't either.

Patti congrats on your engagements,I think your ring is a little cheesy heart shaped aahhh, anyway I heard you and Jill Zarin are best friends and you all do alot of taking about the other woman on bravo thats not cool for a lady that reads people energy is that what you say...you should slow down on the gossip if you want a happy life wit your future hubby. Otherwise your show is nice I wish they had that twenty years ago when I was looking for mr. right oh well some of your millionaires are jerks to put mildly and you have to act like a den mother to them they are so juvenile and inmature I see why they are single, money can't buy you love and happiness thats for sure later!!!!

Where do we find women like this ... who are nice enough to overlook such things as a guy who doesn't seem to have an edge (after only one date, of course), and who don't seem to mind a guy who's almost falling all over himself complimenting her and fawning all over her trying to please her left and right on the first date. Not that I object to compliments, not that I don't think guys should treat women nicely. It's just that these are two good examples of what usually make women run as fast as they can.

I watched the episode and had a good time. I am glad Patti is able to help each of these guys out as they are both great guys - just a little lost in the dating scheme. My last role in employment was a Lead Technology Contract Negotiator for Citigroup so I saw the both extremes of corporate to technical (and everything in between). Equally, many get a little lost in a demanding career. I give Patti and her team a GOLD STAR. JMM John M. Mereness, Esq.

Can you give out the info on the name of Hillel Presser's company the muffin man. I watched the show and the muffins looked like the perfect gift.
Thanks. Love your show.

Hello, Patty!! I'm watching your show right now and is soo funny. OMG!! Loved your muffin man!!! And to me is even funnier because im also a lawyer, 32, never been married, no kids, have traveled the world and single, I'm brunette and I come from money. If you ask anybody why it would be because I haven't found anybody with enough substance. And i looovedd how he looked, he looks sweet and just needs love. Like all of us do!! Anyway if you don't find the right match for him I'm available!!

BTW, loved your show.

Hey my name is Dom I'm watching you show while I should be writting an assignment for school, but I'm not, I'm not rich so you probably won't talk to me. Thats fine, but don't you think it's a little hypocritical to judge socially helpless millionaires? I mean I find your chivalrous rules entertaining, it's great, but you matched females up with guys based on their bank account, and the worst ones. Not all millionaires are like that, and I'd like to see your show mix some old money in there and set some real examples. I think you're problem is you're dealing with a bunch of west coast pansies who really don't have a great grasp on reality. I also want to add that you should stop looking for funny women as matches on your show because you won't find any. Most females who go for M.O.E, or Money Over Everything, don't have strong personalities and are usually insecure about themselves.
Respectfully,
Dom S.

Hi Patty:

I love your show!! I've been watching for a while, (my partner got my hooked!), but I have to comment on the word shiksa that you use. I know that the common usage is simply a non-Jewish woman, but I thought you might want to know that the meaning of the word is really, "abomination', which is why I don't use it anymore. It's such common verbiage, (among some of us), that we don't really know where it comes from. Whether or not you choose to keep using it, I hope this is useful knowledge.
Yours Truly,
Rabbi Wendy Ungar